Indian Husbands Wake Up...
Dear Indian Husbands...
Come out of the ignorance, for the sake of your parents and siblings.
Come out of the ignorance, for the sake of your parents and siblings.
Ministers are OK... but we cannot be Ok with the misuse of Law.
We pay Taxes and the same money is used against the Husband by providing a State Sponsored Lawyer who fights a False case against us without investigation. Merely on a statement of a Bride without crosscheck the arrests are being made and we are fighting a battle where we are Guilty Until Proven Innocent.
To add Insult to the injury, volatile DV Act was introduced and Males by virtue of being males were declared as oppressors and womes as Victims by Virtue.
It is a law that promotes Hatred, Fear and more over Gross Injustice to the innocents.
Is it OK with You?
.
Spread the awareness, Proudly Demand Your Rights.
Don't be OK with Misuse, Your House may be the next.
Don't be Overconfident by virtue of your Innocence, Thanks to the Loop Holes.
Labels: 406, 498a, Alimony, domestic violence, mens day
posted by IndianHusbands | 9:44 AM
8 Comments:
Friend of mine is going through this harassment for no mistake of his. Immediately after marriage the bride’s family made false allegations on my friend and his family for no reason. Upon inquiry we discovered that this is a preplanned and total fraud marriage. The bride is not fit for marriage, she had earlier abortion and hysterectomy (surgical removal of the uterus/womb) i.e. she can no longer conceive nor have her menstruation. Despite all this my friend is kind enough for not making this public issue to save her from humiliation, He even offered her for a mutual divorce with alimony and maintenance but shockingly the bride and her family started blackmailing with false 498a and demanding huge ransom. Everyone knows that this is a false case and will be quashed in the court but unfortunately 498a is designed in such a way to arrest husband and his family members without even investigation or evidence. This law really opened all of our eyes about women biased laws and its misuse. Now me and my friends are very much scared to marry an Indian women and don't know how our future is. I know many of Indians cannot believe this and are unaware of these kind of laws. If you still don't believe me then please contact any known Indian lawyer/police/politician and you will know how this 498a is being misused.
Even my self experienced the same harasament from my in-laws side. myself and my wife are happily married for two months and after that my mother-in-law, with her greediness towards my money started feeding my wife that to go for a seperation with my family. They harrased me to come out of my family and to stay near by their home. The moment I didn't listen to my mother-in-law, she has taken away my wife with her and not allowing us to meet and not sending my wife with me. And now they are thretneing me with this 498A section.
People should realize the other side of the coin .why should girl leave her family and stay with boy's family ? why not the other way? think... if , both boy and girl are equal then why should all the attention should go to the boy's parents after marriage ?
Can anybody answer this....
As said by Ravi above, same thing happens with me, got married to a manglik girl,I have tried to tie our relationship for about thirteen months, but as it was a pre-planned marriage by in laws, she left my house taking her belongings. She was just one year younger to me at the time of marriage (17/10/2004), she has the same background as mentioned above by Ravi, still I have taken care of all her medical needs, but of no use. She can not conceive nor she was have regular menstruation. The root cause of difference was her brother in law & other relatives who has so interference in our married life. Small small things been conveyed by her to her brother-in-law & other family members about our daily activities, including what all happens in bedroom. Being a family of three, including herself, she indirectly asked me (through I.O. at C.W.C. Lajpat Nagar, New Delhi, which is not more than a dalai ka adda)to leave my mother (who is a widow, aged, diabetic & heart patient) & to keep her in separate place, which I not even can think. After been married, I have seen those worst places which a comman man don't even think of. If this is what a married life, I would suggest better to be single.
With 10-12 percent women in parliament if this is the situation, what will happen if there are 33%
All the anti-men laws have violated the fundamental rights of men(article 14 & 21 of constitution).
Man and his family's pride/honour is at stake. Do you guys think, your parents have brought up
for these treatment. Can you ever look into the eyes of your parents once your wife/whore put
them behind bars.Do you have any self-respect for youself or your family.
When you know there is NO law in the country to protect you, then why you are running after justice.
PROTECT YOUR AND YOUR FAMILYS PRIDE/HONOUR AT "ANY" COST AND "WHATEVER" IT TAKES.
LIVE WITH PRIDE/HONOUR AND DIE FOR IT.
LIVE LIKE A MAN IN MEN'S WORLD.
Dear Anonymous.....
Girl shud leave her family and stay with boy's family and attention should go to the boy's parents after marriage ... Because assets of boys' parents would be inherited to them.
How many girls' parents give equal share of their assets to the girls?
And How many girls care for inlaws despite getting inheritance ??
Another classical example of the gross misuse of Dowry Act (498A) is the case of television celebrity, Suhaib Ilyasi. India's Most Wanted television host was in controversy after the dispute over his daughter Aaliya's custody rose soon after Ilyasi's wife Anju committed suicide on January 10, 2000 in Delhi. While his mother–in-law, Rukma Singh wanted custody of the child on the ground that she had the right under Muslim law, Ilyasi had taken the plea that his marriage with Anju was not solemnized as per the Muslim law but had been a civil affair. His sister-in-law Rashmi Singh came from Canada after six months of her sister's death and filed a complaint with the police against Ilyasi, alleging that he used to torture his wife Anju for dowry.
The case took bizarre turn when Anju's brother Prashant Singh and father Prof K P Singh took a diametrically opposite stand and described the allegations against Ilyasi as ``rubbish.'' Prashant told Express Newsline:`whatever my mother and sister Rashmi are stating against Suhaib Ilyasi is a lot of rubbish. There is no truth in their statement or in the charges filed by the police against Suhaib. If you are holding Suhaib responsible for Anju's suicide, then my mother and sister are also to blame, as they unduly interfered in their family matters.
K P Singh, a retired IIT professor, agreed with Prashant. “My wife and daughter are breaking up my family”. Both Anju's father and brother allege that Rukma and Rashmi have given statements against Suhaib as `they wanted custody of baby Aaliya. When Ilyasi delayed that, they put him in trouble.'
Anju's mother Rukma Singh had changed her earlier statement given in January, 2000, in which she had stated that she did not suspect any foul play by Suhaib Ilyasi. However when Ilyasi refused to give custody of his daughter, she change her statement and alleged dowry harassment against Ilyasi.
It has been alleged for long that Dowry Act (498a) in India is being consistently misused by clever women for extortion and blackmailing. The NCRB records suggest that during 2005-2006, 94% of the 498A, 304B cases filed by women or by her relatives were primarily to settle scores.
Section 498A in itself is, however, not meant to deal specifically with dowry -- it is commonly considered to be a 'dowry law' because domestic violence against a wife related to dowry demands is considered to be within the scope of 'cruelty' envisaged by the Section.
My experience is also worst ,married to girl then come to know that she is 5 years elder to me and having eyes prob. 18 number spects and when i accpted eveything she is so dominating even her mother sis everyone in family.
they were rich but socially backward and finally i become the victim of 498-a..............................but i know that GOD IS GREAT ..........
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