Mere Pass Maa Hai
Dearest Mummy,
I was born when you were 36, your late child :-). And my marriage had made me your late child otherwise, almost dead (chuckle). I know how I have survived. Rather you know how we did. And since I was born quite late after bade bhaiya’s arrival I felt that I have missed real good time with you as compared to him and will always feel.
In bhajans to Amba mata Bhaktraj Shri Amichand Writes...
“Nav mas rahyo garbh vass maa,
Pratham Janani ne didhu dukh”
(which means i have been in the womb for 9 months and 1st thing that I have caused you is pain, during my birth, while I was born and right from that day..) But you never would sing your own praises and would never complain.
Mom you are so nice, you have never felt bad about anything, you have been so unconditional. You have been so adjusting. You have been so punctual for me. Your pallu was my refuge. No doubt it still is, though may not be in literal terms but you are my obvious resort. I have vented my frustration on you, have told you so many things which I could have avoided. But you have been one sponge who soaked it all. You were not even a grad but you ensured on what I studied. I have not been as intelligent and successful as bade bhaiya but you never discriminated.
I have not been brave enough and I tried to please someone’s erratic demands from time to time, I pretended to be henpecked and blind (may be I was) and supported to drive you out of “your” house for some days with dad just because she wanted privacy in your flat big enough to accommodate 3 families, that she wanted to claim as hers. Not only sportingly you went, but you were always there for her when she was sick, to apply oil to her head and what not. Our neighbors in the new society believed that I was the son in law and she was the daughter. And some even thought that we were siblings born to you. You never bothered about her atrocities on you.
We also discovered that you were being ridiculed in front of her friends and she also had lied to us including to you many a times. But you had always been protective about her and forgiving, though she treated you differently in my absence. It is just because you have heart of a mom. But at the end you got muck, but in the interest of my relation you kept quite rather smiling.
My friends Umesh and Neena who were not as fortunate as me, they used to come home to meet you and not me, as Umesh found his mom in you who was away at his native and Neena who used to call you maa as she missed her Mom who is not in this world with her.
Not only you were strong but you have been the strength of dad and this family. I have been more like dad and hence when in college days I was asked in personality contest by the judge that what was my 1st choice Mom or Dad? I replied since I am more like my dad, my choice too would coincide like his and I would therefore prefer Mom. I mean it.
As per your instructions and principles I have been socially active, we launched free helpline for helping families 9224335577. We have also been active in field. You take care of your health.
As far as her threats, non co-operation and alimony settlement is concerned I am sure god will arrange for that too. I have your blood and principles in me, I would not beg in front of anyone and will not allow you too to suffer. I will settle everything and I would come out of it, because “Mere pass maa hai". Its time for me to pamper you, You deserve it.
Happy Mothers day to you.
I love you Mom,
Your Son.
I was born when you were 36, your late child :-). And my marriage had made me your late child otherwise, almost dead (chuckle). I know how I have survived. Rather you know how we did. And since I was born quite late after bade bhaiya’s arrival I felt that I have missed real good time with you as compared to him and will always feel.
In bhajans to Amba mata Bhaktraj Shri Amichand Writes...
“Nav mas rahyo garbh vass maa,
Pratham Janani ne didhu dukh”
(which means i have been in the womb for 9 months and 1st thing that I have caused you is pain, during my birth, while I was born and right from that day..) But you never would sing your own praises and would never complain.
Mom you are so nice, you have never felt bad about anything, you have been so unconditional. You have been so adjusting. You have been so punctual for me. Your pallu was my refuge. No doubt it still is, though may not be in literal terms but you are my obvious resort. I have vented my frustration on you, have told you so many things which I could have avoided. But you have been one sponge who soaked it all. You were not even a grad but you ensured on what I studied. I have not been as intelligent and successful as bade bhaiya but you never discriminated.
I have not been brave enough and I tried to please someone’s erratic demands from time to time, I pretended to be henpecked and blind (may be I was) and supported to drive you out of “your” house for some days with dad just because she wanted privacy in your flat big enough to accommodate 3 families, that she wanted to claim as hers. Not only sportingly you went, but you were always there for her when she was sick, to apply oil to her head and what not. Our neighbors in the new society believed that I was the son in law and she was the daughter. And some even thought that we were siblings born to you. You never bothered about her atrocities on you.
We also discovered that you were being ridiculed in front of her friends and she also had lied to us including to you many a times. But you had always been protective about her and forgiving, though she treated you differently in my absence. It is just because you have heart of a mom. But at the end you got muck, but in the interest of my relation you kept quite rather smiling.
My friends Umesh and Neena who were not as fortunate as me, they used to come home to meet you and not me, as Umesh found his mom in you who was away at his native and Neena who used to call you maa as she missed her Mom who is not in this world with her.
Not only you were strong but you have been the strength of dad and this family. I have been more like dad and hence when in college days I was asked in personality contest by the judge that what was my 1st choice Mom or Dad? I replied since I am more like my dad, my choice too would coincide like his and I would therefore prefer Mom. I mean it.
As per your instructions and principles I have been socially active, we launched free helpline for helping families 9224335577. We have also been active in field. You take care of your health.
As far as her threats, non co-operation and alimony settlement is concerned I am sure god will arrange for that too. I have your blood and principles in me, I would not beg in front of anyone and will not allow you too to suffer. I will settle everything and I would come out of it, because “Mere pass maa hai". Its time for me to pamper you, You deserve it.
Happy Mothers day to you.
I love you Mom,
Your Son.
posted by IndianHusbands | 11:15 PM
38 Comments:
Very exppressive feelings and thoughts. I guess you had more to say but have left it best unsaid, as sometimes even words may not suffice to put it into sentences.
AJ
ps: you may want to remove the last line"mere pass.." as it sounds filmy and eclipses the emotions.
I am really fond of your writings, this is very emational.God bless you.
Mere Pass Maa Hai ...
Though all those bastered feminist are killing our mother, sending them behind the bar for earning the money by doing the legal terrorism, but we must drag them in the road and open thier mask, how they are cheating the whole nation in the name of women well fare.
Let be honest and fight for honest people..
Mere Pass Maa Hai ....what more we need?
Your love towards your mom itself could be the sore point with many, and they find it easy to ridicule this by alleging that you are dependant on your mom, unable to make your own decisions.
But they never think even for a second that they also will eventually have children, and there will always be someone else who will point fingers at them... because history and karma doesn't vanish.
Thankyou all...Rebel, Swarup, Deep, Anonymous (How I wish I knew who you are) for the comments.
AJ, Nice to have you back after a long time. Your point is noted. But to keep your comment relevant I am not making changes.
Cheers!!!
I had to settle my score with Rebel from your previous post. Though as usual I know I had my way in that post, what was unacceptable when he used adjectives (which is a sign when a person cannot elucidate what he wants to say hence uses tripe as a last resort)
Here are some of the posts where I (ahem) J I got all the possible reactions from him thus frustrated & perturbed him to the core.
http://desicritics.org/2006/05/19/004729.php
http://desicritics.org/2006/05/16/095509.php
http://desicritics.org/2006/05/19/002158.php
http://desicritics.org/2006/05/17/002434.php
What more.. some of the comments made by me in DC are actually his derisive comments from your posts that I pasted in DC & guess what.. they all were censored. I had warned you to keep moderation in you blog inorder not to embarrass your guest commentators but you refused contemptuously.
May I quote of my blog friends from DC http://desicritics.org/2006/05/03/120052.php ( #21) which is so relatable for the eminent occasion::
"SIF stands for "Sadist Indian Fatbastards" or more officially "SaveIndian Family Foundation". Some desi netizens suspect it to be a sorry fraternity of sad bald men suffering from mental illness. These people are known to suffer from a disease called "misogynosis". Symptoms include blind hatred towards all women, psychosis and delusions of being victims.
Some also suspect it to be cult similar to Scientology. They are known to believe that article 498a of IPC which is an anti-dowry law is the source of all of human sufferings and that dowry deaths are a fabrication and women kill themselves just to for fun or to test the flammability of Kerosene.
These people are known to troll blogs and websites which may or may not contain articles remotely related to their cause. They also suffer from "empty rethoricosis" which leads them to invent statistics on the fly.
Also they are known to suffer from multiple personality disorder which leads a single siffer to post messages as both SIF members and over the top feminists. They do not know the concept of IP address and known to think that they can fool everyone.
There is no known cure for this disease and if You're unlucky enough trapped in a room with a tiger, a rattlesnake and a SIF member. You have a gun with two bullets. You are advised to shoot the SIF member. Twice.
Hope it helps."
SINCE am certain a storm will erupt here, may I be proactive and say the following (ref: http://desicritics.org/2006/05/03/120052.php (#39) for all the depreciatory reactions I may summon from your Save Indian Fatafuts J
"“SIF's English dialect is cool enough to deserve a name. I propose we call it "Sifish."
I've been studying Sifish. Some basic rules: (1) when in doubt, insert an article; (2) place verbs at the end of sentences; (3) Non-sequitors may make for bad logic but it's perfectly good Sifish; and (4) throw in an "[edited]" to leave the reader thirsting for more.
Perhaps a sample might clarify:
The woman's penis-envy worries over now with the IPC-498a tool to control (sorry, Freud-uncle). More men burn for the wrong psychological reasons. Who cares? Not imperialist bacchas of the babus with British queen.[edited]
Yes, I made it up. Call it Sifish-envy. Native Sifish speakers achieve a genuine and rustic vitality that's hard to mimic.
For example, S. Samudrey is an obvious master:
Do you think, dhoti ruler or a bureacrat or an uncle living in tensional relationships in marital life come to you and give you knowledge of aftermath(*) marital life in urban india. shit guys!
[Note* -- originally, "after math".]
Is that awesome or what!
Compare the above quote with one from G.V. Desani's All About H. Hatterr:
I write rigmarole English, straining your goodly godly tongue, maybe: but friend, I forsook my Form, School and Head, while you stuck to yours, learning reading, 'riting and 'rithmetic.
Desani's stuff is good, but you got to admit, it pales in comparison with real Sifish.
Hail Sifish.”"
As a digression(message only for Rebel):Once 4 gujju wives met at a party talking about their husband's new cellular phones....
First gujju wife says to others... "Maro pati ne pass mota laura (motorola) che!....
Second gujju wife replies.."Aree sirf mota laura thi kya hoga? errection(ERICSSON) chahiye!....
So the third gujju wife steps up & says..."aree mota laura bhi thick hai, errection bhi thick hai, Par semen (Seimens) nahi to kya fayda?...
And then the fourth said.."Mota laura bhi ho, errecson bhi ho, semen bhi ho, lekin na kiya (Nokia) tho kya fayda??....
Signing off.
Oh, what a slap!!!!! I turn my other cheek to you.
I appreciate the efforts that you have been making in writing so much and dedicating so much of time and energy and content to my blog. I hope you are feeling better. And if this is not enough feel free to write more and more of those kind of stuff.
Sincerely, I do not find any relevance most of the times and I still really do not understand what is bothering you and what do you want??
I still do not understand why should someone claim some open blogs like sulekha and dc as theirs and warn anyone. And why should someone vent that frustration elsewhere? But if that pleases you…so be it. I am all ears and lines to you.
You may ignore these lines below…
It is always to safe to fight as anonymous and go away with irresponsible comments, as the identity itself is secret and hence it bears no risk for both sides, so from both sides the communication getting rough should not matter, and hence the attack too should not be so badly handled. But try using your name and see how differently you are treated. Similarly someone who is using the name should not be so badly abused. He is anyways fighting with anonymous.
Anyway, I reject somethings that you have again mentioned as they were not answered prima facie on dc and hence I found futile discussing on those issues and I still do, I would prefer discussing those issues with relevant people at a relevant platform.
Feel free to write here and also if you want you may write to me personally if there is anything that is bothering you and if you want a genuine solution.
My blog is helping to get in touch with new genuine victims and I am occupied with helping them. That is enough for me.
May god bless you,
Bye.
Rebel
What is the meanning a real bastered, is the evidence in your comment section by the so called A women.
Strong dought, had she/he ever taken a honest mother milk?
Today she/he taking sleep less night how to kill more and more age old mothers, it is the time those Modern Lxman to decided in thier real life are they really want to kill the modern Ravan and Modern Superkaha !!!
If answer is yes..go ahed.
If answer is no.. join them and enjoy the killing of mothers....
Hope people know waht they used to call themself...
Rebel teri to phat gayi.
On your website, we stripped you .
Let me quote Rebel from DC, just changing the genders.
"while rebel and his gay friends were in a gay session enjoying each others hard fingers, suddenly they realeased that spectators at DC were watching them...ooops!"
It is good.
What jinesh, what differnce does it make if someone leaves an anoymous comment or leaves a name.
OK you can choose my name from a wide range...anjali, indu, kush, sangeeta, sunita. Or is there a copyright on these names and I have to take Kush's permission?
Oh just received this post in a forward. Vowww this is good stuff.
Kuddos to you anon, but come and see us at Sulekha, there are more gays like him.
I have nothing against gays, but they seem to have a problem with us women who are straight and once again to get even with us they have bombarded us with their vulgar email forwards which only orginates from their sex starved gay member Swarup. The pathetic part is that all other (more than 50 other yahoogroups ) receive them too.
As you have never made anon comemnts before huh?? You too have made your share of anon comments.
Come on Jinesh , let us hear it.
Anonymous or not, read the points.
God forbid if the anon above ever comes to know where and which places you have made anonymous comments as well as in DC.
Yeehhh...You nailed it.
Full and Final. Great job.
Now let me say something filmi style since this blog is full of c-grade sidey dialogues:
Jinehsesh Unceljie
Agar tune apni 'mere paas maa hai' walli ka honest milk piya hai to yeh comment delete nahi karna.
:)
otherwise kush ke papa will get angry.
Vowwww Rebel you kow so much.
First hand experience in seeing your mother or what?
Show your bloody 1 sized inch guts on DC and Sulekha or my blog.
Come on.
With the same comments ditto ditto.
I have done the same and my comments never got deleted .
So finally we made Rebel read our comments..
Nothing is more satisfying than when we see someone(him) contradicting his own ranting.
And asking Jinesh to delete comments??? Do not cry baby.
Yes do not bother about feminists DO NOT. So much so for your ranting that you want to change them. Booooooooooo
Rebel:"jinesh uncle see na these feminsits are troubling me, please delete their comments, for once go against your policy, i beg of jinesh"
Lesson: Stay away from my blog.
So obvious, Anjali and Apurva are one and the same person.
Yes it is truly your moment and enjoy it as the moment will only last for a moment. The war is on and we will get our way very soon. Feminists like you will not last long OR either we will perish. One will survive this battle.
Most of our members are mentally conditioned to be strong and Jinesh is one of them who is taking all this coolly as we are thick skinned. It is only a matter of time until we get such strong writers who will permanently end the 498a & fanatics. Nature will find its own way, truth will prevail.
And to Rebel, we thank you for all your help with reference to your email dated May 20th . Only a VICTIM who has faced the wrath of 498a will empathize with fellow 498a victims, the rest are mere spectators and selfishly fear their own safety, reputation, name and only join SIF for their own self-seeking purposes. And leave no instance to assert it their efforts. Once that is done they move to other greener pastures.
So Supriya, Anjali wundergal, AM and anon, enjoy your jiffy since any amount of censorship or deleting comments is not going to stop people who want to express. Deleting comments/banning is a job of people who fear when their game is coming to an end.
We have seen it all and do NOT fear anything, not are reputation , not our image, not our ‘name’ getting exposed even if it gets mercilessly splashed across as we have slaved it out & put to the grind by our own wife.
Rebel you make so many wrong observations.
Pissed me off---in your imagination Rebel.
But I have definitely pissed you off, you played right into everyones hands in DC.
Provoking me---forget it. No amount of filthy words from you will provoke me. Feminists do not get provoked. As our brains lie in our head and yours in your pelvic.
Fake Ids---naaaa, that will still not provoke and I will not be foolish to disclose my real name. Forget fake Ids, lets talk about multiple peroanlity disorder , for eg rebel, commoner, socialist and insanity. Refer above, it is a disease called
About men supporting us, hmmm…they do, they do, let us take the latest happening forum DC. One guy over there really screwed your self-esteem , another guy deleted your comments rather chopped it. Another shut you off with his smart oneliners. One more wrong observation by you.
You do not know who Apurva is, ask your friends, they will tell you. He is a real person with real name and real blog. One more wrong information by you but I cannot blame you as your limited pervert knowledge lies only in gays and their works.
In that case , Swarup is better than you a million billion times(ignore his English) , atleast he does not lie or speaks filth like you. He puts up a brave front no matter what and does not whine cry like you .
And yes, SIF activist, you make sense (and thank you) and I one behalf of all the women accept your challenge. Only one will survive.
In SIF group people have made good use of its help and used it to their own needs.
These people who use to for their own selfish reason are leechers and sleepers.
But the bone of SIF is very strong as it is made of hardcore victims that will not deter in their efforts. They have been victims of the misuseof the law and the hands of the indian judicial. WE are seasoned.
It's unity will not break and people who leave SIF or misuse to get famous are worhtless in every sense. Even dogs are loyal , they are leechers .
Good Job women.
Project successful. Rather we got bonused way too too much.
Now let us celebrate tonight with family, children , boyfriends & husbands and most important our God sent angelic brothers who are getting stronger by the day.
Knowing these people only too well, we know we have shaken them and given them a good dose of their own medicine.
Time to spend some of our husbands’ money J and go clubbing same time, same place. Agenda will be discussed there, start the phone chain. (Thank goodness no depressing patiala court for us-that is for dowry takers & criminals).
And ya…SIF activist(I know who you are) , I accept your challenge, I love gutsy people like you. And I loathe your clones like rebel who imitate you.
Clean bowled. Fantastic
You are famous Rebel, your story is spreading like fire in all yahoogroups.
"And to Rebel, we thank you for all your help with reference to your email dated May 20th . Only a VICTIM who has faced the wrath of 498a will empathize with fellow 498a victims, the rest are mere spectators and selfishly fear their own "
What do you mean by that?
Just came to see the reactions of rebel.
He has been royally screwed in DC. well this is what happens to people who want to run the show, deriding women all the time.
Good job. He deserved what he got.
He the coward is nothing but a rat that likes to hide in its hole.
United we stand , divided we fall.United we stand , divided we fall.United we stand , divided we fall.United we stand , divided we fall.United we stand , divided we fall.United we stand , divided we fall.United we stand , divided we fall.
Sif will go on.
IS this true? The dumb ass has deserved this royally.
Probably we will get to see teeth marks on his coward fat ass.
Can we click a picture of his scared ass and let all other sif gays have a look at it and a lesson to be learnt.
To the one who is commenting as Anonymous, Balaji, Anjali, and all other possible names... etc...
All those ID's Have had one thing in common till date. That is...
Domain Name: verizon.net (Network)
IP Address: 71.107.145.# (Verizon Internet Services)
ISP: Verizon Internet Services
Location: California.
(Other details will be disclosed if required.)
I have been observing your visits on my blog since the beginning.
Kindly avoid personal attacks, it was okay till you were commenting on a topic or with someone who has been involved in arguing with you. but i request you not attack those who are not involved in talking to you.
As a result since it was a personal attack on someones character i am deleting last 2 comments.
I hope you understand this request.
Thanks for fying me down to califrnia.
We are all over, if I or she comments, it is the same thing.
Finally you deleted comments. Now what will Swarup say to this? tsk tsk....
Comment moderation...I will tell swarup heeheeee.
That will shut his mouth once and for all.
Congrats!!!!
Those were the good old days when we all used to learn invaluable, priceless lessons of life in the warm lap of our mother.
And now, the kids learn from their mom how to dress provocatively, how to dance erotically, how to do make-up, how to lie, how to cheat, how to be selfish, how to sing movie songs.
Observing the present scenario, we can conclude that when women try to be like men and force men to be submissive, that is when the children - though could be successful and rich - lack the knowledge of life, lack the understanding to practice religious teachings, and live like animals and die like animals. And we are proud to live in such a manner.
If a mother can instil character, the father can instil courage. Both are indispensable in a person's life.
Those are the luckiest who can say, "Mere pass Maa aur Baap, dono hai".
Read my best friends post and see how all of us have made fun of it.
http://tamilpunkster.blogspot.com/
On eating human flesh
and before that read
http://www.saveindianfamily.org/blogs/2006/04/09/someone-stole-feminism/
more....
http://tamilpunkster.blogspot.com/2006_06_01_tamilpunkster_archive.html
Neha, a child killer is famous for such activity and got that right as a birth, like using dirty word, verbal abuse, nasty activity, adultrate realtionship a lot are there.
secondly you can eat/drink or shit on SIF article you are always well come for your dirty shit, but bring back those child you have killed.
You are hiding it is fine for me, come once in front of me, and then see your child making holes will be opened or sealed...
You can eat all the SIF article and this itself will tell the whole world:-
Legal terrorism, child killer pimps are ruleing this country.
Just wait for 22nd century...
That was great Jinesh. just keep going. You certainly are echoing feelings common to lot of people. Fine representaion i would say.
But, You missed the father's day.
Dear Girish,
Thanks for visiting and your views. I can keep going better with you all in this struggle.
I write and represent cases like yours that do not reflect in the statistics and people mock.
Regarding fathers day, I was eager to Blog and so was my dad. But while I was preparing the material, the Ghost Blogged. And I was busy figuring it out. Well I must admit they spoiled my that days work. And I am admitting this so that let them to feel good atleast in some sense.
But then I realised that this is a part and parcel of any work. I am not going to be perturbed.
Would love to see you frequently here. And ya I would complete the Fathers Day stuff. Its Better Late than never.
So when we write as Girish and sing your praises my lord, you will go ahead and post our comments.
great way...too good, awesome....more more more....wonderful...aasman se geera to kahaan pe atka....??
Keep up the FARCE...this is also a LIE LIAR.
But we love to see you so desperate and lost.
You said: But we love to see you so desperate and lost.
I say: Dear Friend Please Enjoy this to the core till you get peace.
• Wednesday, October 4, 2006 - Kahani ghar ghar ki- Legal Terrorism in the from of false 498a
Kahani ghar ghar ki- Legal Terrorism in the from of false 498a
The increasing number of Sowry ( reverse Dowry)-related deaths has highlighted the fact that this immoral practice is rampant among the educated sections of urban society( More than 23000 husabnd’s life had been gone in last year , but not a single case those wives had been even questioned , forget any punishment).
More at
http://www.indiatalking.com/blog/swarup/4301/
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