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IPC Section 498-A: Misuse

Dedicated to the Victimised Indian Families, Who are falsely threatened & Blackmailed by the Indian Daughters-In-Law & her family members, and those Victimised families who are already falsely charged under the Section 498A. Its all about False charges of Dowry Law, Domestic Violence, Alimony, Marriage and Divorce. NOTE: All articles are my personal copyright. They may be republished if the source is acknowledged and a link provided to this site. This is not an Anti-Women Blog. Read Disclaimer.

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Women go to the police with a complaint (may be false), but the system provides to record that as a criminal complaint and that data adds in to the National Statistics of Crime Against Women. When male goes with a genuine complaint the police at max can record a Non Cognizable offence against the women. That will never reflect in the statistics. Then how will one guage crime against men? Every 100 Suicides in India have 63 Males and 37 Females. Every 100 male suicides have 45 married males, and every 100 women suicides have 25 married Women. Married women suicides have default arrests of the inlaws under presumed dowry death. Married men suicides entitle wife for a 50% share in property. What kind of equality is this? I thank you for visiting my blog, Please visit again. And I welcome you to participate on my Blog. [indianhusbands (at-the-rate) yahoo (dot) com]. Click here for Main Page

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Choose 1: Better Jail for Hubbies or Funding a Terrorist?

Money is anyway going from our pockets, so let us Use it for Constructing a better and Separate Jail for Husbands rather than Funding a Financial Terrorist.
I would quote Sant Kabir on begging.....
“Mangan Maran Saman Hai,
Mat Koi Mange Bheekh,
Mangan Se Marna Bhala,
Yeh Satguru Ki Seekh”
Translation: "Begging is like perishing, none should go imploring, It is better to die than beg, this is pure Guru's teaching". This applies to both husband and wife and their sides (Dowry Species).
When the girl leaves the house just because she has an ego of earning on her own and being an able 21st century women, why is it that in the room of courts she changes her lingo to a lie of dependency. Just because she gets the facility of real monster alimony?

This article is written keeping in mind those couples capable of working, who have had a dowryless marriage and have been associated for a very short while and have got into endless loops of negotiations for alimony, where husbands have to shell money with no logic in binding.
Dada Bhagwan said in Gujarati: “Pota na Hak nu Khai te Manushya thai, Anhak nu khai tey janavar thai, hakknu bijane aapi de to devgati thai, ane annhakknu maari ne le toh narkgati ma jai.
Translation: (If you eat what belong to you then you get a life of a Human, If you eat from what is not yours then you become animal, if you donate what belongs to you then you get heaven, and if you snatch someone else’s rightful belonging then you get hell.)

Jainism also talks about good and ill effects of Supatradan and Kupatradan (donation to Deserving and underserving characters.)
The whole idea here is not to Lavish Care on an adult because it belong to a gender called female, it should be observed that she is able bodied and needs to be enabled with capabilities. To avoid the misuse of civil disobedience I would quote Gandhi “non cooperation of evil is equally important as is co-operation with evil”

During interviews on various national channels in india post the implementation of the Shameful DV Act, most women were happy to have a loosly drafted law that would terrorise the husbands. And they confessed that such a terror to the husband and his family is good rather than an equal law, thus justifying the misuse as their safety.

To such a harsh attitude, I would suggest the husbands to take a stand of disobedience to the ritual called alimony (SOWRY) and populate the jail. Well, it invokes a criminal procedure code amounting to Jail term to husband in case of contempt "But then its better to go to jail rather than funding a Terrorist who would settle scores with false cases in order to get their desired unjustified alimony". Lets become a majority in Jails and then have a separate cell for Husbands. If NCM is made we can allocate the funds for "special jail of husbands of educated wives" for violating the alimony law.

Let it start in the educated middle class sector where it is required, as Gandhi also committed this crime and made british to change their stand of pretending sleep.
Why be afraid of jails? The possible reasons are…
1. Badnaami (loss of reputation): Yaar Abhi kaunsi izzat bachchi hai. Aur itni badnaami ke baad paise kyu dene, time bhi to khoti hua. The damage to the image is already done and why pay a fine for our defamation and trauma? so jail is better option. We work hard and pay a share to govt and another to the legal trouble maker? No way.

2. Well the people around us would be criminals and terrorists in the lock up: Yaar shaadi se bada terror attack aur kaunsa ho sakta hai and terrorists ko jhelna shaadi ne sikha hi dia hai. (Some people do not fear terrorist, for they were married for some years in their life) All are as fearless as Major Unnikrishnan.
3. As explaied... Jail Bharo regularly: Never give them your obedience. Automatically the population of decent harassed victimized husbands would increase and this will create a special scope for a Jail or Cell exclusively for husbands.
--> These Professionals or Techie husbands in turn can serve the police by maintaining their websites, teach the lower cadre police with good speaking/ communication skills in English. Can help the police department in the IT Division on a great scale by automating their procedures. Do good backend jobs for the police under station arrests. And front end guys can attend phone calls and do coordination. For basically they are not criminals but are fighting the bugs in the system. And also empowering the system with their strengths.

Let us mean independence. Making her legally dependant and calling it independence, freedom and empowerment is a noteworthy contradiction. Lets Break that.

Let us allocate our funds for a special jail only for husbands rather than funding a Legal Terrorist. After contributing to 80% of the taxes, "Apni aazadi ko hum Hargiz Mita sakte Nahi, Sar Kata Sakte hai lekin Sar jhuka sakte nahi..."

The fight is not just with the otherhalf but with the system,

Jinesh Zaveri.

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Blogger omsingh shekhawat said...

“Mangan Maran Saman Hai,
Mat Koi Mange Bheekh,
Mangan Se Marna Bhala,
Yeh Satguru Ki Seekh” a great piece of philosopher kabir i like it

Mon Jan 19, 09:35:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Jinesh Zaveri said...

Thanks Om,

Welcome to my blog, Infact this doha of kabirji triggered this article.

Mon Jan 19, 09:51:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Kavi said...

Jinesh Bhaiya

Actually, you missed out on the most important point.

Given the Pakistan's overflowing population with AK47, Jails are emerging as the safest places in

While you are demanding, do make sure you demand for a 5 star facilities. 5 Star mangenge to 1 ya 2 milega.

Tue Jan 20, 12:12:00 AM GMT+5:30  
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Fri Jan 23, 12:24:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Common Man said...

Well said my Friend.. Women have hijacked everyting with their clevage and tears.. and I hate it.. I too have tried to speak about it in my blog http://tinyurl.com/dmroq8 .. do let me know how you like it.

Wed Jan 28, 07:38:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger kickinhard said...

It is really amusing to see women having great jobs asking for alimony from husbands just to settle personal scores. What you ask is somewhat similar to what Gandhiji did when he decried the salt tax and refused to pay it. Although that was a law made by the British whereas the alimony law is our own creation. Men ignored the process of law making, didn't object to them and hence these biased laws are being enforced. Unfortunately, as a law abiding citizen the only option you have is to get the change the law. Till then victim men just have to deal with it.

Wed Feb 04, 06:58:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Very well said Jinesh !! Once the monetary benefit is eliminated from the game, these extortionists will have nothing to gain and only then the law misuse will stop....

Also, all the people gaining something in the procedure will only then realize that innocent people cannot be made to work hard and suffer just to fill up their pockets .....


Fri Jul 24, 01:14:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jail Bharo Andolan on Specified Date/month of year.

Fri Jul 24, 10:03:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear friend this is where iam now...my wife is earning around 45K per month which is just 5k less than mine but still she is demanding 15 lacs as compensation in DV plus monthly maintenance of 10K :).Plus claiming 5 lacs of return dowry that i never received.
Cant say i will fuck her off as i have already fucked her :)
She assumes all is possible via DV and i will make her lick my feet for sure.

Fri Sep 25, 12:55:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Friends,

In India Wife Maintanance law is used by Wife and her Hungary Parents as a weapon, so break that weapon, do not give maintanance to 498A wifes, Its better to go to jail in contempt of court. Jail bharo is the correct way to protest 498A and to teach a good lesson to Money Hungary Wifes and in laws. I am also facing false 498case and from last 3 years i am fighting the case, with the same stretegy jail bharo, but maintanance na bharo, my wife has filed 9 cases on me but she has not get single paise from me. If all indian man get courage to fight all false cases of 498a and maintanance cases by jail bharo andolan then only this dirty law 498A will automatically loose its important. So follow the single rule "No maintanance to 498A wifes at any cost. Jail bharo but maintanance na bharo"

Satyamev Jayate

Mon Mar 15, 01:13:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dude....Finally my darling wife asked for mediation when she new i would not give her a single penny and agreed to "MY" terms and conditions.

Wed Mar 24, 11:28:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Pravin said...

Very well written Jinesh.

It's how WOMEN Empowerment has lost the Value Of Human Life.

With women empowerment, women are no more Human now.

Mon Sep 06, 05:12:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Pravin said...

@Rony : it's not one day or fruit of your own efforts. Do Thanks to those who fight for awareness before you.

Mon Sep 06, 05:14:00 PM GMT+5:30  

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