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IPC Section 498-A: Misuse

Dedicated to the Victimised Indian Families, Who are falsely threatened & Blackmailed by the Indian Daughters-In-Law & her family members, and those Victimised families who are already falsely charged under the Section 498A. Its all about False charges of Dowry Law, Domestic Violence, Alimony, Marriage and Divorce. NOTE: All articles are my personal copyright. They may be republished if the source is acknowledged and a link provided to this site. This is not an Anti-Women Blog. Read Disclaimer.

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Women go to the police with a complaint (may be false), but the system provides to record that as a criminal complaint and that data adds in to the National Statistics of Crime Against Women. When male goes with a genuine complaint the police at max can record a Non Cognizable offence against the women. That will never reflect in the statistics. Then how will one guage crime against men? Every 100 Suicides in India have 63 Males and 37 Females. Every 100 male suicides have 45 married males, and every 100 women suicides have 25 married Women. Married women suicides have default arrests of the inlaws under presumed dowry death. Married men suicides entitle wife for a 50% share in property. What kind of equality is this? I thank you for visiting my blog, Please visit again. And I welcome you to participate on my Blog. [indianhusbands (at-the-rate) yahoo (dot) com]. Click here for Main Page

Thursday, October 26, 2006

DV Bill - A Laxman Rekha for Surpanakhas too

23 years later…

While the government is pretending sleep on the misuse of 498a, it is turning on a deaf year to the pleads of the future of the country the earning male (because legally the women is dependent) further after the share in the parental property the girl gets a few more rights that makes her a super power gender in reality and still is legally an abla.

I personally would welcome any such bill as a good idea but I would be against such a bill if it is poorly drafted and that it would encourage and attract only the mis-users at large. Why are these politicians over looking at the record low conviction rate in the non-compoundable offence of 498a.

23 years later this bill comes in as a shock adding insult to the injury as not even a single comma has changed in the 498a definition and they come up with another paralyzing shot in the system. Well, times have changed, so have the attitudes of the women, the newspapers in 1983 used to talk about etiquettes of dining table arrangements to the shape of a decent neck cut on a blouse that is not deep, till recently I read shocking articles in women sections about the etiquettes of one night stands. Holy shit. And you come up with something like Domestic violence bill that comes with contradictions of allowing a woman to work ( I am not against it but let us balance it) and also asking separate shelter and many other loop holes to the earning lady with an independent attitude who is still an abla.

The media has been very suspicious and un-gungho about this at large. I saw the first reactions on ZEE News (hindi and Gujarati) expressing the launch of a bill with a fear and sarcasm showing concern of the harassed and terrorized husbands and his family members, it also notices that an earning women can demand money but husband asking questions on her income leads to variety of abuses. So did Karan Thapar some one year ago expressed his grave concerns of the misuse of the poor draft of this bill, on CNBC with unconvincing and speechless Indira Jaising to his questions. TOI has also recorded the fact that the bill is apprehended as manipulative.

My immediate fears of the Loop Holes:

Financial Abuse:
Well Karan Thapar did point out the loophole that if the husband falls short of Rs.200 of the Rs.1000 demand of the wife then that becomes a financial abuse.

Separate House: My observation with manipulative women would come up with conditions where they report their husbands and the relatives as abusers from day 1 till the D-Day. And would create a strong ground to secure themselves with a house. Further they would also provoke the family into a situation that would lead in to such circumstances. It is always the girl who wants the parents out of the house and this spells a huge disaster on the system of joint family and elder protection. Freezing of assets by girl is another catastrophe for a hard working middleclass boy’s family who has DIL in the family from a poor house in a principled dowry less marriage.

Laxman Rekha for Surpanakha: My biggest fear is the separate house and rent allowances to the actual independent women who’s hidden agenda is to stay separately and live a life without loyalty attached. The so called abusive husband or his relatives cannot approach her at the workplace in the name of security or the area confined to her will be free from check and access of the alleged abusive partner thus allowing gross adultery by the paper abla wife. Because if anyone is questioning her then that would also amount to Verbal Abuse.

Verbal Abuse: What decides this? Well a girl would decide what abuse is and what is not. And then the rest would be the head ache and work of the investigating officer would be deputed to find out in this corrupted frame work.

Emotional Abuse/ Sexual Abuse/ Forced Pornography: Oh my God. Someone shrug these people. What is the method to measure the Emotional Abuse? And what is the guarantee that these women would not lie? What is the back up? Next, is forced intercourse, well, this is because impotency cases are not in high conviction against the lie of impotency spilled out by the lying women? How do you prove force? Pornography: There are so many women who are getting in to group sex and swapping and sex and cam chat. There are many women who force sex on husbands and on refusing attack them. They are so many women who exchange porn CD’s in the Mumbai trains etc. Now as per DV that is not offence?

For the Live In Ladies: Swarup had pointed out very early about the legal first wife likely to be cheated and Vinayak explains that the second lady would highjack the mall and sue the owner for defective goods. Plus this blog in too has been shouting on the misuse of DV Bill.

Heads She Wins, Tails He Loses: So the shots will be now called by the lady as to what to interpret and when an interest may become abuse at any given time; extra work/ head ache and income for the officers and over all loser is the male squad (aka criminal-so called by default) at any given point of time. So he just has to be henpecked or handcuffed.

The bill has a lot of scope to become full proof. I would give half star on a rate of 5 (being the highest) the half point is for child sexual abuse but what about the lady teachers who forces sex upon them? Well NO! this bill ostensibly is for the ladies, of the ladies. I take the half star back and disqualify this whole bill. But how can I exercise my democratic right? This is India. Here terrorists rule with the help of politicians who plead mercy for them. And more over I am an Indian male and an Indian Husband.

Domestic Violence Bill: DV is nothing else but a Deadly Venom that will kill the institution of marriage, a Dormant Volcano in waiting in each house that has a remote in the hands and mercy of the attitude of the lady.

Where the mind is with fear and head is held in shame. In that hell of slavery let the country perish. The worst is yet to come.

Cheated, falsely blamed and tortured by my own country,

Angered and worried about my old age ailing parents,

Searching my own status as the citizen of this country…

Jinesh Zaveri.

ps: i am male, i belong to an open category, i live in India.

12 Comments:

Anonymous Active ON FIELD said...

Voila !!!!

How dare the ravans escape after touching the Sita.

Thu Oct 26, 10:42:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Domestic Violence Act to come into effect

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NDTV Correspondent

Watch story

Thursday, October 26, 2006 (New Delhi):


The Domestic Violence Act comes into effect from Thursday.

If a man commits any kind of violence or even insults his wife, he can land in jail with a fine up to Rs 20,000.

The Act covers women, be they wives, live-in partners, sisters, mothers, mothers-in-law or any other woman relation.

The new law protects them against:

Physical violence

For example: Beating, slapping, hitting, biting, kicking, punching, pushing, shoving or causing bodily pain or injury in any other manner.


Sexual violence, including against children


Forced sexual intercourse

Forces you to look at pornography or any other obscene pictures or material

Any act of sexual nature to abuse, humiliate or degrade you, or which is otherwise violative of your dignity or any other unwelcome conduct of sexual nature

Child sexual abuse
Verbal and emotional violence


Insults

Name calling

Accusations on your character and conduct etc

Insults for not having a male child

Insults for not bringing dowry etc

Preventing you or a child in your custody from attending school, college or any other educational institution

Preventing you from taking up a job, forcing you to leave your job

Preventing you or a child in your custody from leaving the house

Preventing you from meeting any person in the normal course of events

Forcing you to get married when you don't want to marry

Preventing you from marrying a person of your own choice

Forcing you to marry a particular person of his/their own choice

Threat to commit suicide

Any other verbal or emotional abuse
Economic violence


Not providing you money for maintaining you or your children

Not providing food, clothes, medicines etc for you or your children

Stopping you from carrying on your employment or disturbing you in carrying on your employment

Not allowing you to take up an employment or taking away your income from your salary, wages etc

Forcing you out of the house you live in

Stopping you from accessing or using any part of the house

Not allowing use of clothes, articles or things of general household use

Not paying rent if staying in a rented accommodation



'Diwali gift'

"It's my Diwali gift to all you women out there" - this is how Minister for Women and Child Development Renuka Chowdhary described the Domestic Violence Act.

The minister is also in touch with the Home Ministry to sensitise the police force to such complaints being made in the future.

Right to residence

Domestic violence and its victims defy any stereotypes, and goes beyond the barriers of age and class.

NDTV met a 55-year-old from a well-to-do Delhi family, who has been married for 30 years.

She has been beaten for nearly 20 years and yet wants to retain her right to stay in her marital home as she has nowhere else to go.

The victim has been fighting the case for over two years and is still waiting for justice. She feels that women should have a right to residence.

The victim, whose anonymity has been kept intact, has two children.

Thu Oct 26, 11:34:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Rebel said...

People were already suffering because of the misuse of 498A and now by introducing Domestic Violence Bill, people have one more reason to commit suicide. What century are these politicians living in?

I guess men will have to be ready to give away huge sum of money to their wife and divorce them. I am sure the Government will still blame the men for ten-fold increase in divorces after DV Bill. There will be exponential increase in single-parenting and child sexual abuse. And men, as usual, will continue to remain a money-making machines.

This is one of the most important reason for a man to remain single. Because he will have only two choices: become a slave to his wife or go to jail. Finally, the Government and women have pushed the whole country to the brink of extinction.

From now onwards, men who are getting married will be brining in a person who already has all the legal rights to ruin his life. This is what marriage is all about, thanks to women. And the only way to escape this problem will not be to find a good woman, but to remain single.

Thank you India, you have converted all women into terrorists.

Its all over.

Thu Oct 26, 12:29:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Swarup said...

Indian wives get:-



- Whole sale free license for multiple adult rite relationship

- Whole sale free license for abuse and sending Jail your age old Parents and Pregent sister

- Whole sale free license for killing your Child

- Whole sale free license for Child abuse under single parenting system

- Whole sale free license for asking her husband to kiss her feet every day morning

- Whole sale free license to refuse a cup of tea with husband in the morning, because they will be busy at mid night Pub for “TAKILA” drink and 555 Cigarettes.



The story does not end here, they want each and every think as per 21st century, but when it comes for break up (as 55% divorce case filed by wives with a 498a, dowry harassment case) want huge money in the name of abala nari (16th century Indian wives) like maintance, alimony, house..etc. That time they suddenly forget their MBA degree and start claiming she is a Perfect Indian Wife and she deserves all the sympathy as per Indian Institution of Marriage.



If any LAW maker does not have the sufficient knowledge , then why they make such a stupid LAW ??
21st Century Indian Wives, What’s the trouble??



A discussion being staged in SIF Volunteer Group all over the world, takes the mask off 21st Century Indian Wives. They are Papa’s Girl, they want traditional Indian Husbands, and they want to date with multiple Men. Save Indian Family Volunteers brings you the uncensored truth …..



After Ms. Shobha De , it is the time for another Great Indian feminist cum Journalist and a active member of So called Women activist say to SIF ( Save Indian Family ) Volunteer :-



“21st Century Indian Women wouldn’t date with Indian Men because they found them superficial and too much guided by family prejudices. For instance, there was too much pressure on the Indian women to be perfectly beautiful and slim. Most girls find Indian Men too caught up in such stereotypes and very controlling”.



Further she adds: “It seems that there is an invisible umbilical cord between the mother and son, whether he’s 40 or four”.



So the question, dear Indian Husbands are you ready to come in 21st Century reality or still prefer to stay in 16th Century mind set???



As per them as soon as they get a MBA degree, Indian wives get:-



- Whole sale free license for multiple adult rite relationship

- Whole sale free license for abuse and sending Jail your age old Parents and Pregent sister

- Whole sale free license for killing your Child

- Whole sale free license for Child abuse under single parenting system

- Whole sale free license for asking her husband to kiss her feet every day morning

- Whole sale free license to refuse a cup of tea with husband in the morning, because they will be busy at mid night Pub for “TAKILA” drink and 555 Cigarettes.



The story does not end here, they want each and every think as per 21st century, but when it comes for break up (as 55% divorce case filed by wives with a 498a, dowry harassment case) want huge money in the name of abala nari (16th century Indian wives) like maintance, alimony, house..etc. That time they suddenly forget their MBA degree and start claiming she is a Perfect Indian Wife and she deserves all the sympathy as per Indian Institution of Marriage.



If any LAW maker does not have the sufficient knowledge , then why they make such a stupid LAW ??
http://www.indiatalking.com/blog/swarup/1326/
Indian Parents and Pregent Sister are in Jail !!!









Some Indian Husband says, they have done the mistake by marrying a 498A type of PAPA’s Girls, instead of that they might have married a Professional Prostitute.



At least she will not send our age old parents and pregent sister behind the jail for extracting the money.



Our Government and so called LAW maker very much committed to give them whole sale free license for doing the “Legal Terrorism” in the form of misuse of 498A, anti-dowry LAW and Proposed Domestic Violence Bill instead of a Domestic Harmony Bill (where in the name of so called Verbal abuse, mental harassment, Economical abuse, adulterate relationship punishable for a Husband and her all family members, but for the same offence for a wife, forget any punishment, there is no provision for a small warning).



National Women Commission of India (NCW), openly announce that they will not allow to any family harmony in India, they will ensure that the Indian Institution of Marriage totally get killed, so that Indian women can reach to National Highways to beg a men for 2 or 3 hours or a part time father for their child, the way western women does!!



We wonder when our Indian People will say no to this “Legal Terrorism” and stop killing our Mother, Sister and Child in the name of so called Women Empowerment and say :-



“ No to Feminism “ , we want to say “Gender Equality”.



“ No to Domestic Violence Bill ” , we want “ Domestic Harmoney Bill ”



Let Save Indian Family , Let save the Institution of Marrige for a Better tomorrow for our Child .



Let all the nation to Decided , what they Want , Volence or harmoney ??

Thu Oct 26, 02:58:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Blogger CruiserDeep said...

Please comment ur views in the article about Domestic Violence ACT: http://desicritics.org/2006/10/26/070855.php

Excerpt from the article(http://desicritics.org/2006/10/26/070855.php).....

Women's welfare associations from all around the country have accepted this decision with open arms however there are some who are worried about its ill-effects and rightfully so - Pandurangi Reddy Bharati, who runs the Save Indian Family Foundation, said, "It will lead to the economic blackmail of men." Mr. Bharati's concerns cannot be taken lightly especially since over the years the numbers of false cases against husbands and In-laws have also been on a rise.

:) Bharthi, new surname's ha? , enjoy the Times of Hindustan


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Thu Oct 26, 09:44:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous sneha said...

THIS law is adding fuel to the fire of misusing sec 498-a by women in the society.IN near future a day will come where families would prefer daughters than having sons.Gradually the institution of marriage will come to an end.

Thu Oct 26, 10:36:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

After 498A Introduction divorce rate in india is increased 10%, As many women misused it to gain Divorce / alimony and Custody; There is no chnage Even after law knows about it.

Now after DV bill Divorce rate will increase 50% more,as indian women want more FREEDOM to make basterd kids for Future India.

with this i can clearly predict Future of india,someday in near future,Harassed innocent will turn criminal by shooting his wife,when law is not helping him to get justice.
Men will turn rapist when his wife refuse sex with him.or make many HOMOS in india.when men fear staying with Indian women.

For
MyNation

Sat Oct 28, 10:19:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Right from the days of Nehru, India, that is (that was)Bharat, is being transformed into westernised nation. The back bench given to Hindi, The Hindu Code Bill and unIndian education were forced on unwilling masses. They have tasted the blood and can not be dissuaded from it.
The constitutional peaceul ways shall prove futile. The language and the action they understand is miles away from the approach being adopted.
Right from use of condom to prevent AIDS to Anti Dowry or the DV Acts are counterproductive and destroy the Bhartiya way of life.
A whole hog effort is needed, which must start from declaring India a Hindu Nation, bringing all Sikh, Jain, Buddha, Shaiva, Shakta, Arya Samajis under one banner and follow the path enunciated by Buddha, Mahavir, Dayananda, Adi Shanker etc. to inculcate virtues in the society, Similarly, Sanskrit language should be given its due place to rejuvenate the true Bhartiya maryada

Sat Nov 04, 07:12:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Cat said...

best

Wed Nov 08, 01:07:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Blogger Swarup said...

Every fight willbe tougher then the first one and remember we have nothing to lose.

PM would have been told by indira jaising brinda carrot or her ilks to apeak like these. Many of the womens activists are the ones who have harassed their husbands ( claiming victim hood using drama ) .Examples
1. Indira Jaisingh ( divorcee )
2. Gowrama ( divorcee)
3. Falvia Agnes ( divorcee)
4. Brinda carrot ( no child )
5. Donna fernandes ( ? )
6. Madhu Kishwar ( Single bad experience in love )
7. GIrija Vyas ( single bad experience in love ? )
& these are chosen to talk on family matter !!!!! It looks like their law drafting is a collective vindictivemness on men

Let us be honest we are capable folks and we are fighting for independent justice. Unless PM speaks out against the sucide caused by harassment initiated by wifes he cannot be seen to be independent mind

Fri Nov 17, 05:56:00 PM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Reader says

How antimen-feminist were given free hand in Law making. They have taken the Law in their own hand. Those who are antimen feminist and interested in making Laws against men,are seemed to be homose---l, that is why they are against men.They are inneed of men. They want every woman to be like them, they are sadists. They may be followers of some foreign group and intend to ruin peaceful cultured family setups in India. They have to be punished. They donot have any shame. They think showing nudeness is a fassion and they also think they can achieve domination over men by Laws. They are digging their own ditch. They must have ruined their own family and now attacking all the families by false cases. They can not succeed, one or other day they will be tried in the Courts for disturbing our society with their mere egoism of their positions.

Sat Dec 09, 11:21:00 AM GMT+5:30  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

May be first Domestic Violence Case at Satara??

My ex has filled a fake DV case at Satara CJM Court claiming she was harrsed and abused while abroad in UK and NZ and also demanded exparty money and interim custody of childern.

I think before any new law is passed,judjes need to be trained and educated about law itslef.Law though badly drfated is clear enough that this law is applicable in Republic of India only.How come a CJM can pass exparty order for childern's custody to mum and accept a case on the floor??

Advocate of so called victim is fool enough to accept case on its fake merit?

CJM needs training themselves.!!

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www.vaghelasv.com

Tue Jan 09, 09:19:00 AM GMT+5:30  

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