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IPC Section 498-A: Misuse

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Women go to the police with a complaint (may be false), but the system provides to record that as a criminal complaint and that data adds in to the National Statistics of Crime Against Women. When male goes with a genuine complaint the police at max can record a Non Cognizable offence against the women. That will never reflect in the statistics. Then how will one guage crime against men? Every 100 Suicides in India have 63 Males and 37 Females. Every 100 male suicides have 45 married males, and every 100 women suicides have 25 married Women. Married women suicides have default arrests of the inlaws under presumed dowry death. Married men suicides entitle wife for a 50% share in property. What kind of equality is this? I thank you for visiting my blog, Please visit again. And I welcome you to participate on my Blog. [indianhusbands (at-the-rate) yahoo (dot) com]. Click here for Main Page

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Clean Shave: A Lion's Story.

Once upon a time there was a Lion, Majestic and dashing.  He had a lovely wife. Things were hunky dory till one day the Lioness read it in the media about one ad that promoted a clean shaven look. It was called as WALS: Women Against Lazy Stubble.

An extract of the press release read the following:
"The message that WALS intends to spread to men across the country is three fold:
1.      Till men don't shave, we will not co-operate with them.
2.      Now that the comfort of Gillette Mach 3 is affordable, there are no more excuses to not be shaving.
3.      If men don't shave, they shouldn't expect women to groom themselves either."

The Lioness was now under social pressure due the pseudo survey done by a paid agency and she requested the Lion to shave off.

Lion in return supported his style statement. He showed a survey to the Lioness that read that clean shaven was last on the list of masculinity and tried explaining the traditional Lion look, this was an honest survey as it did not promote any product in any manner. And showed this link. (Link right click and open in new window).

Shaken off with the assertiveness and words like culture and tradition the Feminist in Lioness protested and declared that if Lion did not shave she will not co-operate with him.

While Office or Shopping, I mean on hunt or stroll the Lioness heralded her new Fashion Statement.

Lion to avoid any war finally agreed and was about to purchase the shaving kit. But here Lioness insisted that Lion should buy the Rs.125 razor and shave else face the consequence for not being modern and metrosexual.

Lion faced this Verbal, Emotional and Financial Abuse as his priority was not to shave and if shave then not with a budget of Rs.125. But had to finally succumb to the opinion of the Lady Lion.

The Silent victim Lion Shaved and there was Peace in the Family.

Now they went together for hunting and for a stroll, suddenly the lion saw his face in the water and was shocked to see that he resembled a Lioness and his Manliness was missing without his Mane, thanks to the triple blade.

He cried but that is where he was reminded that He is Lion, in that case Lion argued that he should be allowed to choose his style statement, but he was threatened of a Domestic Violence Case where he would be a perpetual Lion on duties but not a Lion King as far as Rights are concerned. In other words 'Your are a Lion so do your duties, but you cannot roar or exercise your own choice, Better do what she says else do not expect co-operation'.

Similarly the Indian Men are reminded of being a Man when it comes to Duties and money is being made to siphon through unidentified economic abuse. Instead are legally charged of being emotionally and Financially abusive when they are assertive.

Stop this Convenient Shift of Responsibilities and Convenient Grabbing of Rights. Stop this name calling and Abuse of Male which is Emotional, Verbal and Financial. 

Let the choice be with him and Let us respect his choice. 

Jinesh Zaveri.  

PS: I know Lion's Mane and Stubble can arguably be different issues, but I am trying to convey a bigger message throught this Humor.


Blogger Jaspreet Singh said...

well done Jinesh...

you wrote it very well.. and fortunately there is no law prevailing in animals otherwise this would have been a real story...

we hear that most of the time that Man is a social Animal.... I realised this when I got married... realization of link between man and animal i.e. a man has to do his duties because he is a man but at the same time he is treated worst than an animal (at least animals have laws and Govt. funded NGOs protecting them)...

Now... we have SIF :-)

Wed Dec 16, 07:28:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger aashish said...

This is really awesome post. Everyone have his/her own identity by which he/she is recognized in the world.
Lions have beard etc this is what make him different and unique. This is decided by God(generator of all the creature)means natural law but Gillet/P&G such type of MNC's to fill it’s pockets, destroying the equi brium which is created by natural laws.

This can not be fruitful. We have only one world, we have to save it from such type of nonsense.

Wed Dec 16, 08:46:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger rajdeep singh said...

good show ,bro.we R fighting with males as all pro women laws R passed & implemented by males only.we R too novice that we R struggling to protect & provide women then we give them laws to trouble us. first we have to reform ourselves then go for females.

Wed Dec 16, 09:14:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Jinesh Zaveri said...

Thanks Jaspreet Aashish for your comments.

@ Rajdeep, very correctly said only yesterday one person approached me to speak in his group after 5 years of my request that i had made earlier when our group was unknown for SIF awareness presentation.

he was still uncomfortable with his view point of talking about men.

he was clearly and blindly a follower of feminists. and he felt he was supporting women.

its a matter of conversation and speaking up brevely like you to make a difference.


Wed Dec 16, 09:37:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Swarup said...

Today abuse the men by women ( see maximum anit-male advertisement by corporates) and use dirty words, verbal abuse, mental abuse, economical abuse had became a social service , forget the same termed as crime, those male hater women openly abuse the men to fulfill thier fantasy termed as social activist, that is the irony and men prefer to sleep.
Wake up men till it too late or be ready to pay the price.
Save India , not Shave India.
Stop domestic violence against men.

Thu Dec 17, 10:02:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Jinesh Zaveri said...

Thanks Swarup for your participation. Its a pleasure to hear you.

Thu Dec 17, 11:16:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Purushottam said...

At the moment I just remember what Adlai E Stevenson once said “The best reason I can think of for not running for President of the United States is that you have to shave twice a day.”

Save India and not Shave India!

Thu Dec 17, 11:29:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I like the way u explain stuff with metaphors.....read ur other articles based on similar scenarios.Good ones!!

Thnanks for spreading the message.

"Indian Men are reminded of being a Man when it comes to Duties and money is being made to siphon through unidentified economic abuse."

Mon Dec 21, 05:09:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

good metaphors used.....i like the way u used it in other stories also.

message conveyed very well.


Mon Dec 21, 05:17:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Mihir said...

Most men are cowards. In order to feel great/macho/hot in the eyes of a woman, they go to great lengths to please a woman. In pleasing women, these men are losing their individuality, creativity, and of course their life-essence.
Men should start respecting their self and don't care what women think. Only when men respect their self, there shall be understanding of the value of independence and individuality. Men should never succumb to the societal/cultural pressures which are lop-sided. To hell with society! Men should stand up for their own self and do whats right for them. Be ready to be ostracized but never give up on one's values. All great men were ostracized/mocked in the beginning but later the world recognized them as geniuses.
Stand up for yourself, because no one will do it for you.

Great post Jinesh :-)

Tue Dec 22, 12:22:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Jinesh Zaveri said...

Thanks Puru for your participation.

I like your observation Rony as "YES" what you observed is close to my heart, i am happy that you have got what i am trying to convey. Keep your views flowing.

Hey Mihir, this blog was missing you big time bro. Thanks for coming back. Hope to see you frequently.

Its a definate telipathy, i was thinking about, long time no talk with you just today noon as i was in your residence vicinity for official work and bingo i found out that at that time you were commenting on my blog. :-)

Tue Dec 22, 11:11:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Sandesh said...

Very well said !. Society is always trying to put restrictions on males. Narcissist women are supported by their cuckoid husbands. These "narcissist women" and their cuckoid husbands, are the number 1 enemy of men.

They forget that all progress made by human civilization, is due to free willing males. Have a look at Tiger Woods, this genius has been forced to sit home, due to his unscrupulous wife. Such is the sad state of males worldwide.

Sat Jan 09, 07:29:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Jinesh Zaveri said...

Thanks for Commenting.

Not Quite Sure on Tiger Woods.

Rest I Agree.

Sat Jan 09, 07:26:00 PM GMT+5:30  

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