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IPC Section 498-A: Misuse

Dedicated to the Victimised Indian Families, Who are falsely threatened & Blackmailed by the Indian Daughters-In-Law & her family members, and those Victimised families who are already falsely charged under the Section 498A. Its all about False charges of Dowry Law, Domestic Violence, Alimony, Marriage and Divorce. NOTE: All articles are my personal copyright. They may be republished if the source is acknowledged and a link provided to this site. This is not an Anti-Women Blog. Read Disclaimer.

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Women go to the police with a complaint (may be false), but the system provides to record that as a criminal complaint and that data adds in to the National Statistics of Crime Against Women. When male goes with a genuine complaint the police at max can record a Non Cognizable offence against the women. That will never reflect in the statistics. Then how will one guage crime against men? Every 100 Suicides in India have 63 Males and 37 Females. Every 100 male suicides have 45 married males, and every 100 women suicides have 25 married Women. Married women suicides have default arrests of the inlaws under presumed dowry death. Married men suicides entitle wife for a 50% share in property. What kind of equality is this? I thank you for visiting my blog, Please visit again. And I welcome you to participate on my Blog. [indianhusbands (at-the-rate) yahoo (dot) com]. Click here for Main Page

Friday, January 06, 2006

They do wrong, but never get caught.

Its Official: Women are superior to men, in any given field. The trends are showing…

The data generally used for representing women includes the uncivilsed class at large and hence we get a distorted and grotesque, scary and unreal image of the state of Indian women in India. 1 sec, I am talking about the “civilized class.”

Pinch yourself and ask some basic questions to realize the facts.

Women are found leading and no way backward in any of the fields that are arguably ruled by men. While Men are too busy trying to figure out that are they really so outright dumb, stupid characters as branded by certain sexist women or there are areas where they actually top? they were cleverly voted as leaders in some and duffers in others by a voice vote before they could realise and talk or even blog about it.
For example...

  • Interests
  • Sex
  • Lies
  • Power
  • Money
  • Atrocities

Let us take each one of them one after another to analyse that women actually top these otherwise perceived as departments ruled by men.

They say, Once a lady overheard bunch of guys talking the so called dirty male talk, and she confessed to her friends that even males talk as much dirty as we do.
This is proved by what was published in mid-day somedays back in an article that was decently and shying putting facts across. Those porn stuff being read in the ladies compartment of Mumbai Trains. But a live example is of one of my favourite Indian Lady novelist Shobha De, While reading her works like Surviving Men the language never gives you a whiff of a lady writing those text. What I like about shobhaa de is her attitude of not faking it and being out right “Tapori” err… I mean honest.
Mid-day link

There was this movie in Bollywood “Fun-Can be Dangerous” where the 3 heroines of the movie pledge in hindi that “Pati-yon ki adla badli ho karr rahegi” meaning that it will be made sure that their husbands will be swapped. Few days back we got the shocking news in Hindustan times that the civilized top society people were found high on rise in so called “Wife Swapping” but the fact was more women responded to these offers, ‘they insisted and preferred the males on chat to write an outright dirty mail instead of mundane hello’. But as rightly argued by SIF Activist "Friend" that "this is infact Husband Swapping as Wives were interested more that husbands."
Hindustan times link
(right click and read more) “Fun-Can be Dangerous”

I can put as many links her as I can as all SIF victims are ultimately victims of lies by virtue of 498A but again I will put my favorite links once again
1. Supreme Court calls 498A Legal Terrorism (Explaination)
2. Mom forces daughter to frame dad of Rape (right click here)
3. False charges on dad by daughter (right click here)
and all those links in the side bars under the banner of co-satyagrahis.

Well some tycoon’s desperate daughter is changing her sex to a male, just to claim the stake of money. Someone is marrying rich NRI guy so that one could live a luxurious life, and if things do not work out then “498a hai na”. Apart from that even the system, if not all, but at large (abhi samjho kaun kaun aa jaata hai isme) are focusing on the wrong segment for 498A cases as they are more applicable in uncivilized section where the women are willfully hit on limb etc causing grave hurt, thus, Matching the definition of 498a. But no one is concerned there, beyond collecting data, used for making a law and mixing it with the civilized section and applying there on basis of figures collected from uncivilized section.

Now the interesting part is the law is not applied at all in the sector from where the data is taken and is applied as a black mailing tool causing legal terrorism in the civilized sector. The hard earned money is siphoned out and circulated to the corrupt system, the guys shell money to safeguard their parents and avoid blackmailing by misuse of sections like 498A in name of dowry demand. This is in civilized sector where dowry is not in practice and to justify the data of uncivilized sector is used thus avoiding the dilution of 498A.

Finally the corrupt system encourages the gross misuse and daughters in law make money that goes undocumented as a blackmail and documented as alimony. So the females reign supreme actually.

Conversly, Just wondering if we have to think of great works in any creative field too that is generally misbranded as soft and feminine...the first ones to come to our mind are...

Great poets we think of Keats, Wordsworth.
Great Philosophers: Socretes, Vivekananda
Great Cooks: Males e.g Sanjeev Kapoors and we (most of us) single Husbands (spare me at this moment)
Great Fashion designers: Gianni Versace
,Tommy Hilfiger etc
Great Playwrights/ Authors: Shakesphere, Tagore

...All males!!!

Where as when it comes to the rest that is Money, Interest, Sex, Lies and Atrocities Women reign Supreme. India Today's surveyed data and Khusboo’s highly condemned statement by this blog has also been proven to be true.

Coz "they do wrong but never get caught" and even if they are caught they have their weapons to Combat fatally...Tears etc. Its official.


Jinesh Zaveri.


Blogger Rebel said...

Excellent Blog. Only a mentally retarded person will disagree to the realities you have shown here methodically.
I personally have clearly understood that Gender Equality and Women Empowerment are two completely different terms. Nobody can attain gender equality or abide by the article 14 of Constitution of India if these women are focusing on women empowerment.
There is not an atom of innocence and truth in the women empowerment campaign. We men must understand that not a single woman will protest against this bias and gender discrimination. Media could have acted responsibly but they too are sold--out to these feminists. As long as we men don't stand against this invasion of our rights, these women will continue to do wrong and never get caught.

Fri Jan 06, 10:11:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Very methodical and factual write up! Just keep it up.

Vikas Kumar
Texas, USA

Sun Jan 08, 11:40:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

trying to bring down the women jinesh . when women's superiority is proved men try to go into sarcastic mode

Sun Jan 15, 01:47:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Jinesh Zaveri said...

do not try to hide the truth, priyamvada.

Truth is always bitter and vixen's always know to say that grapes are sour.

Check this out: "Quote for the Week"

Sun Jan 15, 09:40:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...


I am wondering why you doing all this and why not rather use your time to get together with your wife coz divorce is something that both partners are LOOSERS.
Young days are lost and wasted in courtrooms and money on lawyers.
You seem to have a therotical knowledge on spiritualism...why not take the first step in forgiving and forgetting....coz true forgiving mean forgetting and moving ahead.

Young days do not come back.

Sat Jan 21, 10:48:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Jinesh Zaveri said...

Dear Anonymous Friend,

Thank You so much for the concern and your views.

I have been practising spiritualism since a very long time and its only now that I am putting it into theory, based on my experiences. I know that your certain assumptions to start a conversation is worth giving you a benefit of doubt.

I cannot disagree a bit with you at all. Infact you have written what I preached for my entire association with her. Only if there was no 498A and its threat in its current avataar, and her pledge for flasely implicating the same, proceedings would have been easier not just in my case but in cases of others too.

Please read my blog articles carefully where I have been talking slightly about myself too. A few of them are But, How Hindu was that Marriage?, My dear Blog Also read my 'About me' section.

I would be also be very glad to know your identity.

Awaiting Response.

Sun Jan 22, 01:25:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...


I have read your articles and your 'version' of the story.

As I said that forgiveness and forgetting are the best methods to move ahead in life. (ofcourse lessons to be learnt too..its a must).

My belief is very simple..even as u 'claimed' that your wife was always demanding money selfishly....its ok….after all you are providing your own wife. A husband should be proud of himself that he is 'capable' to be a provider for his wife...with the same approach the way he provides for his old age parents. Don’t you think if you change your outlook a bit and belief--"that she asks you coz you are 'capable'(thank God for it)to fulfill her needs, that she deemed you fit, that she depends on you(am sure that soothes a mans ego),that she considered you her own, that like a dependent wife she relies on you, that she has faith in your capabilities and thinks you are her hero, her provider and will take care of her."
But ofcourse I am only stating the beliefs of how a husband approach should be –which unfortunately existed years ago. I guess our parent’s generation were last to see the beautiful marriages where our fathers took great pride in being the bread earner and in return depended(also) on his wife(our mothers) to take care of him and his parents.

I must say try to identify her "sub-conscious' actions...the answers are there---that she thought you belonged to her and everything of yours belonged to her toooooo.

In a very typical hindu family bound by traditions the man has always earned the ingredients of the bread ,and the women makes the bread with love and feeds all family members.

After all your wife was asking you the money(not your neighbor). In a marriage that we say are made in heavens...dont you think she had a right over your assets. Mere petty assets...how sad that we give more importance to monetary things rather than relationships!!!

My identity..i harldy feel like disclosing it...how I wish I was born in the previous century when women sat , took care of the home and her husbands parent’s while the husband took pride in being the bread earner and provider for all....in that only lay biggest achievement.


Mon Jan 23, 03:29:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

..........in that only lay his biggest achievement.


Mon Jan 23, 05:02:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Bharati said...

Men should take SOWRY Harasssment lying down right
Time for men to say dear get your own providing because women are saying cook yor own food

Mon Jan 23, 06:48:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Jinesh Zaveri said...

Dear Anonymous Friend,

Well regarding my personal life...you may write to me personally.

And your advice may be approprieate from general point of view. But unfortunately not relevant in my case. Where umpteen fair chances were been given. And second chances are history.

Anyway if you want to strike a conversation in this matter write to me personally on indianhusbands @ yahoo.com


Tue Jan 24, 10:23:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Swarup said...

Sub: "Beti Bachaao" (Save Daughter) - Saturday Evening Party at India Gate- New Delhi

Sub: "Beti Bachaao" (Save Daughter) - Saturday Evening Party at India Gate- New Delhi

Sachit , 30 years old , a brilliant Software Consultant, BE, till date who is struggling to register an FIR or any Small Investigation by Local Police officials , how his wife and her Parents had killed his Daughter , send the below mail to me :-

"This is regarding The 'Beti Bachaao' Programme, organised at India Gate NewDelhi, on 04-03-2006 evening.
Mrs. Sheila Dixit was also present there includingaround 4000 women. Today (05-03-2006) I watched (a news) at a reputed TV news Channel regarding“Women’s Day” function at India Gate, New Delhi.
According to the news : There were over 4000 (Over Four Thousand) womenpresent (including Mrs. Sheela Dixit - Hon’ble CM Delhi) at this occasion. Save daughter (Beti Bachaao – slogan of the programme).
Initially, I was really thrilled to hear “Beti Bachaao – slogan” of theprogramme. I was delighted to expect something really relevant to save thedaughters (specially the unborn/newly born daughters).
But to my surprise (even still I can’t believe what I saw on TV)… a couple ofyoung girls are playing the popular hindi film songs (Mera Yaar Mila De Mujhko-Remix - DJ) and dancing there….. I felt ashamed/pity to see the ‘way’ they are trying to save our daughters –By dancing on DJ at India Gate… I wonder how can they save my daughter by organizing ‘Kitty party’ typefunction at India gate in the evening (in addition to that Saturday Evening!!!!).
They also lit some candles (as a mark of hope), organized dance party (as amark of enjoyment), eating samosas (feeling hungry after dance), havingtea/coffee etc…..

Sorry to admit : They can do these activities at their own level every Saturday evening in a pub/club. I want to request them to STOP playing such tunes on the name of SaveDaughters (as I have already lost one)….
I want to request them to please don’t harm the already striken parent (like me) by dancing at India gate on Saturday evening on the name of Save Daughter (Beti Bachaao).

I suggest : Even if out of that 4000 women, every women tries to save onedaughter (Beti) by inspecting the ‘Abortion Centres’ records, they (alltogether) could have saved atleast 40000 (forty thousand) daughters (Betis). Also, I wish my daughter (Beti) were ONE out of that FORTY THOUSAND DAUGHTERS".

This is not the feeling of only Sachit , Lakhs of Sachit all over the India are making round the police station and court room , as thier wives had allready aborted their Daughters , without their any consent , started to raising thier voice in Save Indian Child Yahoo Groups ( SIF Volenters ) .


One hand our so called Women Orginasations are supported by our own hard earned Tax Payer money , are busy for the Dance Show at India Gate , SIF Volenters are busy at the Back Side of India gate ( Patilawal Court Room ) , arguing with Judges , why those Criminal should not be punished who had Killed thier Daughters , before their Born .

We wonder , our NCW have really any concern for Murder of our Daughters !!!!

Otherwise how so many 498A girls and thier family able to kill the child and move freely in our society ??

Can we expect a Special LAW , by which those people Killing our Daughters along with those abortion centers , to be hang till the death under IPC314/315 ??

Let Ban the Child Abortion in India and then prodly say ""Beti Bachaao" (Save Daughter) " instead of making fun /enjoyment at India Gate .

Tue Mar 07, 04:15:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous webefforts said...

only a person who has gone through the Misuse of 498 can understand the suffering and pain.
498 is eqvivalent to RAPE OF A MAN when MISUSED.

The women by nature has vowed that she will not bend down and will get things done the way she wants them .
Its a way to close doors on all compromises and get even by taking out all her fustration. All approches/ efforts of Boys family are clouded by threat of police .

All families have weekness and the WIFE ensures that she to cover her mistakes and get away by Embarrassing boy family.

Sun Jun 25, 01:29:00 AM GMT+5:30  

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