<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344</id><updated>2012-01-27T11:18:26.134+05:30</updated><category term='Dowry'/><category term='Shiney Ahuja'/><category term='IFF'/><category term='Mass Rape'/><category term='domestic violence'/><category term='Indian Family Foundation'/><category term='bell bajao'/><category term='Alimony'/><category term='mens day'/><category term='sexual harassment at workplace'/><category term='Indian Women'/><category term='Women'/><category term='Husbands'/><category term='ministry for men'/><category term='Sowry'/><category term='Supreme Court'/><category term='katju'/><category term='Empowerment'/><category term='Rape'/><category term='DV'/><category term='406'/><category term='ncm'/><category term='adultery'/><category term='498a'/><category term='Gang rape'/><category term='498a 406'/><category term='womens day'/><category term='save indian family'/><category term='Mens Movement'/><category term='jail'/><category term='D V Act'/><title type='text'>IPC Section 498-A: Misuse</title><subtitle type='html'>Dedicated to the Victimised Indian Families, Who are falsely threatened &amp; Blackmailed by the Indian Daughters-In-Law &amp; her family members, and those Victimised families who are already falsely charged under the Section 498A. Its all about False charges of Dowry Law, Domestic Violence, Alimony, Marriage and Divorce.

NOTE: All articles are my personal copyright. They may be republished if the source is acknowledged and a link provided to this site. This is not an Anti-Women Blog. Read Disclaimer.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default?start-index=101&amp;max-results=100'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>116</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-8620445092060602227</id><published>2012-01-01T23:15:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2012-01-01T23:18:17.088+05:30</updated><title type='text'>False 498a and Domestic Violence Police Complaint</title><summary type='text'>The Officially Unknown Truth behind a Wife's False Complaint against Husband, his Siblings and Parents.
I would like to thank the team behind this episode for informing people about the other side of the Torture. Below are the clips from a gujarati Serial "Chhutta Chhedda" meaning Divorce. This episode shows how the husband's family including his mother and sister are harassed by wife under the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/8620445092060602227/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=8620445092060602227&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8620445092060602227'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8620445092060602227'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2012/01/false-498a-and-domestic-violence-police.html' title='False 498a and Domestic Violence Police Complaint'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-8478874233225847695</id><published>2011-11-25T02:57:00.001+05:30</published><updated>2011-11-25T03:24:58.037+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Poison Pill at Jhalianwalah baug: DV Act &amp; 50% Asset Bill for Wife</title><summary type='text'>Q: If you were stuck at Jhalianwalah baug with your family where there is a blind shoot out. What would be your 1st reaction after safe guarding your family?

Well I would try and protect myself as well, but with no option left I would end my life gracefully rather than the disgraceful bullet.  


Cases like 498a, 406 on whole family, 125 etc, DV Act &amp; 50% asset share bill are like Hostile </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/8478874233225847695/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=8478874233225847695&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8478874233225847695'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8478874233225847695'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2011/11/poison-pill-at-jhalianwalah-baug-dv-act.html' title='Poison Pill at Jhalianwalah baug: DV Act &amp; 50% Asset Bill for Wife'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-lcB9hTfPbWA/Ts6xSITJ5BI/AAAAAAAAAOg/Y_kJXYuzCzk/s72-c/jal4.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-3428605275645197156</id><published>2011-10-22T16:33:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2011-10-22T17:23:07.623+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Nazar Lagi Raja Tore Bangle Parr - Wife's Equal Share in Hubby's Assets.</title><summary type='text'>Maharashtra, Arguably the Feminist Capital of the country in Implementing Laws, soon may be Bombarded with one extremely biased anti-husband Law. An overboard Feminist View is about to set in. Once Again talks of Wife's Rights, NOT Responsibilities. Apparently looks legally Dictatorial and would leave Wife fully Empowered like the British and leaving the Indian Husband "Helpless" like a wounded </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/3428605275645197156/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=3428605275645197156&amp;isPopup=true' title='8 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/3428605275645197156'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/3428605275645197156'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2011/10/nazar-lagi-raja-tore-bangle-parr-wifes.html' title='Nazar Lagi Raja Tore Bangle Parr - Wife&apos;s Equal Share in Hubby&apos;s Assets.'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-WYoPgp21_Rs/TqKciyBJ1UI/AAAAAAAAAOY/3pC3KNqJpJw/s72-c/wife%2527s+share+in+hubby%2527s+property.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>8</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-5987677532111876389</id><published>2011-10-15T20:03:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2011-10-15T21:50:59.074+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Domestic Violence on MEN</title><summary type='text'>Domestic Violence.

Few days back an eye opening call from Mr Neeraj Gupta of Delhi inspired me to write this. He was quite concerned for the violence in TATA Ad. I watched the Ad and later saw series of other ads. I discovered actually punching bag is a MALE. The stats of male as perpetrator are all superficial, thanks to RTI.
It can be concluded well that world Survives by Torturing MEN even </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/5987677532111876389/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=5987677532111876389&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/5987677532111876389'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/5987677532111876389'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2011/10/domestic-violence-on-men.html' title='Domestic Violence on MEN'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-8842005026775298404</id><published>2011-06-23T23:21:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2011-06-23T23:56:23.439+05:30</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sexual harassment at workplace'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Rape'/><title type='text'>Sexual Harassment of Indian Male</title><summary type='text'> 
Well this is India. Totally different from what we see in Stats that show harassment on women by men. But with no provision of machinery for Males to record complain we would never get the correct picture. 
Imagine the same content above (with gender roles reversed), if it was written by a lady to one of the popular columnists, the Advise would have been to file either a 498a or DV (in case of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/8842005026775298404/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=8842005026775298404&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8842005026775298404'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8842005026775298404'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2011/06/sexual-harassment-of-indian-male.html' title='Sexual Harassment of Indian Male'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-qjg8z5XpTss/TgN3gLZALDI/AAAAAAAAAOU/vZlZv7YhvrQ/s72-c/women+can+s+a+men.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-7551187764740503693</id><published>2011-05-01T12:57:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2011-05-02T18:24:35.018+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Shoot the Lawyer Twice.</title><summary type='text'>
Never outsource your case.“You're trapped in a room with a tiger, a rattlesnake and a lawyer. You have a gun with two bullets. What should you do? the answer is Shoot the lawyer. Twice. 
This is what majority of the people will tell you who have hired a lawyer thinking this is another superman/woman clad in a black suit and will rescue me from the clutches of my problems. People with no interest</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/7551187764740503693/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=7551187764740503693&amp;isPopup=true' title='19 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/7551187764740503693'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/7551187764740503693'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2011/05/shoot-lawyer-twice.html' title='Shoot the Lawyer Twice.'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>19</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-4545334304865187667</id><published>2011-04-01T17:06:00.004+05:30</published><updated>2011-04-01T22:01:08.120+05:30</updated><title type='text'>24x7x365 April Fool of Indian Husbands &amp; Courts.</title><summary type='text'>I Always wanted to write this article from past 5 years but was missing this date of 1st April, due to some or the other work. 

On 1st April one makes a prank on a victim, misleads him and later the victim discovers that he is been made a bakra. Husbands and the Indian Courts are the biggest Victims of Pranks year on year. Seven years ago, it was tough to prove the point that 498a is misused </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/4545334304865187667/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=4545334304865187667&amp;isPopup=true' title='9 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/4545334304865187667'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/4545334304865187667'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2011/04/24x7x365-april-fool-of-indian-husbands.html' title='24x7x365 April Fool of Indian Husbands &amp; Courts.'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>9</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-2862374955792495163</id><published>2011-01-14T16:28:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2011-01-14T17:23:22.637+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Don’t Dump the Daughters</title><summary type='text'>A PAN Card applicant in India whether a boy or a married girl has to provide his/hers fathers name as a permanent identity. The reason is simple, it is biological and cannot be SUBSTITUTED, any discrimination is human made and not natural it’s the same rule for both a male and a female. 
I have been wanting to write about this since long but never got the time. Then I missed an opportunity to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/2862374955792495163/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=2862374955792495163&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/2862374955792495163'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/2862374955792495163'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2011/01/dont-dump-daughters.html' title='Don’t Dump the Daughters'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-8660466577021670379</id><published>2010-12-17T23:46:00.001+05:30</published><updated>2010-12-17T23:58:59.646+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Suicides: NEVER break open the door.</title><summary type='text'>Off late I have got a couple of cases of IPC Section 306 in Mumbai western. Section 306 is filed when the wife commits suicide and the abetment charges are levied on the group of people whom the parents or relatives of wife presume or suspect as the abettors. 
By default the ones staying under the same roof, i.e the famous Indian Joint Family becomes a part of the package aftermath massacre which</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/8660466577021670379/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=8660466577021670379&amp;isPopup=true' title='10 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8660466577021670379'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8660466577021670379'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2010/12/suicides-never-break-open-door.html' title='Suicides: NEVER break open the door.'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/TQuosQSOjaI/AAAAAAAAAOA/Jaz_jLBPe78/s72-c/suicide+hanging.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>10</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-4331585233787261434</id><published>2010-11-13T12:44:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2010-11-14T16:45:47.187+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Words are sharper than Swords!!!!</title><summary type='text'>Here’s the proof milord!! Laxmans and his family members are vulnerable in Kalyug, to the Verbal abuse of Women. They are committing suicide, and have no legal aid. They are neglected.  
The males have been shouting since quite a while to explain that “Words are sharper than Swords”, and males are highly vulnerable to them too. Women are better speakers than males and they can present verbal </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/4331585233787261434/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=4331585233787261434&amp;isPopup=true' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/4331585233787261434'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/4331585233787261434'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2010/11/words-are-sharper-than-swords.html' title='Words are sharper than Swords!!!!'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/TN453WEjS5I/AAAAAAAAAN8/oGpaR6wljag/s72-c/rakhi_kainaaz_kiss.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-5839599600109300249</id><published>2010-08-31T23:40:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2010-09-04T23:58:03.661+05:30</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='save indian family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='498a'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ministry for men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><title type='text'>Husbands are Human Too - My Free Press Journal Article</title><summary type='text'>


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The ratio is almost double, 33 married women commit suicide out of hundred and 67 married men (rounded figures-NCRB), yet there are media news and blogs that get comments and sympathies that </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/2992135053307141174/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=2992135053307141174&amp;isPopup=true' title='8 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/2992135053307141174'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/2992135053307141174'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2010/06/indian-husband-vote-bank.html' title='Indian Husband: a Vote Bank'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>8</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-605953266674924502</id><published>2010-05-10T23:17:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2010-05-10T23:32:12.392+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Indefinite Dharna for a Definite Purpose.</title><summary type='text'>Here is a man who is very simple and straight forward. He likes to fight against injustice and insist upon truth. He is stationed at Azad Maidan with his wife and he knows there are enough problems for people that go unnoticed and accommodating to the problem and finding a way out is the only way that Indians of independent India have witnessed at large.But he knows that fighting back is the only</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/605953266674924502/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=605953266674924502&amp;isPopup=true' title='13 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/605953266674924502'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/605953266674924502'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2010/05/indefinate-dharna-for-definate-purpose.html' title='Indefinite Dharna for a Definite Purpose.'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S-hC8b-7PzI/AAAAAAAAAME/IHy9ZHczMPA/s72-c/498a+dharna+gangurde.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>13</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-4988958892646247056</id><published>2010-04-09T17:09:00.001+05:30</published><updated>2010-04-09T17:49:48.411+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Make a wish through a False 498a and DV act</title><summary type='text'>If you are an Indian Wife and you want to fight, extort Money from your hubby, then Just Make a wish and the Wife Centric Indian Law would fulfill it. With so many 498a misuse cases seen in and around us in the society now everyone agrees that the misuse is existing and in majority of the cases. Because all realise that the cases are filed only with one motive and that is to fulfill a desire by </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/4988958892646247056/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=4988958892646247056&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/4988958892646247056'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/4988958892646247056'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2010/04/make-wish-through-false-498a-and-dv-act.html' title='Make a wish through a False 498a and DV act'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-6401240285515660206</id><published>2010-04-08T19:34:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2010-04-08T19:34:54.286+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Indian Husband or Husband of an Indian: Both Suffer.</title><summary type='text'>Being a staunch Gujju Hindu and that too a hard core Mumbaikar it is very difficult for me to support a Pakistani. But I realise that a husband is vulnerable so long as the indian tag is involved in any way. Be it an Indian Husband or a Husband to an Indian, you are equally vulnerable as you are exposed to the misuse of the Indian Penal Codes on you. 
Apart from civil dispute IPC 420 is still </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/6401240285515660206/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=6401240285515660206&amp;isPopup=true' title='10 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/6401240285515660206'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/6401240285515660206'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2010/04/indian-husband-or-husband-of-indian.html' title='Indian Husband or Husband of an Indian: Both Suffer.'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>10</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-1340235237128248557</id><published>2010-03-15T23:45:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2010-03-15T23:54:45.218+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Free Press Journal Invites to Write on WRB</title><summary type='text'>My article was published in Free Press Journals' Sunday "Weekend" Suppliment's Front Page on 14th March 2010. I thank Ketan Tanna from the Free Press Journal to extend an invitation to write on Womens Reservation Bill.

Arguing In favor for the bill was Ms. Kalpana Sharma an Independent Columnist. While, I had the privilege of representing the SIF Side of the Story. (Click on the picture for </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/1340235237128248557/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=1340235237128248557&amp;isPopup=true' title='12 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/1340235237128248557'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/1340235237128248557'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2010/03/free-press-journal-invites-to-write-on.html' title='Free Press Journal Invites to Write on WRB'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S553VrJB5rI/AAAAAAAAAL0/9vRRpMRhdeI/s72-c/free+press+jinesh.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>12</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-8175163698017923586</id><published>2010-03-08T09:31:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2010-03-18T23:43:04.145+05:30</updated><title type='text'>MASHAAL - Mothers And Sisters of Husband Against Abuse of Law</title><summary type='text'>MASHAAL Forum Mumbai - Mothers And Sisters of Husband Against Abuse of Law.

 Weekly Meetings: Borivali E National Park Every Sunday - 11 amMulund E Deshmukh Garden Every Saturday - 5 pmCall: 976 977 0 498email: mashaal@iff-ngo.com 

TOI Coverage on 8th of March: 


When bad bahu harasses saas                

                 Rebecca Samervel | TNN                               

Mumbai: A </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/8175163698017923586/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=8175163698017923586&amp;isPopup=true' title='9 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8175163698017923586'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8175163698017923586'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2010/03/mashaal-mothers-and-sisters-of-husband.html' title='MASHAAL - Mothers And Sisters of Husband Against Abuse of Law'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S5RuBUaEthI/AAAAAAAAALk/tvzHFlpRHaM/s72-c/mashaal-iff+group.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>9</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-7364291796132577976</id><published>2010-02-24T00:22:00.006+05:30</published><updated>2010-02-25T01:09:18.539+05:30</updated><title type='text'>My Dear Sachin Tendulkar</title><summary type='text'>I became an ardent fan of Tendulkar only because of his Father. Whom I had met at Patkar College Goregaon Mumbai, in Nov 1997 in a 4L Elocution Competition. I was that time a pompous manager of Aptech who had sponsored the competition. I reached late to the event as a busy manager, then sat on an empty chair next to an Old Humble Gentleman. To all college Students who were aptechites and </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/7364291796132577976/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=7364291796132577976&amp;isPopup=true' title='9 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/7364291796132577976'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/7364291796132577976'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2010/02/my-dear-sachin-tendulkar.html' title='My Dear Sachin Tendulkar'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S4V14RABpdI/AAAAAAAAALU/LWL9ccV7_54/s72-c/sachhubat.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>9</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-4823775367723241982</id><published>2010-02-20T18:55:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2010-02-20T18:55:44.505+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Domestic POK's</title><summary type='text'>Terrorism promotes fear, and Terrorism cannot be justified as a Fight for the downtrodden. I remember Gandhiji telling his freedom fighter brothers that we are not fighting for Punishing anyone, we are fighting for a CHANGE.   
  On the other hand Terrorism is caused by empowering one person who justifies the atrocities by committing the same on innocents. On the similar lines Pakistan officially</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/4823775367723241982/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=4823775367723241982&amp;isPopup=true' title='11 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/4823775367723241982'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/4823775367723241982'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2010/02/domestic-poks.html' title='Domestic POK&apos;s'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>11</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-8793949817534985780</id><published>2010-02-08T19:20:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2010-02-09T22:13:31.577+05:30</updated><title type='text'>SIF Scores at Inter Collegiate Medical Symposium</title><summary type='text'>After the Mass Media Group of Rizvi College Bandra in 2006-7 who stood 1st in their sociology project, This year a group of young Medical Students at Grant Medical College Mumbai, have identified Battered Husband Syndrome as Valid and have adopted this as a project. They are spreading awareness about something that has been ignored till decades now. That is to say that they have identified SIF’s </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/8793949817534985780/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=8793949817534985780&amp;isPopup=true' title='17 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8793949817534985780'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8793949817534985780'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2010/02/sif-scores-at-inter-collegiate-medical.html' title='SIF Scores at Inter Collegiate Medical Symposium'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S3AUm0rSB0I/AAAAAAAAAKE/VOyeLbu6yY4/s72-c/SIF-GMC-Project.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>17</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-3081387242032669664</id><published>2010-01-25T22:52:00.001+05:30</published><updated>2010-01-26T00:34:52.714+05:30</updated><title type='text'>He is a Man, He is a Human  too - A Tribute to MEN</title><summary type='text'>He was born for a Purpose, 
Inherited with no choice, 
on revolt he is often accused,
of having a loud voice.

He Dies for the Nation, 
he is a protector of generations, 
This unsung Hero, 
sadly is valued a Zero.

Religious but sinner, 
An obvious bread winner, 
He always needs to strive,
for his family to survive, 

Gets the blame in the game, 
pays through nose as per laws,
He does his every </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/3081387242032669664/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=3081387242032669664&amp;isPopup=true' title='13 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/3081387242032669664'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/3081387242032669664'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2010/01/he-is-man-he-is-human-too-tribute-to.html' title='He is a Man, He is a Human  too - A Tribute to MEN'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>13</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-6692436692740404391</id><published>2010-01-02T15:18:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2010-01-02T15:27:53.445+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Atrocities on Husbands Ignored, Bias Continues...</title><summary type='text'>When a women suffers there is a correct concern but when a male suffers nobody is bothered. May be the facts are not allowed to be presented correctly.


On Zee 24 Tas on Men's Day, One Lady Lawyer argued that amendments cannot be made just because few men are suffering. (I will soon upload the movie) the fact remains that not just men but his entire family suffers which is been treated with a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/6692436692740404391/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=6692436692740404391&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/6692436692740404391'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/6692436692740404391'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2010/01/atrocities-on-husbands-ignored-bias.html' title='Atrocities on Husbands Ignored, Bias Continues...'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/Sz8PH7Fj84I/AAAAAAAAAJ8/CSiXK8ab4Mk/s72-c/media+bias.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-771529200680328904</id><published>2009-12-16T19:00:00.004+05:30</published><updated>2009-12-16T19:25:45.237+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Clean Shave: A Lion's Story.</title><summary type='text'>Once upon a time there was a Lion, Majestic and dashing.  He had a lovely wife. Things were hunky dory till one day the Lioness read it in the media about one ad that promoted a clean shaven look. It was called as WALS: Women Against Lazy Stubble.

An extract of the press release read the following: 
"The message that WALS intends to spread to men across the country is three fold: 
1.      Till </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/771529200680328904/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=771529200680328904&amp;isPopup=true' title='13 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/771529200680328904'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/771529200680328904'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2009/12/clean-shave-lions-story.html' title='Clean Shave: A Lion&apos;s Story.'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/Syjb_KG_zZI/AAAAAAAAAIo/f7IQRgBjLaI/s72-c/lioness.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>13</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-8826656821211651231</id><published>2009-12-07T23:37:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2009-12-09T16:11:24.882+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Gil LET US DOWN</title><summary type='text'>Aaaah, 
As usual when it comes to critisicing MEN some copywriters go Overboard. It must be a very desperate marketing attempt. 

The Ignominious Shave India Movement is infected by the typical women name calling tactics as the movement is called WALS aka Women Against Lazy Stubble, read the following:

"The message that WALS intends to spread to men across the country is three fold: 
Till men </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/8826656821211651231/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=8826656821211651231&amp;isPopup=true' title='29 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8826656821211651231'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8826656821211651231'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2009/12/gil-let-us-down.html' title='Gil LET US DOWN'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/Sx6aaVrnIPI/AAAAAAAAAGg/Tuo6WQiyIDU/s72-c/hrithik-kites.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>29</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-6668187929652850811</id><published>2009-11-10T22:21:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2009-11-13T12:28:08.749+05:30</updated><title type='text'>MARD KO BHI DARD HOTA HAI</title><summary type='text'>   

MEN TOO FEEL THE PAIN

Whenever I am down, My brother always encourages me by telling “If Gandhiji was not thrown out of the Train, he would have served the British rule as an advocate. But he was the chosen one and so are you all”

Save Indian Family was a heart felt cry that came out in 2004-5 and today after all the humiliation Men have decided to create their own space rather than just </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/6668187929652850811/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=6668187929652850811&amp;isPopup=true' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/6668187929652850811'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/6668187929652850811'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2009/11/mard-ko-bhi-dard-hota-hai.html' title='MARD KO BHI DARD HOTA HAI'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/SvmYOfV7uCI/AAAAAAAAAGY/Yqvb46_XiTc/s72-c/international+mens+day.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-1572440507317348256</id><published>2009-10-28T18:08:00.001+05:30</published><updated>2009-10-28T18:22:42.641+05:30</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Mens Movement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='498a'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Indian Family Foundation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='IFF'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='D V Act'/><title type='text'>Indian Family Foundation (IFF) Launched</title><summary type='text'>Indian Family Foundation (Mumbai)

Name of the Group: Indian Family Foundation

Formed on: 26th October 2009

Contingents: Common people who are threatened or falsely implicated of Wife law misuse.

Least Common Factor: Harassed Husbands and Family Members

Highest Common Factor: the spirit of fighting back for their constitutional rights inspite of Rejection, Ignominy and underdog status, due to</summary><link rel='related' href='http://beta.thehindu.com/news/states/other-states/article38941.ece#' title='Indian Family Foundation (IFF) Launched'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/1572440507317348256/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=1572440507317348256&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/1572440507317348256'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/1572440507317348256'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2009/10/indian-family-foundation-iff-launched.html' title='Indian Family Foundation (IFF) Launched'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/Sug26KHvh7I/AAAAAAAAAGA/lJ0gYvY3Kqo/s72-c/jas+placard.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-4737507559923672187</id><published>2009-07-02T21:55:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2009-07-03T14:21:36.442+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Able Bodied</title><summary type='text'>I had seen this video 4-5 yrs back before SIF was formed. And it was one of those source that inspired me to go on in life.I have always wondered what would the judges in India (who blindly grant alimony as per an able bodied wife's wish) say after seeing this video.  This video should be shown to the Judges of Indian Courts who handle the alimony matters. Who grant Alimony to the Able Bodied </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/4737507559923672187/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=4737507559923672187&amp;isPopup=true' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/4737507559923672187'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/4737507559923672187'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2009/07/able-bodied.html' title='Able Bodied'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-6116913878016425117</id><published>2009-06-22T16:23:00.007+05:30</published><updated>2009-06-22T21:23:17.299+05:30</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Shiney Ahuja'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Gang rape'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='498a'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Rape'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Mass Rape'/><title type='text'>India: Mass Rape V/s Raping the Mass</title><summary type='text'>In past few days Rape wave in the media has again become Bullish. If we believe the headlines trend then it seems like Rapists suddenly have woken up from Slumber and that too in groups. Maybe the bureaucrats want to influence the minds of public via media to pass some stringent laws on rape again with specifics against men and non neutral with loop holes open for misuse. Oh ya we know what would</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/6116913878016425117/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=6116913878016425117&amp;isPopup=true' title='9 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/6116913878016425117'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/6116913878016425117'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2009/06/india-mass-rape-vs-raping-mass.html' title='India: Mass Rape V/s Raping the Mass'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>9</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-9143313266943629237</id><published>2009-06-21T21:46:00.005+05:30</published><updated>2009-06-21T22:14:47.984+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Essay Topic: My Father</title><summary type='text'>Today Evening I heard Rajesh Vakharia of SIF Nagpur sighing to me on the phone that his child did not make it on Fathers Day and he was pining and feeling very lonely for someone calling him Pappa. This pain in the voice inspired me to write this post on what could be the plight of the Child too. As I feel apart from Fathers, children deprived of parental love are the worst to suffer, deprival of</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/9143313266943629237/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=9143313266943629237&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/9143313266943629237'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/9143313266943629237'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2009/06/essay-topic-my-father.html' title='Essay Topic: My Father'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-1658992422279545603</id><published>2009-06-03T23:10:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2009-06-03T23:35:50.773+05:30</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='498a'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='DV'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='katju'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bell bajao'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Alimony'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Supreme Court'/><title type='text'>Ab kahan bell bajaou?</title><summary type='text'>Which door do we Knock?: Indian HusbandsWhen the bell bajao campaign hit the screens most of the males who had come for counseling informed me that they too knocked the door of the neighbors when their wives harassed them. In some cases Hubby and his parents were rescued by neighbors from a violent and abusive Surpanakha disguised as Chandi / Sita  who would only respect her illogical </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/1658992422279545603/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=1658992422279545603&amp;isPopup=true' title='15 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/1658992422279545603'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/1658992422279545603'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2009/06/ab-kahan-bell-bajaou.html' title='Ab kahan bell bajaou?'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>15</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-3231982221991253549</id><published>2009-03-30T15:49:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2009-03-30T16:35:34.750+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Bow Wow: Indian Police on Indian men</title><summary type='text'>Well actually I was very lucky in police matters when it was needed. As I did not face all the hurdles with the police that I get to hear from victims over the helpline and in meetings. But finally I saw how they treat Indian husbands and Indian Male by the very virtue of their being one.I witnessed two cases where the attitude of police was clearly not in favor of the male. One of them being </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/3231982221991253549/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=3231982221991253549&amp;isPopup=true' title='10 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/3231982221991253549'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/3231982221991253549'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2009/03/bow-wow-indian-police-on-indian-men.html' title='Bow Wow: Indian Police on Indian men'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>10</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-3827530143149691191</id><published>2009-03-10T21:15:00.001+05:30</published><updated>2009-03-11T21:47:12.275+05:30</updated><title type='text'>4 years ago SIF reported a bug.</title><summary type='text'>They were typical guys next door who wanted wife, who was a girl next door, their family did not bother about her financial well being but were bothered about her nature and attitude in life.Alas! Things did not go smooth with them. And they were victims of one sided Indian law(s). They were all from the hardworking ethical strata of society. With no criminal background of the family a normal </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/3827530143149691191/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=3827530143149691191&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/3827530143149691191'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/3827530143149691191'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2009/03/4-years-ago-sif-reported-bug.html' title='4 years ago SIF reported a bug.'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-5005198843979261531</id><published>2009-02-20T00:21:00.001+05:30</published><updated>2009-02-20T00:30:14.594+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Pappu can laugh Sala</title><summary type='text'>Every Sunday at National Park Borivali atleast 10 SIF members meet of which 30-50% are new entrants as of the trend in the past 3 months. After listening to all the stories we feel nice giving solutions too. But in the background Peter Tchaikovsky’s March Slave rings supreme. That is to say the mood is very depressive at times. But now Entertainer of Scott Joplin would ring in our ears.Well it is</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/5005198843979261531/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=5005198843979261531&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/5005198843979261531'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/5005198843979261531'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2009/02/pappu-can-laugh-sala.html' title='Pappu can laugh Sala'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-1731730875812191923</id><published>2009-01-18T22:53:00.013+05:30</published><updated>2009-01-19T21:35:03.509+05:30</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='jail'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ministry for men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Alimony'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ncm'/><title type='text'>Choose 1: Better Jail for Hubbies or Funding a Terrorist?</title><summary type='text'>Money is anyway going from our pockets, so let us Use it for Constructing a better and Separate Jail for Husbands rather than Funding a Financial Terrorist..I would quote Sant Kabir on begging.....“Mangan Maran Saman Hai, Mat Koi Mange Bheekh, Mangan Se Marna Bhala, Yeh Satguru Ki Seekh”Translation: "Begging is like perishing, none should go imploring, It is better to die than beg, this is pure </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/1731730875812191923/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=1731730875812191923&amp;isPopup=true' title='13 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/1731730875812191923'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/1731730875812191923'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2009/01/choose-1-better-jail-for-hubbies-or.html' title='Choose 1: Better Jail for Hubbies or Funding a Terrorist?'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>13</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-7411466124836198866</id><published>2009-01-03T16:27:00.006+05:30</published><updated>2009-01-03T17:36:59.146+05:30</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Sowry'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Husbands'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='498a'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Dowry'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Alimony'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Indian Women'/><title type='text'>Alimony Kills Her Real Potential</title><summary type='text'>Indian Girls are born here but made elsewhere because in India it is believed legally that women are dependent and inferior. Thought they had voting rights right from the beginning as compared to the western world yet the capable lot is swayed by the thinking of being under privileged inspite of a lady ruling the country for 17 yrs (Indira Gandhi) and now as a president (Pratibha Patil).The </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/7411466124836198866/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=7411466124836198866&amp;isPopup=true' title='15 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/7411466124836198866'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/7411466124836198866'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2009/01/alimony-kills-her-real-potential.html' title='Alimony Kills Her Real Potential'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>15</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-2576463039824457650</id><published>2008-12-25T16:10:00.006+05:30</published><updated>2008-12-25T22:13:39.380+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Gender Chessboard in India</title><summary type='text'> Click on the image for a larger Picture.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/2576463039824457650/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=2576463039824457650&amp;isPopup=true' title='9 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/2576463039824457650'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/2576463039824457650'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2008/12/gender-chessboard-in-india.html' title='Gender Chessboard in India'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/SVN8g9qs6hI/AAAAAAAAAEE/qoNqHLdNooM/s72-c/chess-board-jinesh.gif' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>9</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-6354688908796288949</id><published>2008-11-30T11:38:00.001+05:30</published><updated>2008-12-09T11:51:24.522+05:30</updated><title type='text'>A Ritual called Alimony.</title><summary type='text'>Years ago I was listening to Swami Sukhbodhanand on Aastha channel and he was explaining the meaning of the word ritual and how we generally do many such things in life. He gave an anecdote for better understanding.The story goes like this..There was a Guru who had mastered the scriptures. One day, when he was teaching Vedas to his disciples, a cat was moving around. This, however, did not </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/6354688908796288949/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=6354688908796288949&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/6354688908796288949'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/6354688908796288949'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2008/11/ritual-called-alimony.html' title='A Ritual called Alimony.'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-6799055100249239227</id><published>2008-10-02T14:31:00.006+05:30</published><updated>2008-10-02T16:38:15.729+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Self Reliance V/s Alimony</title><summary type='text'>Salute to the Apostle of Self Reliance, Non Violence and Civil DisobedienceToday pledge to give your estranged wife, a lifestyle free from dependency....:Do not give her AlimonyGift her something better. :Do not fetch her a fish daily,Gift her a fishing rod for once instead.and thus encourage Joint Custody of the Victim Child,and promote Domestic Harmony."Non-cooperation with evil is as much a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/6799055100249239227/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=6799055100249239227&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/6799055100249239227'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/6799055100249239227'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2008/10/self-reliance-vs-alimony.html' title='Self Reliance V/s Alimony'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/SOSON7nKhkI/AAAAAAAAACw/6H9EpJFFzrE/s72-c/Gandhi.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-9154906471376197358</id><published>2008-08-15T18:16:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2008-08-15T18:23:54.827+05:30</updated><title type='text'>indianhusbands.com</title><summary type='text'>Last week I got a call on my cell of a harassed Indian husband, who weeps daily for his daughter whom he has not seen from past 2 years, she is not yet 3 yrs old, he carries her snap and is also sad that his parents are too missing her. He can only guess how she looks and is wondering what will his wife who has kept her away from him would tell her about her dad when she grows. Nevertheless is </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.indianhusbands.com/' title='indianhusbands.com'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/9154906471376197358/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=9154906471376197358&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/9154906471376197358'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/9154906471376197358'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2008/08/indianhusbandscom.html' title='indianhusbands.com'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-1907436436960464703</id><published>2008-06-30T17:50:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2008-08-02T21:15:32.277+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Indore: Sowry Death and Formation of “Srajan”</title><summary type='text'>Husband Dies and wife gets the status of a legal heir. Wife dies and husband is jailed along with his relatives as a suspected dowry death skewing the statistics. Or more so a score settling tactic by her relatives who inturn demand money thus encashing on the opportunity.This is because in India if the wife dies within 7 years (NCW recommends lifetime) of marriage it is presumed to be a dowry </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/1907436436960464703/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=1907436436960464703&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/1907436436960464703'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/1907436436960464703'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2008/06/indore-sowry-death-and-formation-of.html' title='Indore: Sowry Death and Formation of “Srajan”'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-3185234704924318247</id><published>2008-05-31T20:27:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2008-06-24T20:36:56.056+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Can't Undo</title><summary type='text'>Somedays back the newspapers quoted the Bombay HC on the non compundable cases. They were of the opinion that these cannot be diluted by means of compromising. Specially the cases of Dowry (section 498a) which are taken into consideration which helps the complaining bride with a state lawyer, plus the non bailable nature ensures that the bail is done only at the magistrate level and also the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/3185234704924318247/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=3185234704924318247&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/3185234704924318247'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/3185234704924318247'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2008/05/cant-undo.html' title='Can&apos;t Undo'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-1911785120502196700</id><published>2008-04-27T22:09:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2008-04-27T22:32:16.906+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Provoked and Hurt.</title><summary type='text'>When we talk about Gender Equality, let us mean it.  Lets us have a balance in law by having something that takes care of the misuse of law loopholes that leads to exploitation of a husband. Else more and more husbands may have their own hopeless verdicts that may be a lose lose situation. Can't Pretend Sleep after such precedences.The unfortunate case of the failed saptapadi between Amit </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/1911785120502196700/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=1911785120502196700&amp;isPopup=true' title='12 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/1911785120502196700'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/1911785120502196700'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2008/04/provoked-and-hurt.html' title='Provoked and Hurt.'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>12</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-2999441729813811435</id><published>2008-03-08T16:06:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2008-03-09T16:46:19.859+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Bichade Sabhi Bari Bari: Like Toy Soldiers.</title><summary type='text'>There are loopholes in Indian Laws, that would make a wife a control freak and a man henpecked or handcuffed, the situation is something to take a note of. And as a more prompt effect when such a control freak law falls in hand of an already control freak wife, she simply freaks out on her legal husband and his relatives. A balanced law is hence needed. .The side effect of a no penalty on misuse </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/2999441729813811435/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=2999441729813811435&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/2999441729813811435'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/2999441729813811435'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2008/03/bichade-sabhi-bari-bari-like-toy_09.html' title='Bichade Sabhi Bari Bari: Like Toy Soldiers.'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-3140184947077712729</id><published>2008-02-29T21:52:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2008-03-17T22:16:18.576+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Court Cases: Running on a Treadmill</title><summary type='text'>They would sigh, “I used to date her once upon a time every now and then, and now I just get the court dates, every now and then. After meeting a partner it seems life is all about dates dates and dates.” This is what most of the guys undergoing cases tell me. Offlate even girls too have been calling up and displaying the same mindsets stating “Date parr to abhi bhi jaate hain lekin paristhiti </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/3140184947077712729/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=3140184947077712729&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/3140184947077712729'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/3140184947077712729'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2008/02/court-cases-running-on-treadmill.html' title='Court Cases: Running on a Treadmill'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-8618265728611571165</id><published>2008-01-31T21:37:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2008-02-04T22:39:21.707+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Did you Hug your Father Today?</title><summary type='text'>Guys,This post is dedicated to my father F N Zaveri (18th Dec 1933 – 26th Jan 2008)It is such a guy thing, such a formal thing for a guy to hug his father, express his emotions, whereas normal for a girl to do so. Generally guys are shy in doing so. This includes our dads too. But then the fondness is so constant and second to none, that these extreme feelings do co-exist in all of us. I am not </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/8618265728611571165/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=8618265728611571165&amp;isPopup=true' title='8 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8618265728611571165'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8618265728611571165'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2008/01/did-you-hug-you-father-today.html' title='Did you Hug your Father Today?'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>8</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-8227354673573473951</id><published>2007-12-31T21:59:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2008-01-20T22:32:42.013+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Pati Patni aur Parents ya Police?</title><summary type='text'>Post counseling I have certain standard questions that I ask to all victims, For a false 498a-ed, I do not miss asking the day of arrest as Friday (still happening). That there has to be a god motherly figure for the girl to have instigated the threat or 498a or DV in reality.I ask my female acquaintances who are bold enough to discuss with me the state of affairs, given the fact that I am not </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/8227354673573473951/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=8227354673573473951&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8227354673573473951'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8227354673573473951'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2008/01/pati-patni-aur-parents-ya-police.html' title='Pati Patni aur Parents ya Police?'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-5160506658478539545</id><published>2007-11-30T09:44:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2007-12-02T14:00:46.462+05:30</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='498a'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mens day'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Alimony'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='406'/><title type='text'>Indian Husbands Wake Up...</title><summary type='text'>Dear Indian Husbands... Come out of the ignorance, for the sake of your parents and siblings. Ministers are OK... but we cannot be Ok with the misuse of Law. We pay Taxes and the same money is used against the Husband by providing a State Sponsored Lawyer who fights a False case against us without investigation. Merely on a statement of a Bride without crosscheck the arrests are being made and we</summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QzO1ybsjXIU' title='Indian Husbands Wake Up...'/><link rel='enclosure' type='video/mp4' href='http://www.blogger.com/video-play.mp4?contentId=39a5c84063dce389&amp;type=video%2Fmp4' length='0'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/5160506658478539545/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=5160506658478539545&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/5160506658478539545'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/5160506658478539545'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2007/11/dear-indian-husbands.html' title='Indian Husbands Wake Up...'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-7305081241216714447</id><published>2007-10-31T18:29:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2007-11-04T18:41:03.631+05:30</updated><title type='text'>498a and DV Act, A Forced Justification.</title><summary type='text'>On the completion of one year of DV ACT, one conventional, conservative and politically correct channel had invited a group of DV ACT supporters and handful victims of wife centric laws who turned activists.  I saw the way the programmed was biased against the victims and there was no equality of opportunity for expression. And as far as knack of clever misinterpretation was considered the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/7305081241216714447/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=7305081241216714447&amp;isPopup=true' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/7305081241216714447'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/7305081241216714447'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2007/10/498a-and-dv-act-forced-justification.html' title='498a and DV Act, A Forced Justification.'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-1422277198487506370</id><published>2007-09-30T21:45:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2007-09-30T22:18:30.851+05:30</updated><title type='text'>THE END of the Beginning.</title><summary type='text'>This blog and other associated blogs have always spoken about various awareness seminars and events that exposed the large scale reported and unreported misuse of the wife laws in IPC like 498a and DV Act.Everytime the event got bigger by virtue of awareness that reached innocents who dared to face the truth, that they have to fight it out, and everytime someone new spoke, it was realized that </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/1422277198487506370/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=1422277198487506370&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/1422277198487506370'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/1422277198487506370'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2007/09/end-of-beginning.html' title='THE END of the Beginning.'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://bp2.blogger.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/Rv_OEuWH_oI/AAAAAAAAAAg/R0V4aRB2peE/s72-c/sif-protest.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-5427392132426807897</id><published>2007-08-19T23:05:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2007-08-19T23:29:55.421+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Women’s Liberation: HER Right to be Dependent on HIM</title><summary type='text'>This 15th Aug I wished to all my women acquaintances “Happy Independence day and Self Dependent Life” all of them ex-feminists, after understanding my view points agree to this, that ‘yes’ being dependent is not Independence or right. Rather Interdependence is the key in a relationship. But if that is far from existence then yes the second option is independence and definitely not dependence. And</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/5427392132426807897/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=5427392132426807897&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/5427392132426807897'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/5427392132426807897'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2007/08/womens-liberation-her-right-to-be.html' title='Women’s Liberation: HER Right to be Dependent on HIM'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-2344881653421477367</id><published>2007-07-31T22:03:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2007-08-03T22:19:11.281+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Bhramastra on Arjun</title><summary type='text'>While I was busy with my months closing at the office, I started getting sms’s from all my SIF brothers about Arjun Singh and his family slapped with a 498a. After a day, a livid Swarup Dada sends me a personal SMS for being quite on the whole issue. Well, I generally take time to react, especially if it is an individual’s involvement. And I was thinking about so many things revolving around, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/2344881653421477367/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=2344881653421477367&amp;isPopup=true' title='10 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/2344881653421477367'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/2344881653421477367'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2007/07/bhramastra-on-arjun.html' title='Bhramastra on Arjun'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>10</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-8104009836931749626</id><published>2007-06-17T16:23:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2007-06-17T16:29:01.335+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Fathers Day</title><summary type='text'>My last year's Fathers day article ideas, never got published on this blog. They are still in my mind. I was fighting another set of false charges of spamming other blogs with my article Abla to Ghost. And Ghost who blogggs took over. .But one year later some things have changed and some haven’t. The struggle has got some recognition among society. The mindsets of people and media have changed </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/8104009836931749626/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=8104009836931749626&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8104009836931749626'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8104009836931749626'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2007/06/fathers-day.html' title='Fathers Day'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-4697363680931740219</id><published>2007-05-31T22:09:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2007-06-10T22:17:05.491+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Poem</title><summary type='text'>Kehti thi nikalo maa baap ko ghar se,Nahi to bhejdungi tum sab ko Jail,Lagadungi Dhara char sau atthannve A (498a),Dowry case hoga, Jisme nahin milta bail,Ya phir is ghar mein kar do khadi deewar,Nahi to DV Act lagaungi,Pit-Ta hua pati kahelvaungi,jo dahej mein Mangta tha Car.Budhey maa baap hain tere,Man nahi hota shaant,Is chotey se badey flat mein,Milta nahin mujhe ekaant.Ke saaree pehenna to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/4697363680931740219/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=4697363680931740219&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/4697363680931740219'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/4697363680931740219'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2007/05/poem.html' title='Poem'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-1042155988268193542</id><published>2007-04-06T20:49:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2007-04-06T21:00:52.247+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Mental Cruelty: Defining a Moot Point.</title><summary type='text'>While My Defination of Indian LAW** (** Indian Lady Always Wins) still largely prevails in the lower courts but Supreme Court is giving sensible unbiased judgments (but still the damage is already done in all the cases). Even some High Court Judgments of Justice J D Kapoor and Justice Dhingra are worth an applause.Case of Appasaheb was worth giving a 2nd look, which is never done if the accused </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/1042155988268193542/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=1042155988268193542&amp;isPopup=true' title='24 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/1042155988268193542'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/1042155988268193542'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2007/04/mental-cruelty-defining-moot-point.html' title='Mental Cruelty: Defining a Moot Point.'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>24</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-6969781209415220125</id><published>2007-03-08T23:56:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2007-03-08T00:19:02.214+05:30</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='498a'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='womens day'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='406'/><title type='text'>Safe Womens Day</title><summary type='text'>She would never File a False DV or a 498a or 406 or 307 etc or demand Alimony. :D.In Lighter Vein: Here it is: How to have a Safe Womens Day, Everyday.  :D.A tribute to the loosely drafted Gender biased Indian Laws. .But Seriously...Happy Womens Day to ALL of you. Jinesh Zaveri..This ad is picked up from one of the email forwards that I have got. And Just correlated to the burning problem of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/6969781209415220125/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=6969781209415220125&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/6969781209415220125'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/6969781209415220125'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2007/03/safe-womens-day.html' title='Safe Womens Day'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://bp2.blogger.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/Re8ExGUx_yI/AAAAAAAAAAU/o66GlWZDiMU/s72-c/bedsheet.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-8795930849183473326</id><published>2007-02-28T20:08:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2007-03-05T01:06:23.072+05:30</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='498a 406'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Alimony'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Empowerment'/><title type='text'>Alimony: The Real Monster</title><summary type='text'>Anything hard-earned and drained out of the pocket is amounted to losses, such chronic state is fatal. The British did that to Indians and Gandhiji fought back by boycotting.Well I write this as I feel really upset, when my brothers call me up and tell about their state of mind on a day before hearing of interim maintenance or a regular one. I feel "Wives get interim maintenance and Indian </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/8795930849183473326/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=8795930849183473326&amp;isPopup=true' title='13 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8795930849183473326'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/8795930849183473326'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2007/03/alimony-real-monster.html' title='Alimony: The Real Monster'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>13</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-7220074199332789645</id><published>2007-01-14T22:31:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2007-01-14T23:19:29.555+05:30</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='adultery'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='498a'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='domestic violence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='406'/><title type='text'>Stree Hatt.</title><summary type='text'>I am sharing a very disillusioning event that I witnessed in the court rooms. It tells that these places are basically apt for murder type case hearings but not for arguably civil procedures, such places in long run are waste of resources, thus discounting the seriousness of its purpose and operations.It was a day of mild shower in Mumbai, Shravans father, a senior citizen had his eyes wet too. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/7220074199332789645/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=7220074199332789645&amp;isPopup=true' title='8 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/7220074199332789645'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/7220074199332789645'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2007/01/stree-hatt.html' title='Stree Hatt.'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>8</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-116765089285565498</id><published>2007-01-01T16:16:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2007-01-11T22:08:02.640+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Thank You Ponds (HLL) and O&amp;M</title><summary type='text'>My Parents were discussing today, that they will now use HLL products after a one month ban in my house. Because on 27th Nov 2006 after meeting with HLL team, I had decided to throw all the HLL products from my house. And my mom and dad already were taking a stock of what all things were to be thrown out, reminiscing how Dadaji and Baa during pre-independence period did. My meeting with the HLL </summary><link rel='related' href='http://www.dnaindia.com/report.asp?NewsID=1071492' title='Thank You Ponds (HLL) and O&amp;M'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/116765089285565498/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=116765089285565498&amp;isPopup=true' title='13 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/116765089285565498'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/116765089285565498'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2007/01/thank-you-ponds-hll-and-om.html' title='Thank You Ponds (HLL) and O&amp;M'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>13</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-116706574080786086</id><published>2006-12-25T22:14:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2007-01-01T16:34:23.903+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Two Anniversaries</title><summary type='text'>This post is dedicated to the Dear Parents and family members of SIF..There are two anniversaries to encounter, one to mourn(498a) and other to celebrate (9224335577).Exactly one year ago, 1st Mumbai helpline was launched, Dedicated to the parents as a x-mas gift. This was the day when 498a witnessed its 23rd year of un-amended existence and 22nd anniversary. One year later 498a is coupled with </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/116706574080786086/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=116706574080786086&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/116706574080786086'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/116706574080786086'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/12/two-anniversaries.html' title='Two Anniversaries'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-116577356421970712</id><published>2006-12-10T23:09:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-12-25T22:58:40.786+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Men Gender Badnaam</title><summary type='text'>FIASCO: FALSE STATISTICS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE13 November 2006, Washington Times Publishes an article that brings more ignominy, adding insult to the injury of Indian husbands. It misinterpreted that 70% of Indian women were subject to Domestic Violence and marital rape. I was unaware of this SIF alert mail as my internet phone lines were dead since a week.Rick B, a radio host of CBC-1, Vancouver,</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/116577356421970712/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=116577356421970712&amp;isPopup=true' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/116577356421970712'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/116577356421970712'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/12/men-gender-badnaam.html' title='Men Gender Badnaam'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-116257040176743204</id><published>2006-11-03T20:07:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-12-08T08:28:28.383+05:30</updated><title type='text'>DV Act: A Hiranyakashyapu's Boon to Surpanakha</title><summary type='text'>"Domestic Violence Act" One week and already the arrests have started to take place. Again the misuse is surfacing as feared. While the real victim women may use this to her relief but the surpanakha would not miss out on this one.The Fear: 498a is a law elaborated in 2 paragraphs and the loopholes generated with the same are being misused and encashed with integrated conviction rate as mere 2%. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/116257040176743204/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=116257040176743204&amp;isPopup=true' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/116257040176743204'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/116257040176743204'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/11/dv-act-hiranyakashyapus-boon-to.html' title='DV Act: A Hiranyakashyapu&apos;s Boon to Surpanakha'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-116183584293357907</id><published>2006-10-26T09:36:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2007-01-09T09:19:00.730+05:30</updated><title type='text'>DV Bill - A Laxman Rekha for Surpanakhas too</title><summary type='text'>23 years later…While the government is pretending sleep on the misuse of 498a, it is turning on a deaf year to the pleads of the future of the country the earning male (because legally the women is dependent) further after the share in the parental property the girl gets a few more rights that makes her a super power gender in reality and still is legally an abla.I personally would welcome any </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/116183584293357907/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=116183584293357907&amp;isPopup=true' title='12 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/116183584293357907'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/116183584293357907'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/10/dv-bill-laxman-rekha-for-surpanakhas.html' title='DV Bill - A Laxman Rekha for Surpanakhas too'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>12</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-115980167124732048</id><published>2006-10-02T19:55:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-11-06T14:42:48.686+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Nasik Seminar</title><summary type='text'>23 rd September 2006, Nasik, Seminar for awareness of the Vulnerability of an innocent family to the misuse of 498a was arranged by the victimised and affected Dahanuka family. With Mr Subhas Kedia's Active Participation and A Joint Effort by Save Indian Family (Mumbai) and Purushhakk Saurakshan Samiti. .The Media received the cause with an Overwhelming note. Below are some excerpts from Sakal </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/115980167124732048/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=115980167124732048&amp;isPopup=true' title='20 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/115980167124732048'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/115980167124732048'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/10/nasik-seminar.html' title='Nasik Seminar'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>20</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-115817323697945566</id><published>2006-09-14T00:14:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-09-14T16:38:10.240+05:30</updated><title type='text'>The Dowry Species</title><summary type='text'>I was myopic like every one of us in the past. Till I realized how vulnerable an innocent can be to a lie of a perceived abla. I am still against Dowry like I was. But my argument is enhanced further and so is my view.Just imagine if selling cocaine or brown sugar was not a crime but possessing and consuming was, then the solution would be so imperfect and imbalanced. So is this problem of Dowry.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/115817323697945566/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=115817323697945566&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/115817323697945566'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/115817323697945566'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/09/dowry-species.html' title='The Dowry Species'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-115669967741175439</id><published>2006-08-27T22:25:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-08-28T14:12:55.383+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Michchami Dukkadam</title><summary type='text'>It is 3rd samvatsari (of Paryushan) since we mutually parted. I could not wait for this day to get over to wish you, Coz since we parted, I have been guessing regarding your where abouts, I hope you are fine and reading this...My Dear "Once-more-than-a-Friend",I break all my karmic chords with you for good,I would not be happy to see you in trouble,I would not be troubled to see you happy,I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/115669967741175439/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=115669967741175439&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/115669967741175439'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/115669967741175439'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/08/michchami-dukkadam.html' title='Michchami Dukkadam'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-115522762894440809</id><published>2006-08-10T21:49:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-08-17T08:13:58.910+05:30</updated><title type='text'>My 1 Year with SIF</title><summary type='text'>Dear All,.On 23 July 2005, I hopelessly vented my frustration with my first mail on Sita Surpanakha in SIF. Swarup liked my mail and this idea  and he gave an unfathomable mileage. Satya suggested that I should blog this. And since then I got timely tips from Gorky, and along with others maximum of moral support from Bharti till date. And the support of other brothers is indescribable.Exactly </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/115522762894440809/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=115522762894440809&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/115522762894440809'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/115522762894440809'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/08/my-1-year-with-sif.html' title='My 1 Year with SIF'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-115185395163765760</id><published>2006-07-02T20:45:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-11-08T00:09:48.780+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Loser</title><summary type='text'>Then And Now…A tale of a Middle class Indian marriage (based on true facts)IJai was quite excited, as finally he was about to meet Abha with whom he was chatting for sooo long. They came across each other on a matrimonial website some 9 months ago. He was particularly interested in this girl as she was from a very poor family and was looking for a future as a housewife (she was working because of</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/115185395163765760/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=115185395163765760&amp;isPopup=true' title='20 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/115185395163765760'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/115185395163765760'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/07/loser.html' title='Loser'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>20</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-115065498391493449</id><published>2006-06-18T23:45:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-06-21T00:11:07.223+05:30</updated><title type='text'>The Ghost who blogggs</title><summary type='text'>From Abla to Ghost was my 34th article. And that is misinterpreted by someone who has correctly understood, but wanted a wrong message to go out.  Now that person is definitely posing as Abla in society and is scared of being called as ghost in future and hence is promoting the wrong message of this article and blog elsewhere, by just spamming it in the comment box of other blogs. Who is that </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/115065498391493449/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=115065498391493449&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/115065498391493449'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/115065498391493449'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/06/ghost-who-blogggs.html' title='The Ghost who blogggs'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-114832063724607019</id><published>2006-05-22T23:07:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-06-21T00:09:49.913+05:30</updated><title type='text'>On the lines of the model Nikaah Nama.</title><summary type='text'>Bismillah-e-rehman-e-rahim-As-salaam-valekum.Well I have been interacting on Islam with 'Naushad' a very close colleague of mine who happens to be a Muslim but looks at other religions with some unexpected tolerance. He condemns the triple talaq in sleep and under the influence of liquor. He looks forward to convert a non muslim to a muslim. And he displays extreme patience and acceptance of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/114832063724607019/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=114832063724607019&amp;isPopup=true' title='19 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114832063724607019'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114832063724607019'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/05/on-lines-of-model-nikaah-nama.html' title='On the lines of the model Nikaah Nama.'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>19</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-114763102919069693</id><published>2006-05-14T23:15:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-10-04T17:22:22.876+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Mere Pass Maa Hai</title><summary type='text'>Dearest Mummy,I was born when you were 36, your late child :-). And my marriage had made me your late child otherwise, almost dead (chuckle). I know how I have survived. Rather you know how we did. And since I was born quite late after bade bhaiya’s arrival I felt that I have missed real good time with you as compared to him and will always feel.In bhajans to Amba mata Bhaktraj Shri Amichand </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/114763102919069693/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=114763102919069693&amp;isPopup=true' title='45 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114763102919069693'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114763102919069693'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/05/mere-pass-maa-hai.html' title='Mere Pass Maa Hai'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>45</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-114749484001564778</id><published>2006-05-13T09:49:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-05-13T10:04:23.670+05:30</updated><title type='text'>I Brand thee as Man and Wife</title><summary type='text'>Ahhh!!! Look at that. .No!!! I know you would say those are the latest Stress Bursting Toys Branded as “rattle snake sound eggs”. (Based on the principle of Magnetism when thrown up in the air with some mutual distance opposite poles would attract each other producing a sound and the nearest similar pole would also repel thus causing the sound of rattling. If you catch it they come stuck together</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/114749484001564778/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=114749484001564778&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114749484001564778'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114749484001564778'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/05/i-brand-thee-as-man-and-wife.html' title='I Brand thee as Man and Wife'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-114650278150690644</id><published>2006-05-01T22:19:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-05-01T22:34:50.893+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Kuch to Log kahenge</title><summary type='text'>Some days back I had attended one engagement party of my very close Maharashtrian colleague. I claim the privilege to convert this feminist to a humanist. I was confronted by her initially with the same concept of your-side-of-the-story but time healed things.She was suffering from the mob psychology that prevails on a budding lady who has never seen the other gender from a different angle who </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/114650278150690644/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=114650278150690644&amp;isPopup=true' title='29 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114650278150690644'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114650278150690644'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/05/kuch-to-log-kahenge.html' title='Kuch to Log kahenge'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>29</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-114529909466252710</id><published>2006-04-17T23:52:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-10-11T15:04:27.830+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Jo bhi ho, kal phir aayega.</title><summary type='text'>Monday, on my way back home I was as usual humming “Tutta tutta ek parinda aise tutta ke phir Judd na paya, Loota loota kisne usko aise loota ki phir udd na paaya.” and…I saw a tree opposite Churchgate station and this was unusual as I was daily passing through that street. My visual memory was rendered to see the tree that was rich with greenness. But that day it was chopped for no good reason, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/114529909466252710/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=114529909466252710&amp;isPopup=true' title='12 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114529909466252710'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114529909466252710'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/04/jo-bhi-ho-kal-phir-aayega.html' title='Jo bhi ho, kal phir aayega.'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>12</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-114337299787752596</id><published>2006-03-26T16:47:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-03-26T18:20:12.830+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Jaane Bhi do Yaaron</title><summary type='text'>I am a Gujju (often pronounced as Good Jew and may be that is why Hitler Spared me :-D) But, I am quite influenced by my Maharashtrian Neighbors and Collegues who have been God like during my depressing times. In Past 10 days, I have been at my lowest in eight months ever since I have been blogging. And it was getting too boring being down, so I decided to laugh it out somewhat.I am representing </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/114337299787752596/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=114337299787752596&amp;isPopup=true' title='8 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114337299787752596'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114337299787752596'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/03/jaane-bhi-do-yaaron.html' title='Jaane Bhi do Yaaron'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>8</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-114278557607296498</id><published>2006-03-19T21:48:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-03-19T21:56:16.186+05:30</updated><title type='text'>United Un-tied</title><summary type='text'>These days the mantra of being un-tied has got on in to the minds of the youth. My casual talking with the youth and vice-versa has not stopped and their candid confessions too keep flowing and inspiring me to write more. Thus keeping me away from my frustrated state of affairs.'Salaam Namaste', 'No strings attached', these are the mantras that the youngsters tell me. On asking them Why So? They </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/114278557607296498/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=114278557607296498&amp;isPopup=true' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114278557607296498'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114278557607296498'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/03/united-un-tied.html' title='United Un-tied'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-114218745002785043</id><published>2006-03-12T23:17:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-04-25T20:15:36.633+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Statistics and 498a</title><summary type='text'>Dear All,.Something that I have respected unconvincingly is Statistics. I have respected because if totally used in some limits, it is very useful and if used in length but in isolation then it can be totally misleading. But the question is where do we draw a line?For example, Two batsmen with a strike rate of 200%, sounds genius but we find that both though share the same strike rate one </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/114218745002785043/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=114218745002785043&amp;isPopup=true' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114218745002785043'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114218745002785043'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/03/statistics-and-498a.html' title='Statistics and 498a'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-114156814760500941</id><published>2006-03-05T19:06:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-03-05T19:45:47.750+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Husbands are Innocent</title><summary type='text'>A Picture is equal to a thousand Words, I have 5 Such pictures today that tell a story.1. Show me the Money Honey!!!! ===2. "Don't move... Let me check your Pockets" ===3. Ahhh, Got the Money ===4. Enough for today's Shopping ===5. Cya Later===So...what do you say? Jinesh Zaveri. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/114156814760500941/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=114156814760500941&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114156814760500941'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114156814760500941'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/03/husbands-are-innocent.html' title='Husbands are Innocent'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-114097786366971917</id><published>2006-02-26T23:33:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-03-01T09:22:46.570+05:30</updated><title type='text'>498a Lagaan</title><summary type='text'>This is a story, Once upon a time, Inspite of males as best chef, designer etc etc still they got to hear that women are ruling everywhere by virtue of their adverse branding, that was not a problem for males as they love to be humbled down in front of the wives. But the law was not recognizing the status of male. They all approached the Emperor to give some solution.Now what can be done? So all </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/114097786366971917/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=114097786366971917&amp;isPopup=true' title='32 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114097786366971917'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114097786366971917'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/02/498a-lagaan.html' title='498a Lagaan'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>32</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-114037020218550061</id><published>2006-02-19T22:54:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-11-06T00:00:32.236+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Oh God!!! Its Friday</title><summary type='text'>I am currently having the privilege of handling the Free Mumbai helpline to guide the victims. Though the job is tough but satisfying as it creates a 2 way feel good factor. But it is more touching and frustrating. Frustrating to see the senior citizens and innocent people living in threat of flase 498a striking them for not dowry but some ego problem of their D-I-L. They are in a phase called </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/114037020218550061/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=114037020218550061&amp;isPopup=true' title='13 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114037020218550061'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/114037020218550061'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/02/oh-god-its-friday.html' title='Oh God!!! Its Friday'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>13</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-113976748084540143</id><published>2006-02-12T23:20:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-02-12T23:40:28.176+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Yeh Duniya Agar Mil bhi Jaaye to Kya Hai?</title><summary type='text'>A few days a go I got a SMS from my friend that had the following message “Sometimes Small things really matter in Life than big ones… See, You can sit on a mountain but not on a pin” I Smiled but suddenly my thought process started that headed me to blog this article of mine.The correlation in my mind went like this. Ego is as big as a mountain and it just takes ones conscience (no matter how </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/113976748084540143/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=113976748084540143&amp;isPopup=true' title='15 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113976748084540143'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113976748084540143'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/02/yeh-duniya-agar-mil-bhi-jaaye-to-kya.html' title='Yeh Duniya Agar Mil bhi Jaaye to Kya Hai?'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>15</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-113853779140758196</id><published>2006-01-29T17:28:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-12-04T12:55:36.116+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Identity Crises of sLave indian family</title><summary type='text'>What non-nuetral feminist brand as their problem, is actually a problem that Indian males encounter in the eyes of law. That is the problem of Identity crises. Ask those women who are the sisters of innocent brother who is behind bars. Ask those women who dreamt to have a 'daughter' in daughter-in-law but alas was treated as the misbranded mother in law by D-I-L. Ask those daughters who with the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/113853779140758196/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=113853779140758196&amp;isPopup=true' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113853779140758196'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113853779140758196'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/01/identity-crises-of-slave-indian-family.html' title='Identity Crises of sLave indian family'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-113795238714086566</id><published>2006-01-22T23:20:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-06-19T18:32:05.796+05:30</updated><title type='text'>From Abla (Helpless) to Ghost</title><summary type='text'>Indian Women will be feared as if they were Ghosts or rather worse than that. Why? Well they are working hard for that status. And hard work pays.Few days back I saw footage on STAR NEWS of a Husband brutually beaten by wife, dumped in a hidden camera. This was a move of a husband who was harassed by his wife since marriage and what he called a 9-12 pm daily torture. And since he was not believed</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/113795238714086566/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=113795238714086566&amp;isPopup=true' title='46 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113795238714086566'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113795238714086566'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/01/from-abla-helpless-to-ghost.html' title='From Abla (Helpless) to Ghost'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>46</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-113648877293348929</id><published>2006-01-06T00:14:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-06-25T01:29:25.566+05:30</updated><title type='text'>They do wrong, but never get caught.</title><summary type='text'>Its Official: Women are superior to men, in any given field. The trends are showing…The data generally used for representing women includes the uncivilsed class at large and hence we get a distorted and grotesque, scary and unreal image of the state of Indian women in India. 1 sec, I am talking about the “civilized class.”Pinch yourself and ask some basic questions to realize the facts.Women are </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/113648877293348929/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=113648877293348929&amp;isPopup=true' title='12 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113648877293348929'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113648877293348929'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2006/01/they-do-wrong-but-never-get-caught.html' title='They do wrong, but never get caught.'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>12</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-113544484769931461</id><published>2005-12-24T22:24:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-12-26T08:31:20.953+05:30</updated><title type='text'>X Mas Gift to our parents-9224335577</title><summary type='text'>Merry Christmas!!! Introducing Mumbai based Helpline-9224 33557724th December1983, It has been 22 years and I remember that I was enjoying my Christmas eve with my Mom and Dad. They woke me up from the sleep and told me that Santa had come to our house while I was asleep and he has left a gift big too big to fit in the stocking.I quickly unwrapped the gift and it was a grahambell's model of toy </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/113544484769931461/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=113544484769931461&amp;isPopup=true' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113544484769931461'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113544484769931461'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2005/12/x-mas-gift-to-our-parents-9224335577.html' title='X Mas Gift to our parents-9224335577'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-113490200890152166</id><published>2005-12-18T15:08:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2005-12-18T16:23:14.126+05:30</updated><title type='text'>With Lots of Love</title><summary type='text'>Dear Father And Mother I Love You,I hope you are fine. I haven’t met you all since we had to part because of the false 498A on all of us. I am fine but worried about all of you. I hope you all are not harassed by the wicked ones in power and money hungry country and I hope you all are not in trouble. All because of One wicked lady who wants to encash by misusing the law in the name of abla bahu.I</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/113490200890152166/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=113490200890152166&amp;isPopup=true' title='8 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113490200890152166'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113490200890152166'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2005/12/with-lots-of-love.html' title='With Lots of Love'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>8</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-113429563874316877</id><published>2005-12-11T15:13:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-12-19T20:41:28.316+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Equal Punishment</title><summary type='text'>I hear the femilitants say “Women Today are no Less than Men in any field, Infact they are always a mile ahead now a days” and how true they are in telling so. How? I’ll explain with some examples…They are self dependent and they can feed their divorced husbands too. They are also capable of challenging the High court’s verdict and winning craftily in the in the supreme court thus even fooling </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/113429563874316877/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=113429563874316877&amp;isPopup=true' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113429563874316877'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113429563874316877'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2005/12/equal-punishment.html' title='Equal Punishment'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-113405861184045629</id><published>2005-12-08T21:37:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-11-30T19:44:28.203+05:30</updated><title type='text'>CC to eKta Kapoor</title><summary type='text'>While my Victim brothers are rightly thinking of making a movie on 498A misuse by Indian bahu on their In-Laws, I feel we should contact a more powerful media that is Television and make a tele-serial on the said topic. Who else but the most powerful person would be appropriate for the same? You said it, 'Ekta Kapoor'.I do not hate eKta Kapoor anymore. But once upon a time I used to… coz her </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/113405861184045629/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=113405861184045629&amp;isPopup=true' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113405861184045629'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113405861184045629'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2005/12/cc-to-ekta-kapoor.html' title='CC to eKta Kapoor'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-113350615610255660</id><published>2005-12-02T12:10:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-11-30T18:49:56.003+05:30</updated><title type='text'>498-B and NCM</title><summary type='text'>Dear(?) NCW and Dear All,While we males once have worked so hard to make Women Empowerment a success, we are sure our efforts have not been futile. Take own cases, where our helping hand given resulted in backfiring on us, we have been a saga of Victim acting as valid evidence to prove that women are empowered today.Now it is time for you to ‘B’e Just and ‘B’e Practical, and have a ‘B’ack up plan</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/113350615610255660/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=113350615610255660&amp;isPopup=true' title='25 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113350615610255660'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113350615610255660'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2005/12/498-b-and-ncm.html' title='498-B and NCM'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>25</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-113307552028646777</id><published>2005-11-27T12:24:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2005-11-27T20:48:20.916+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Introducing Rachna</title><summary type='text'>Ladies and Gentleman,Till date I have been blogging to vent my frustration out. But, for a change, I have immense pleasure in blogging this 27th post of mine today on 27th Day of November 2005.I am Proud to Introduce my New Co-blogger Rachna. She will blog with me on our new blog strong2gether (Opposite but Equal). She is the case no. 3 Sita. Her attitude towards gender-bias is similar of the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/113307552028646777/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=113307552028646777&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113307552028646777'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113307552028646777'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2005/11/introducing-rachna.html' title='Introducing Rachna'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-113302130174538837</id><published>2005-11-26T21:05:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2005-11-26T22:18:39.646+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Freedom of Speech, eh?</title><summary type='text'>Mr. Chidambaram called it Freedom of speech on Khushboo issue. In other words, license to speak.My question is why is no one talking of “Responsibility” in freedom? In other words if I have a license to posses a gun does that mean I can shoot anyone?I recognize the very vigilance of our country, in once taking away voting rights of a supremo for 6 years, because he made some comments that were </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/113302130174538837/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=113302130174538837&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113302130174538837'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113302130174538837'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2005/11/freedom-of-speech-eh.html' title='Freedom of Speech, eh?'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-113251348576374723</id><published>2005-11-21T00:08:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2005-11-21T01:19:46.496+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Oh My God!!!</title><summary type='text'>Amid all the confusion on NDTV’s Sunday talk show with host Pankaj Pachauri, We (Me and my parents) were slapping our foreheads on stupidity perceived as smartness at large who think supporting pre-marital sex is all about sanity. "Oh my God!!! Where art thou?"I was educated timely by my father and elder brother on sex, loyalty to your spouse and importance of virginity. And we used to discuss on</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/113251348576374723/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=113251348576374723&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113251348576374723'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113251348576374723'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2005/11/oh-my-god.html' title='Oh My God!!!'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-113233803341586558</id><published>2005-11-18T23:26:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-08-14T22:21:31.416+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Alimony: A ticket to ride</title><summary type='text'>Lucknow: Wife ordered to pay maintenance to Husband. (Pssst, she had also filed a case for dowry demand against her husband)While this comes in as a slap to feminists, it leaves the humanist with some points to ponder with.  That is, is the concept maintenance really justified? Or does it encourage free lunches, giving a free ticket to ride. Genuinly troubled spouses actually want to quit the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/113233803341586558/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=113233803341586558&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113233803341586558'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113233803341586558'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2005/11/alimony-ticket-to-ride.html' title='Alimony: A ticket to ride'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-113215946785808722</id><published>2005-11-16T21:10:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2005-11-16T22:20:28.510+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Other blogs blogging about us</title><summary type='text'>Dear Family Members of SIF, While I was regularly surfing I came across this. Our plights have been on the Other blogs and now our blogs are also listed there.   Though some Ridicule us but Some Understand us too.  The good news is there is one such guy by name Amit Verma. Who is taking us seriously. And Acknowledging our Problem. And he and his friends are from the soon-to-be-would-be generation</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/113215946785808722/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=113215946785808722&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113215946785808722'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113215946785808722'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2005/11/other-blogs-blogging-about-us.html' title='Other blogs blogging about us'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-113189678449024533</id><published>2005-11-13T21:03:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2005-11-13T21:16:24.503+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Wear Your Attitude</title><summary type='text'>Activists of SaveIndianFamily Bharti, Gorky have come up with Propaganda T Shirts. Peco Chakravatru Reports...View hereThey have came out so well, that they were displayed by the makers of the TShirts on their Window for about an Hour.Euphoric,Jinesh Zaveri.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/113189678449024533/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=113189678449024533&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113189678449024533'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113189678449024533'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2005/11/wear-your-attitude.html' title='Wear Your Attitude'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-113170366434532017</id><published>2005-11-11T15:33:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2005-11-11T15:37:44.363+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Norway: Woman convicted of rape.</title><summary type='text'>N E W SFrom the Original Posthttp://www.aftenposten.no/english/local/article1027927.ecethe news are...Woman convicted of rape.In a landmark case a 23-year-old woman has been convicted by a Bergen court for the rape of a 31-year-old man. The woman was sentenced to nine months in prison and ordered to pay NOK 40,000 (USD 6,385) to the man.The incident occurred on Jan. 4 last year in a Bergen </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/113170366434532017/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=113170366434532017&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113170366434532017'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113170366434532017'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2005/11/norway-woman-convicted-of-rape.html' title='Norway: Woman convicted of rape.'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-113155742293234934</id><published>2005-11-09T22:46:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2005-11-09T23:33:39.720+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Emperors New Clothes</title><summary type='text'>Every 2nd day, I come across an article that talks about the "ablah status" of women in India. An article that talks about Domestic Violence and Abuse by male (as if male by default is pagal prani). Most of those are the ones who keep on commenting as a third party, but, with no home work from both the sides. Well the reason must be, there are plenty of people who like to sail with the wind, till</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/113155742293234934/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=113155742293234934&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113155742293234934'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113155742293234934'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2005/11/emperors-new-clothes.html' title='Emperors New Clothes'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-113117601582862071</id><published>2005-11-05T12:34:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-09-01T19:03:32.570+05:30</updated><title type='text'>498A: In between the Lines</title><summary type='text'>Dear World,My understanding on Section 498A is as followsSection 498A is forever applicable and it is also Anti Dowry Law- within seven years of marriage. It is Applicable on the Indian Husbands and his family members irrespective of their innocence. It is Applicable by the Indian bride and her family members (of the parental side.)It is effective tool for the brides to negotiate/ dictate terms </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/113117601582862071/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=113117601582862071&amp;isPopup=true' title='9 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113117601582862071'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113117601582862071'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2005/11/498a-in-between-lines.html' title='498A: In between the Lines'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>9</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-113067015820435646</id><published>2005-10-30T16:30:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2006-08-23T22:15:41.180+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Contradictions Galore</title><summary type='text'>I fininshed reading one of my favorite books, 7 Habits of Highly effective people by Stephen Covey Some 2 years back.As per the instructions in the book, I started sharing the text with my other half by reading it aloud, for me it was like a prelude to a foreplay ;). But according to my other half- the perception problem of mine over took me everytime I tried reading the book aloud. She used to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/113067015820435646/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=113067015820435646&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113067015820435646'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113067015820435646'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2005/10/contradictions-galore.html' title='Contradictions Galore'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-113065215610774547</id><published>2005-10-30T11:24:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2005-10-30T11:40:55.643+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Sukh Ke Sab Saathi</title><summary type='text'>Sukh Ke Sab Saathi, Dukh mein na KoiWhen the Indian husbands get their pay cheque it comes with a TDS. The govt is awake to deduct the tax at source. But when it comes to the exploitation by the wives govt does nothing but give law that are wife user friendly.When the Indian Husbands get their pay cheque they are expected to give their wives something irrespective of her attitude towards her </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/feeds/113065215610774547/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15253344&amp;postID=113065215610774547&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113065215610774547'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15253344/posts/default/113065215610774547'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://indianhusbands.blogspot.com/2005/10/sukh-ke-sab-saathi.html' title='Sukh Ke Sab Saathi'/><author><name>Jinesh Zaveri</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JzRD42KQt6Y/S_Qhvp0IabI/AAAAAAAAAMc/-jsuRYa36Sw/S220/jineshzaveri.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry></feed>
