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IPC Section 498-A: Misuse

Dedicated to the Victimised Indian Families, Who are falsely threatened & Blackmailed by the Indian Daughters-In-Law & her family members, and those Victimised families who are already falsely charged under the Section 498A. Its all about False charges of Dowry Law, Domestic Violence, Alimony, Marriage and Divorce. NOTE: All articles are my personal copyright. They may be republished if the source is acknowledged and a link provided to this site. This is not an Anti-Women Blog. Read Disclaimer.

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Women go to the police with a complaint (may be false), but the system provides to record that as a criminal complaint and that data adds in to the National Statistics of Crime Against Women. When male goes with a genuine complaint the police at max can record a Non Cognizable offence against the women. That will never reflect in the statistics. Then how will one guage crime against men? Every 100 Suicides in India have 63 Males and 37 Females. Every 100 male suicides have 45 married males, and every 100 women suicides have 25 married Women. Married women suicides have default arrests of the inlaws under presumed dowry death. Married men suicides entitle wife for a 50% share in property. What kind of equality is this? I thank you for visiting my blog, Please visit again. And I welcome you to participate on my Blog. [indianhusbands (at-the-rate) yahoo (dot) com]. Click here for Main Page

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

My Dear Sachin Tendulkar

I became an ardent fan of Tendulkar only because of his Father. Whom I had met at Patkar College Goregaon Mumbai, in Nov 1997 in a 4L Elocution Competition. I was that time a pompous manager of Aptech who had sponsored the competition. I reached late to the event as a busy manager, then sat on an empty chair next to an Old Humble Gentleman. To all college Students who were aptechites and participating in the competition I was loudly clapping and trying to impress the Old Gentleman by conveying him that I was a young manager from Aptech.

This continued for awhile, the competition got over and the judges were introduced at length and then it was turn of one Marathi Poet, Writer, Professor of Kirti College, Mr Ramesh Tendulkar who was also Father of Sachin Tendulkar and this gentleman next to me got up and went on the stage and he was so humble, I felt so embarrassed on my pompousness. Later, I too was invited for a cup of tea with the judges and I had the priviledge of shaking hands with this Gentleman twice, once while the first intro and later while begging leave.

While we were leaving the staff room I saw Tendulkar Sir being surrounded by the college students good in number. All wanting an autograph. And I just asked myself what have I done for my dad so far? Some days later I woke up and cried in the middle of the night with the same regret of not having given a single chance to my dad to feel proud of me. And I promised myself to give my best in my work. Meanwhile I came across the Radio Announcer Hunt at the All India Radio and I put in my best just because of the Tendulkars Aura that was felt live at Patkars. I got selected as an Announcer with All India Radio. And I said Thanks to the Tendulkar Father and Son, witnessing whom I learnt to achieve without pompousness and by putting best.

Coming on to today’s Point
The desperate Feminists have now hijacked the mind of Humble ICONS. Tendulkar has spoken something with regards to the responsibility of a male and Domestic Violence Awareness and who would not speak? but may be he is not aware of the facts. Such organizations fool such humble people with false surveys and stats supported by hand in glove media. And get statements out of ICONS, market them to get funds and then misuse for manufacture of more false statistics by filing false cases and feed the corrupt pockets and fill the innocent minds with help of media Captivity. And its my moral duty to inform this Proud Mumbai Indian about the truth.

The condition of an Indian Husband (Perceived V/s Real).

Indian Husbands do not have a provision to record a cognizable offence and Indian Wives have the power to record a false FIR that will attract jail to the entire family of Indian husbands. Proven Misuse of 98% as per NCRB and Acknowledged by Supreme court as Legal Terrorism. to get rid of this misuse of law Domestic Violence has been framed where one can lie and get the demands fulfilled from the court without being caught. Even Girija Vyas has been caught agreeing on this point. 

Married Men Continue to commit suicides and their data is hidden. People Speak of 30K married women committing suicides year on year but no one want to talk, publish, telecast, research the fact from NCRB data that every year almost double married men commit suicide, 58000 in yr 2007 alone. Indian Husbands are like Tendulkar’s Batting without bat.

Buckonered Dismissals by System and Society.
The husband is a helpless Sachin with the burden of the team (Work, Home, Family) and the System including Police, judges are all Bucknors who arguably has given most wrong and harsh decisions against Sachin in this case Indian Husbands. Be it Alimony, 498a, 406, child custody etc, you name it and its all against the Hubby.

Society and Similarity between Sachin and Indian Husbands:
If You play well then you are labeled as bound to play and if you are in a lean patch, all would criticize. In case of Hubbies too yes friends, Society, Courts etc will never listen to the plea of the hubby as he is strictly duty bound where as the Wife is strictly Right Bound with no duties attached to her.

Learning from Sachin:
To name a few sledgers Mark Taylor, Mervin Hughes, Wasim Akram to Abdul Qadir all have got in to massive confessions of sledging on Tendulkar, bowling bodylines, Targetting him and keeping a watch. But he has kept calm. Similarly Indian Husbands have the Taylors to Symonds of the World in their Wives’ Nagging but they have to keep calm. But the Advantage that Sachin has is he can talk with his bat by hammering the opposition, Indian Husbands on the other end are not allowed to react else they are charged of verbal Domestic Violence and its other fragments. Hence Indian Husbands are Losers unlike Sachin on Field who has his basic strength execution with him. Husbands on the other hand are victims of the violation of Basic Constituional right of Article 14 of not being discrminated on basis of Creed, Sex.

Sachin said that "I never played with a runner in my entire life, even in schools, because only I know where the ball is going and how hard, when I hit the ball, something my runner will never know about". Similarly do not depend totally on the lawyer who acts as a runner and may run you out. plan your own strategy and have a team like SIF and call the shots by being in control of the situation.

Appeal to Sachin:  
One does not have to be a cancer patient to support the Cancer Cause, Similarly being happily married does not stop one from supporting the Slient Innocent Indian Husbands and his innocent parents and siblings. Dear Sachin, do Mention your reservation on Misuse of the Law on Innocent Sr citizen Parents and Mothers and Sisters of Husband, Do oppose the misuse of law by the Unscruplous Wives. And Do support the truth. The Let the world know that you are not against innocents and with the hidden criminals. Data is out, thanks to RTI. Now there is no secrecy and fooling of Humble Icons.

I have always prayed for you as you are my IDOL of life, I danced better than my Nephew today when you got your Double Ton in One day today. As a younger brother, I request you to Please pray for the Innocents and do not fall prey to supporting of a Group that is destructive under the carpet and project a false cause. I am sure you will not disappoint the Innocent Indian Husbands. Your Statement Matters a Lot. We take you very seriously. I hope you recognise our plight.

Once again, Congratulations on the Double TON. This feat according to me is the best in making you Immortal on the Pages of History.

For the Family Welfare of Indian Husbands,
Yours Mumbai Indian,

Jinesh Zaveri.


Anonymous Sumanth said...

Indian Men and their parents accused of domestic violence are presumed guilty till proven innocent and the law mandates their jailing without investigation.

A lot of elders, women and even children are thrown into jail. Its unfortunate, if Sachin has ignored these facts and collateral damage of some well intentioned laws.

The Family Violence Prevention Fund is a controversial organization in US, which ignored violence on children or elders by women. It ignored mutual bidirectional domestic violence. It works on unscientific social experimentation.

Sachin should change his mind.


Thu Feb 25, 01:05:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Sunita said...


Please keep yourself away from this false cause of arming women with family destructive laws.

We want more such Sachins to come forward, which can only happen when their is harmony in a family. The moment the wive is armed with laws with 498a/DV she is tempted to file false cases for extortion and money, jail the mother-in-law/sister-in-law, unmarried sisters of the husband, in false cases (with no punishment to the wife, for filing a false case), denying the father/hubby of even a visitation of his own child, preventing more such Sachins from coming up for our Great India.

Hope u would keep the request from the 1,20,000 women who have been jailed in false 498 cases in the last 4 years only, without any evidence, investigation or Trial.


Thu Feb 25, 10:23:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Blogger raj said...

Congrats to Everyone on our Master blaster greatest success in one day International,

Dear Sachin, I am an admirer of your humbleness and simplicity in life from personal to professional. I strongly believe that you can really penetrate the truth with your calm and cool brain. But I am feared that even after knowing this truth will you dare to speak on it, as you have never been in criticism on any issue. You are born to play cricket but today you have great command over the Indian public and many of us just bow down our Heads for your achievement and class. Your simple childish voice has great effects on Indians. Would you like to speak for Minors not for Majors. Would you really stand for truth of harassed Indian husbands from law,police,society, feminist and judiciary.

You have got great achievements and success and you never shown any pride for them. But as genuine genius person on this earth would you like to toss up your entire fame and success by speaking for real victims and for them who do not have any remedy/relief from any where/ from any source in this system. Even door of justice is closed for them. If you really find these voice is genuine and rational then please raise this voice.

May GOD reach this voice to SACHIN RAMESH TENDULKAR's FATHER so that when our great hero look again up in the sky for his father blessings he may able heard this voice from him.

Thu Feb 25, 10:48:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Neha DV Victim by sis-in-law said...

Good post and an eye opener. Celebrities must either know the full story and then only endorse or else keep out of such "cause". Cancer is caused by disease outside human control but Domestic Violence can be caused by either. Doesn't Sachin or "sane people" know about this? Hasn't he seen heavy-built/abbusive women in his entire life? Maya, Jaylalita, Girija Vyas,Renuka Chowadry, Rakhi Sawant. And ofcourse who can forget the abusive and arogant Sambhavna Seth in Bigg Boss or Nautanki Rakhi Sawant slapping her Boyfriend on TV. Sachin Try doing that on TV to any girl and u will know how it is to be a man.

Comeon come to reality. Women are as aggresive as men and laws favouring one over the other MUST GO. or else call Taliban, they have all mechanisms in place already why reinvent the wheel.

Thu Feb 25, 11:49:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Neither all men are wrong, nor all women are good ! Law is not wrong, but has been misused - having myself a victim of this misuse. I still respect women & law. But yes, women welfare associations need to look into the aspect of controlling this misuse, not only because they have become a 'fool' themselves by not been able to control the misuse, but also because, its the WOMEN (aged mothers, innocent sisters etc) who are worst effected. We, men, may survive any humiliation to us or to our father or brother, but we are very sensitive when it come to our mother & sisters. Though Sachin, you are right on this drive of promoting non violence, please do convey a message of not misusing this law & also 'push' these law makers to make severe punishments for those who misuse this law.

Thu Feb 25, 01:07:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Swarup said...

This is the typical mindset of Indian men. More than 98% men faced the domestic violence in terms of Verbal absue, mental absue, economical abuse, physical abuse at least once in three years and the same study was telecast in Loak shabah TV, whcih definetely Sachin never brother to understand, like all men do. They only try to wake up , when some cruel women file a false and fabricated sexual harrasement or Domestic violence case against them to do the extrotion in open in fornt of media, court and police. I will not be surprised , to see some days to get a news some women file some domestic violence case or sexual harrsement case against sachin also , as to file the same cases , is as easy as to just order a Pizza or a cup of tea.
Rest all over the world Domestic violence is gender netural, but in idia we indian men belive, all women born in raja harish chadra family , never lie , so thier verbal alligations to be taken as hard truth, where as all men born as criminla and women beater. More than 57000 indian men ending thier life every year and all husbands killers moving freely in our society and sachin will never know that , he will know only when some greedy women will file a domestic violence or sexual harrasment case against him or his beloved one, including his son.

Thu Feb 25, 04:01:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous nobleheart said...

U r right. We should write an open letter explaining the facts / showing the dark side of the moon.
Do give his email id / site / blog.
A lady victim ( for eg. Neha DV victim )will the best person to exemplify & convey our deep pain at the 98% misuse of DV n 498A.
Meanwhile, GOD save Indian husbands, their mothers n sisters !

Thu Feb 25, 07:02:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I was fan of sachin till the time I came to know that he is supporting legal terrorist camps within India.

It is fault of Sachin to find truth before joining legal terrorist camp.

It is his fault if he does not know that 98% cases u/s 498a IPC are false.

He is not the victim of false stats but we are the victim of his innocence.

Sachin has hurt us. I am sorry sachin to say so.

Ram Balak

Fri Feb 26, 10:55:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Blogger amazon498a said...

Boman Irani rings the Bell.
Sachin bats for women as well.
Men may not show and tell,
But abuse by women hurts like hell.

Domestic Violence is not a gender issue!
It affects men and boys too!

Fri Mar 12, 08:18:00 PM GMT+5:30  

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