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IPC Section 498-A: Misuse

Dedicated to the Victimised Indian Families, Who are falsely threatened & Blackmailed by the Indian Daughters-In-Law & her family members, and those Victimised families who are already falsely charged under the Section 498A. Its all about False charges of Dowry Law, Domestic Violence, Alimony, Marriage and Divorce. NOTE: All articles are my personal copyright. They may be republished if the source is acknowledged and a link provided to this site. This is not an Anti-Women Blog. Read Disclaimer.

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Saturday, February 20, 2010

Domestic POK's

Terrorism promotes fear, and Terrorism cannot be justified as a Fight for the downtrodden. I remember Gandhiji telling his freedom fighter brothers that we are not fighting for Punishing anyone, we are fighting for a CHANGE.

On the other hand Terrorism is caused by empowering one person who justifies the atrocities by committing the same on innocents. On the similar lines Pakistan officially supports the terrorists by calling it Jaanbaz Jihadi’s freedom struggle and its pressure on pressurizing India brought about Pakistan Occupied Kashmir a.k.a PoK where the activities of terrorism against India are conceived and born.

Similarly the Indian Law and its Makers have bought about a domestic level terrorist, as the so called politically correct pressure of pressurizing a Male has bought about a PoK in every Indian home where the legal terrorist weapons against the Indian husband are executed. A potential domestic terror threat to an Indian Male is supported by PAK, I mean Parliamentarians, Administration; Advocates and Kanoon; Kotwals etc. and what are these domestic POK’s all about? Lets see…

POK – Patni Occupied Kamai / Kharcha
Once the dispute starts (n number of reasons that are silly), the wife or patni rapes Husband through his Pockets and false cases. The working women manages to lie to the court and get the Alimony / Maintenance in her favor. Uses the same money to file more litigation against the Innocent Husband and his family. Under same laws but different courts e.g. Family courts and Magistrate courts and thus derive benefit and pleasure of harassing.

POK – Patni Occupied Kamra / Kholi.
This domestic terror rips the family apart as the suicide bomber patni comes home and occupies the Kamra (Room) or Kholi (entire house) and drives away the hubby family as per courts orders. The most loosely drafted law as per the Rare Sensible Judges in the Indian Courts have made this possible.

POK – Patni Occupied Kids.
The father becomes a 48 hrs visitor in 365 days of the child as the courts cannot grant more time for the kid with the deserted father. The poisoned mind of the kid later is not able to connect to the father due to absence of bonding. A daughter is kept further away, as a couple of rare cases are cited to conclude father as a potential rapist. Where as the observation goes that a father daughter bond is as special as a mother and son.

POK – Patni Occupied Kanoon
Everywhere lazy and helpless authorities fix the blame to the script of law. Nobody has ever spoken of fixing the problem, NDA recommended Malimath who exposed the misuse to a great extent but the Govt was overpowered. Ms Nanda nodded to the misuse and NCW ripped her from her post. Pratibhatai introduced 41 (a) crpc amendment in police arrest procedure but lawyers went on strike as debugging this was a hit on the business of these pimps. So the winner is Patni. Losers are Women (Mothers and Sisters of Hubby) Husband, his siblings, his father and other relatives.

POK – Patni Occupied Kimti Waqt
A husband loses his peak time of life (kimti waqt – precious time) as nothing supports him due to the perpetuated natural burden of being a male is laid upon him. So he is at the mercy of the wife and cases where peak time and earning and potential productive planning is lost in unproductive justifications and fines in name of Alimony, Maintenance, Court Cases and negotiations, fighting fears of False cases of DV, 498a, 406, crpc125 etc. The time lost is anywhere from 2yrs to 6,7,8 and on and on. Worst are the cases where the hubby is in a forever pre-explosion stage, stranded for years and promised an amicable action by estranged wife every next week-forever-endlessly.

POK – Patni Occupied Khwab
Khwab – Dreams, yes all these are bound to give you sleepless nights and if at all you are blessed with sleep then you may get nightmares.

What do we do?
Keep fighting back. Keep supporting each other. Bring about the change. And stand firm. Keep fighting from a civil Disobedience to awareness to common man and media; from shaking up the pretentious sleepers to Debugging, towards a society of real equality, real empowerment and co-existance.

In to that Heaven of Freedom, My Father, let my Country Awake.

Amen.

10 Comments:

Blogger Spark said...

Amazing , simply stimulating and touching. Keep it up. Sanjay

Sat Feb 20, 08:20:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey Jinesh have a heart.. what you say is true.. but only those who undergo this trauma will understand.. so now lets Jehad against this injustice.

Sat Feb 20, 08:56:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey Jinesh have a heart.. what u say is true.. but only those who go under this trauma will understand.. Lets call Jehad against injustice.

Sat Feb 20, 08:57:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger IndianHusbands said...

thanks spark for your encouragement.

dear anon,

i remember kavi s once telling that dahej ka ulta is jehad similarly you hit the bulls eye by recalling this word.

Sat Feb 20, 10:32:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger mygoodfood said...

Hi Jinesh,
The POK has enemy training camp, we have Police Officer Kendra (Center) where they and advocates jointly trained the terrorist, to play their role in the court or outside.
There will be sectary or higher level meetings in and out side court to demand extortion money.
The hon’ble Judge ask for her in open court a huge money for her as he also get his share.
The solution is to learn lesson with Israel, we need to destroy the enemy camps by attack
Jinesh Ji jab jab is dharti pe Pap badtha he to PapiOn Ka(POK) nash karne ke liye bhagwan is dharti per janam lete he!

Good writing, please keep it up, we will win and inform you our success stories if you help as you do now.

Sat Feb 20, 11:55:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jinesh,
Terrific Analogy. Unfortunately the eyes, ears n other senses of our lawmakers, law-enforcers n law-breakers( patnis n their family ) r too dulled to respond to such genuine stimuli. GOD help us all.
T.c. Nobleheart

Sun Mar 14, 12:50:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jinesh
RabindraNath Tagore will be happy in his abode, that u used his poem's words in the right context / ( husband's family )burning topic of the decade.
NobleHeart

Sun Mar 14, 12:54:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Sandesh said...

That's the sad but true reality in India now. POK was once so far, now it has entered our house :-)

As usual, very well said.

Wed Mar 17, 09:59:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger IndianHusbands said...

Thanks Nobleheart, Mygoodfood and Sandesh for your valuable thoughts.

Thu Mar 25, 10:04:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Sarabjeet said...

Jinesh , Its time we all have to make the men aware of the severe danger from women i mean the wife.. Prenuptial Agreements are going to be the trend for marriage. Marriage's would be contracted for specified term period... In short the Institution of marriage is on its course for destruction

Wed May 01, 05:27:00 PM GMT+5:30  

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