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IPC Section 498-A: Misuse

Dedicated to the Victimised Indian Families, Who are falsely threatened & Blackmailed by the Indian Daughters-In-Law & her family members, and those Victimised families who are already falsely charged under the Section 498A. Its all about False charges of Dowry Law, Domestic Violence, Alimony, Marriage and Divorce. NOTE: All articles are my personal copyright. They may be republished if the source is acknowledged and a link provided to this site. This is not an Anti-Women Blog. Read Disclaimer.

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Women go to the police with a complaint (may be false), but the system provides to record that as a criminal complaint and that data adds in to the National Statistics of Crime Against Women. When male goes with a genuine complaint the police at max can record a Non Cognizable offence against the women. That will never reflect in the statistics. Then how will one guage crime against men? Every 100 Suicides in India have 63 Males and 37 Females. Every 100 male suicides have 45 married males, and every 100 women suicides have 25 married Women. Married women suicides have default arrests of the inlaws under presumed dowry death. Married men suicides entitle wife for a 50% share in property. What kind of equality is this? I thank you for visiting my blog, Please visit again. And I welcome you to participate on my Blog. [indianhusbands (at-the-rate) yahoo (dot) com]. Click here for Main Page

Monday, March 30, 2009

Bow Wow: Indian Police on Indian men

Well actually I was very lucky in police matters when it was needed. As I did not face all the hurdles with the police that I get to hear from victims over the helpline and in meetings. But finally I saw how they treat Indian husbands and Indian Male by the very virtue of their being one.

I witnessed two cases where the attitude of police was clearly not in favor of the male. One of them being matrimonial which will be discussed when the right time will come, but as of now I would discuss a case that is not a matrimonial but a dispute between 2 genders. This time it’s the neighbors.

34 year old Shyam would not have taken a drastic step to lodge a complain to the society against his neighbor who must be 40 something if he was not aware how vulnerable he is to the chalak Indian women are when they make a ruckus for attention seeking and pressurizing. It was a matter of clearing the dump that belonged to Shyams Neighbors and was piled up at the doorstep of Shyams flat.

Shyams request was turned down very arrogantly and an embarrassing scene was created as his lady neighbor came rushing on him while arguing, thus increasing the chances of a physical contact, to which Shyam resisted and avoided any physical contact while arguing. But later she called it a physical assault on her by Shyam. And gave a statement to the police that she was slapped by Shyam and as usual there was no witness required for this.

Shyam was called on Sunday by the police. Being Sunday we all decided to have our meeting at the Nalasopara Police Station on Shyam’s request. On meeting Shyam the police took off with a high pitch voice. And this is what I witnessed with 9 other SIF Members.

I felt that police was nothing less than a lawyer for the lady, and later it was worst we all felt that he was like a dog with Neck Belt chained to the lady, so loyal and unconditional to her. It went like this.

Police: You are Shyam?
Shyam: Yes
now without asking for explanation the police barked Judge's verdict and tried to threaten....
Police: Bow Wow Bow Wow Tumhare khilaf FIR Hoga woof arf.
Shyam: ?????…….Karo!!!! (Police ka popat, as he expected Shyam to pee in his pants, unaware that he is a trained SIFian and more over a master of procedures due to past experience and ignorance at womens cell)
Police: Bow Wow Tumne ek lady ko Thappad Mara Grrrr woof .
Shyam: Wo to uska statement hai, aap ko mera bhi statement lena padega jo mein dene aaya hu
Police: Statement nahi lunga, BOW WOW FIR Hoga BOW WOW BOW WOW; (Pointing to us) yeh log kaun society wale hai? BOW WOW BOW WOW (Trying pressure tactics on us)

And we all stood with our chest wide and SIF TShirts.

Shyam: Sirji, hum log ka yeh hi kaam hai weekends ko
Police: Kya?
Shyam: Harassed husbands ko counseling karna including their family members, that is siblings and parents. Hum ko procedures ka idea hai. Main apna statement laaya hu, aap pls is par received ka stamp lagakar ek copy mujhe return kijiye.
I spoke: Sirji yeh hi to problem hai, aap bhi kuch nahi kar sakte ho siva apne haathon false statistics ko manufacture hota dekh, wo bhi helplessly. Because a complainant is a lady. But RTI ke figures chaukadene wale hai, supreme court ne accept kiya ke 98% cases law misuse ka shikar hai.
Police: (no more bow wow, now a cow) ok ok haan phir humko to 498a lagana hi padta hai….(pui pui pui…..) and makes a face.
I Spoke: Sir aaj bhi waisa hi case hai na, aurat apne aurat hone ka najaiz faida nahi uthae to behtar hai.
Police: (Jumping to this case) Nahi nahi Hum log to khali bithake baat karenge aamne saamne. Sort our karange. (pui pui pui) (F.I.R PHUSSSSS)
Then shyam gave a briefing of SIF. (The Police more than understood and went and sat at the corner because he knew he was wrong).

Later the complainant lady reached and she tried to cry and what not and was surprised to see that police was quite sobered down than her expectations as police knew that they was dealing with someone who was already harassed and cannot be taken on ride. Really sad she could not witness the BOW WOW of police on Shyam.

The police tried to make it a warning case and asked Shyam to sign it but being aware that police are under some pressure (Maybe bribe or upar se call) he realized the trap coz signing would have given the lady a chance to lodge a 2nd false complaint once again against him post so called accepted warning and then coz more trouble. They bullied that they were registering a 504 but Shyam said even he is entitled to be heard. The police tried to bully him that the matter will be referred to the court if Shyam is not agreeing to sign and Shyam agreed to fight it out in court rather than signing on paper. And insisted that his statement has to be accepted. Police accepted the statement with a lot of embarrassment of having being exposed, the lady watching with a surprise. Police started explaining the surprised lady the procedures as it must have been different version to her now rather than the standard sidha-kar-denge attitude.

The false complainant couple was clueless as they thought vardi’s pressure and lady’s tears would do the trick once again. But sad enough for them, panga SIF ke saath tha. Finally no FIR was lodged and the lady has removed all the garbage outside Shyam’s house.

I tell you all, Shyam (now one of the strongest counselors with SIF) if was not SIF Member he would have been a victim of a false statistics once again. In meetings we introduce each other with our favorite statements to the new victims, that initially when Shyam was harassed by police he had come to me (SIF) for counseling with loose motions but now is capable of giving anyone loose motions who would bully him on false grounds. SIF Zindabad.

Coming back to the point is, this reflects a lot on how police manipulate and make money from innocent victims esp males and how vulnerable are Indian Males. And moreover police’s attitude of being bought by a devil woman for whom they would be no less than a lawyer or a Barking Pet Dog. The same happens in a false 498a, 406 too. The husband faces nuisance of wife, Police and then State who fights in favor of the non compoundable false case against the tax paying husband with no holds barred under the carpet.

Anyways they manufacture statistics and the strong byproduct is a self made SIF Counselor. A grave that they are digging with a misuse of the shield.

Jai Hind,

Jinesh Zaveri.


Blogger Swarup said...

Dear all Indian Husbands and their Family Members, Vote for any party, but not to congress.

Today more than 56000 Indian Husbands ending their life every year due to congress anti-husbands, anti-family and anti-child biased and lopsided LAW like 498A/Domestic Violence act/CRPC125/Adultrity LAW/ 4 different maintance laws. The whole Husbands family had been converted as Free ATM machine and they had been treated worse than an animal in this country due all congress biased and lopsided law and policy.

Inspite of Supreme Court termed the Misuse of 498A as “Unlash Legal Terrorism” and Domestic Violence act as “most clumsy drafted LAW”, Congress government had not taken any corrective action and the whole husband’s family is suffering today.

Mon Mar 30, 04:31:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Right, we will not vote to congress this party have women like Renuka Choudhary, Girija vyas. these women leader getting international funding for so called women law also we need start campaign against adulteress women. when ever a women caught in adultery and husband goes to court for divorce, these b**ch file 498A against husband.

Mon Mar 30, 04:50:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Amitabh Dasgupta said...

when we take a look at the past instances of implementaion of these laws, we find that the implementation itself is wrong...

There is something about women (everyone knows what) that makes the police wag their tails after them...

These law enforcers enact as dictators and try to prove that they are right. All this is a result of inferiority complex..

I met a woman the other day who is fighting out a case to claim the property of the deceased husband.. when she approached the police to file a complaint against the husband's family for illtreating her, the police registered the case of DV and now she complains that the SHO is harassing her taking advantage of the fact that she is a widow at a very young age...

This is the true picture of our law enforcers.

Mon Mar 30, 05:01:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Feel free to delete this as its not exactly regarding 498a but its a real story. I slept with a woman (before my marriage), this woman was married and had a love marriage. This woman jutified her sleeping with me that she is here (in US) for 2 months and she is so habituated of sex that she can not live without it. I had forgotten it, untill I got married to a girl ( arranged marriage), who is caught in adultery with her best freind's(girl) brother. She has filed 498a on me and my whole family.
BTW, the woman I slept with me before my marriage, has given birth to a negro boy :)

Tue Mar 31, 02:34:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger preeta said...

This site is a haven for male losers who are terrified of women. Shame on all you mama's boys. I haven't seen a single post in this blog that speaks respectfully of any woman. I haven't see a single post where anyone talks of why 498A is also perhaps the husbands fault? What are the husbands doing that women want to separate from them? No one likes the divorcee tag , especially a woman. If she wants to divorce a man, there has to be a reason right? Just treat your wives right with love, care and respect, and you'll never encounter a divorce or 498 A.

Sat Apr 04, 11:29:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Preeta Chill please come out of the notion that women means wife only it also represent a sister and mother in law also who are falsely implicated in 498A so be cool we are here to save Indian family system which have got rotten by some women black mailers

Sun Apr 19, 04:55:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...


Jinesh Superb words on the police system..

Cheers keep it up

Fri Apr 24, 02:22:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

What are these so-called liberated women achieving?

Because of them genuine cases women-torture and dowry death are not getting attention.

On the other hand these women crooks are gaining upper hand.

At end of it both innocent people in form fake dowry cases (against men) and real dowry cases (against women) get ignored.

Wed Jul 29, 06:19:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am still not welcomed with 498a but will be having it soon...15 days of marriage i have got a DV on me claiming 15 lacs compensation,and loads of other dowry articles which i never received.Yes my fault was i did not allow her to keep any relations with her old fucking boy friend.:(
Girl has around 10 lac personal loans used for lavish living with the boy and expected me to repay it all..very late realized money was the only motive behind marrying me.
case going in bangalore and i have to travel from pune.Now new threats of 498a.Already spent a lot on police and lawyers.

Fri Sep 25, 12:47:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

(pui pui pui) (F.I.R PHUSSSSS)

Yaad hai mujhe, we all was there.......

Thu Nov 12, 12:14:00 AM GMT+5:30  

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