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IPC Section 498-A: Misuse

Dedicated to the Victimised Indian Families, Who are falsely threatened & Blackmailed by the Indian Daughters-In-Law & her family members, and those Victimised families who are already falsely charged under the Section 498A. Its all about False charges of Dowry Law, Domestic Violence, Alimony, Marriage and Divorce. NOTE: All articles are my personal copyright. They may be republished if the source is acknowledged and a link provided to this site. This is not an Anti-Women Blog. Read Disclaimer.

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Women go to the police with a complaint (may be false), but the system provides to record that as a criminal complaint and that data adds in to the National Statistics of Crime Against Women. When male goes with a genuine complaint the police at max can record a Non Cognizable offence against the women. That will never reflect in the statistics. Then how will one guage crime against men? Every 100 Suicides in India have 63 Males and 37 Females. Every 100 male suicides have 45 married males, and every 100 women suicides have 25 married Women. Married women suicides have default arrests of the inlaws under presumed dowry death. Married men suicides entitle wife for a 50% share in property. What kind of equality is this? I thank you for visiting my blog, Please visit again. And I welcome you to participate on my Blog. [indianhusbands (at-the-rate) yahoo (dot) com]. Click here for Main Page

Monday, January 25, 2010

He is a Man, He is a Human too - A Tribute to MEN

He was born for a Purpose,
Inherited with no choice,
on revolt he is often accused,
of having a loud voice.

He Dies for the Nation,
he is a protector of generations,
This unsung Hero,
sadly is valued a Zero.

Religious but sinner,
An obvious bread winner,
He always needs to strive,
for his family to survive,

Gets the blame in the game,
pays through nose as per laws,
He does his every bit,
But never gets any credit.

He grows with a burden,
of money that he should earn,
sweat out his whole life,
Churn and Burn.

He is reminded who he is,
whenever he wants to cry,
responsible he is,
he just cannot shy.

When he talks of his rights,
People often make Fun,
Lets face it, Dear world....
We've missed out on this one...

He is a FATHER,
he is a BROTHER,
he is a HUSBAND,
he is a SON....

He is a man
He is a man
He is a man
He is a Human.

He is a Human.

* * * * * * * * * * *

I was discussing with Grant Medical College Group of students (Mumbai) who have shown a very constructive interest and sensibility towards the issue of a Battered Husband and the syndrome that a male suffers from as a trauma which is a result of tension related to modern marital life. And this Poem was born, as I penned down these lines. I wish them all the success in their Battered Husband Syndrome Project.

This above poem is a tribute to Man.
Phrase 1: He was born for a purpose and has inherited the prime responsibility of growing up and earning for the family, as everyone wishes they should have a son coz he can inherit the responsbilities as a son and take care of the family financially and physically. He is often attached to responsibilities of respecting everyone at the cost of his dignity everytime that he talks about self.

Phrase 2: He makes laws for the world but the world has forgotten to include him.

Phrase 3: He is religious, god fearing but like valmiki commited crimes by looting for his family he too has to commit crimes for feeding the family, but in return he gets nothing.

Phrase 4: The law treats him like an ATM and above all he is ridiculed.

Phrase 5: He is forced in to child labour and always taught to earn, save and spend on others in family first.

Phrase 6: He cannot even express himself emotionally as he is burdened as a male and later labelled as emotionless.

Phrase 7: He is always being mocked at everytime he talks of his rights. Lets face we have neglected him by burdening him as a favourite only in books.

Phrase 8: He can be one of them to you dear reader, a father, brother, husband or son.

Phrase 9: He is a man, He is a Human too.

- Jinesh Zaveri.


Anonymous prassoon said...

awesome poem.. indeed touching

Tue Jan 26, 05:29:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Crusader said...

As usual, brilliant.

Tue Jan 26, 10:03:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Indian Man said...

Great Poem Jinesh.Very thought provoking.Keep-up the good work.

Tue Jan 26, 11:25:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Gr8 Jinesh. You are brilliant.Keep it up.

Tue Jan 26, 03:17:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Indian Man said...

brilliant!!! an apt reflection of situation of men in society. When will Mr. Moily understand this.

Tue Jan 26, 03:52:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger mygoodfood said...

Mard ko bhi dard hota he!
What a poem!

Tue Jan 26, 04:03:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Jinesh Zaveri said...

Thanks Prassoon, crusader, Wasif, anon and Mygoodfood.

I have always heard such works dedicated for women I thought we too must acknowledge men and celebrate being men.

Tue Jan 26, 05:24:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger yodha said...

Excellent poem. It recognizes the selfless service of men towards society.

Tue Jan 26, 09:51:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Mihir said...

One of the finest poem I have ever read, and only a real man can write and understand this.

Wed Jan 27, 12:25:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Spark said...

Simply scintillating and heart touching.... Keep up the good work, dear...Sanjay P

Wed Jan 27, 04:18:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger sneha said...

I loved the poem and I would like to congratulate Grant Medical College students for their project.
Keep up the good work guys........

Thu Jan 28, 11:41:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Karim said...

Excellent work Jinesh..As usual you are the best one. Make the society realise the existence of us MAN. Rightly said "He makes laws for the world but the world has forgotten to include him "

Amit Nachankar

Thu Feb 18, 10:39:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Jinesh Zaveri said...

Thanks Yodha, Mihir. Spark, Sneha and Samir for decorating this piece of work with your viewpoint.

Sat Feb 20, 05:00:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Amit Deshpande said...

Excellent poem :)

Sun Feb 23, 02:16:00 PM GMT+5:30  

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