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IPC Section 498-A: Misuse

Dedicated to the Victimised Indian Families, Who are falsely threatened & Blackmailed by the Indian Daughters-In-Law & her family members, and those Victimised families who are already falsely charged under the Section 498A. Its all about False charges of Dowry Law, Domestic Violence, Alimony, Marriage and Divorce. NOTE: All articles are my personal copyright. They may be republished if the source is acknowledged and a link provided to this site. This is not an Anti-Women Blog. Read Disclaimer.

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Women go to the police with a complaint (may be false), but the system provides to record that as a criminal complaint and that data adds in to the National Statistics of Crime Against Women. When male goes with a genuine complaint the police at max can record a Non Cognizable offence against the women. That will never reflect in the statistics. Then how will one guage crime against men? Every 100 Suicides in India have 63 Males and 37 Females. Every 100 male suicides have 45 married males, and every 100 women suicides have 25 married Women. Married women suicides have default arrests of the inlaws under presumed dowry death. Married men suicides entitle wife for a 50% share in property. What kind of equality is this? I thank you for visiting my blog, Please visit again. And I welcome you to participate on my Blog. [indianhusbands (at-the-rate) yahoo (dot) com]. Click here for Main Page

Saturday, December 24, 2005

X Mas Gift to our parents-9224335577

Merry Christmas!!! Introducing Mumbai based Helpline-9224 335577

24th December1983, It has been 22 years and I remember that I was enjoying my Christmas eve with my Mom and Dad. They woke me up from the sleep and told me that Santa had come to our house while I was asleep and he has left a gift big too big to fit in the stocking.

I quickly unwrapped the gift and it was a grahambell's model of toy telephone with ring and lights. I still have that gift with me. Little did I know then, that section 498A was already passed the same day in the parliament and that my sweet innocent parents would be facing a threat one day from the misuse of 498A, even 22 years later.

Some parents of my victim brothers are already suffering from the false charges and the ignominy faced as an aftermath of 498A charges from their cunning daughters in law. But since our parents have bought us up with right values and morals, we are not going to give up. We will do anything and everything to our best possible capacity to fight back and protect them and our siblings too.

As a result we brothers in Arms have launched Helpline at Mumbai on the occasion of Christmas and on sad 23rd Birthday of IPC 498A. We are playing the Santa Claus for a change and gifting this helpline to the innocent parents and their Families.

We will guide the victims FREE, to the best of our capacity in combating this dirty situation.

They can contact us on 9224 33 55 77.

This is operated by the guys next door who have been either victimised or face a threat. We will be handling this apart from our jobs. Hence at times when we are amid our meetings we may not respond the call, but that should not frustrate the callers as we can always be notified by SMS in such cases.

Since we are not as strong as NCW in our infrastructure we do not have full time activists but our aspirations are stronger than any organisation and hence we will give our best to this helpline.
Dedicated to all the vicitimised families and parents, Nothing's Gonna Stop us Now.
Jinesh Zaveri.

Sunday, December 18, 2005

With Lots of Love

Dear Father And Mother I Love You,

I hope you are fine. I haven’t met you all since we had to part because of the false 498A on all of us. I am fine but worried about all of you. I hope you all are not harassed by the wicked ones in power and money hungry country and I hope you all are not in trouble. All because of One wicked lady who wants to encash by misusing the law in the name of abla bahu.

I am longing to see you, don't know how long? I am counting the changes by the numbers of grey hair that have grown on my head. The worrying lines are also not fading. But Ma and Dad do not worry. I am fine… after all I am your brave son. Remember ma? you used to tell me everytime, when I fell from bicycle while learning, that you got to learn from every fall to be cautious in life. I am doing that. I know you were pained too but you were brave in telling me that. I know you are pained too right now and I may be brave but not as much as you. My heart beats for you and I love you. Can be in tears but can’t see you with them. You all have silently sacrificed for me and are still doing it. How can I give up?

Dad, you used to tell me that if you are pained, then start healing others…and that is what I am doing. I am not the only one who is alone here I have my NRI brothers who are victims too. All from decent middle class family and ya some are vegetarians too. We have prevented a few of them from becoming victims by warning them with the dirty modus operandi in imposing 498A, we are now working full time here in healing them and supporting them too apart from our jobs.

We are also spreading awareness through the media and word of mouth. We are supporting innocents by passion and for free. Tell my sweet sister Minal, she will help you to surf and find out about us. We are fighting our freedom struggle that involves you and like you other parents and families too. Honestly, who would pray such a predicament for the family? But the law would not understand.

We are all positive each one functioning to their best capacity, R K
started our yahoo group saveindianfamily some months ago today we are around 400 victim families online and more offline across the globe. One of my brothers Gorky came up with www.saveindianfamily.org web site and with all India helpline along with Bharti. Bluewolf from Middle-east started with www.mynation.net and Satya, Peter, Prudvi started www.498A.org.
Vinayak, Bharat are busy in active blogging on 498A . Santha, Anil, Gope, Sabhahat are busy spreading awareness on the net though missing the family. Back home in India I have Gokul, Bharti, Swarup, Nishant, Mihir, Sachit, Wasif all in active blogging and campaining.

As Advised, I am regularly reading Hanuman Chalisa and chanting The Navkar Mantra, and sometimes do find time to read the Bhagwat Geeta. I hope Dadaji and dadiji are fine and out of trouble. I still remember they calling me up to inform that you all were bailed out. Bhaiya and Bhabhi must be taking good care of Varun. I only hope that false 498A get off from our family and from other innocent Indian families.
I go to the temple, Manjeet takes me to the Gurudwara regularly and his parents are safe and now in Amritsar from 498A. John Nair has initiated and executed the publicity of our awareness of website advertising for it. It has reached maximum mileage too. Other brothers are also following the suit. Like dadaji and dadiji told me Gandhiji's Stories and who believed in becoming the change that one wishes to see in the world, I am doing my bid along with all victim brothers across the globe.

Our joint family may be broken because of this law but we will one day reunite. We are not alone, Do not cry all of you else I too will cry ma. You all are there to wipe of tears of each other but here we all are missing our parents and out families.

I love you Ma, I love you Dad, Give my love to all at home. My brothers joke here that ek din zaroor Pappu pass hoga.

Missing You all,
Lots and Lots of Love and Hugs to all of you.

Jai. (your Pappu)

PS: The Indian law, Politicians and General Public may not be with us, but your blessings are enough for us to triumph with truth. I hope and pray that we all reunite soon.

Sunday, December 11, 2005

Equal Punishment

I hear the femilitants say “Women Today are no Less than Men in any field, Infact they are always a mile ahead now a days” and how true they are in telling so. How? I’ll explain with some examples…
They are self dependent and they can feed their divorced husbands too. They are also capable of challenging the High court’s verdict and winning craftily in the in the supreme court thus even fooling the August body.

Even before I became a pro-male blogger I was always in favour of looking at both genders as complementing human beings.

When my other half wanted to work to keep herself busy I had suggested her that she (c)should become a social worker and work for women upliftment. How stupid and ignorant I was! I believed the statistics, till I got a Prasad of my devotion to her, by facing a false threat of Section 498A and 406B from her.

I was always in favour of Equal Status, Equal recognition to Women. I still am of the same opinion that women should get equal share and recognition and hence, be it even crime, one should not deprive women of equality there.

All I have to say is...
"Not everyone is Guilty by Virtue of Being a Man,
Not everyone is Innocent by Virtue of Being A Woman,
Crime Committers are Criminals,
They should be dealt with no reservations on Gender Bias."

Even, Anjali Gupta should be dealt without gender bias, I feel equality should be everywhere, in progress and in punishment too. She should be given a fair chance and equal treatment given to a male in law.

My message is straight to those femilitants disguised as reporters or pressurising reporters who under an umbrella of coveted Newspapers and Media brands are trying to prove that everytime a women is found guilty, the court is at fault, they go scott free on critisicm despite of sexist headline like Anjali fired because she is a woman? Not to forget cases where the women was found fooling even the Supreme Court on sexual harassment charges and succeeding in proving herself innocent at the cost of punishing the victim. Their articles also discourage the new women, in reconsidering their careers in respective fields like Air Force, why stop there progressive aspirations? Just to prove the men guilty?

The empowerment should be actually encouraged ubiquitously and treated 3 dimensionally. There should be no Aitraaz in careers like Air Force or any. And, why monopolize law for anyone?

This is just another example on how women Misuse the Law to level charges or mislead law. I ask, How safe it is to have bills like domestice violence with no back up machinery for punishing the Abusers who land up misleading and wasting time of the Honorable Courts of Law?


Jinesh Zaveri.

Thursday, December 08, 2005

CC to eKta Kapoor

While my Victim brothers are rightly thinking of making a movie on 498A misuse by Indian bahu on their In-Laws, I feel we should contact a more powerful media that is Television and make a tele-serial on the said topic. Who else but the most powerful person would be appropriate for the same? You said it, 'Ekta Kapoor'.

I do not hate eKta Kapoor anymore. But once upon a time I used to… coz her serials inspired my other half too to imitate. And the rest is History.

But in retrospect, now I feel the ‘awareness’ that we are expecting the world to get, is done better by eKta Kapoor since almost half a decade now. Seriously, Only if ‘I’ had watched those serials and I would have know that it is so true even in real life, then I would have never fallen for this thing called marriage.
I get calls from my friends and near ones to stop blogging and switch on the TV just to see a particular negative character that would suggest them to update me. Later they would curse the serials but I feel there are good characters too and if at all one wants to copy they can copy them as well. Then why just bad ones.

I would correct myself and atone for the fact that eKta Kapoor may well be one of major awareness creators of the actual face of life that is unknown to this glamour world where only male is shown as the bad creature. And the fact the women can be real real baddies.

But now coming to the point eKtaji is *Why don’t you make a serial on a victim of false 498A, where the character misuses the section 498A on the hero and his family members and how they fight against the loop holes of the law that facilitate the vamps and villains and the hero and his family is in deep shit?*
I bet the episodes would be never-ending.

By the way, what do you all think we should name the serial as? “KKadvaa Such” or “Koi Bharatiya Kutumb Ko Bhachao”

Any more names? Go ahead and comment.

But Seriously,

Jinesh Zaveri.

Friday, December 02, 2005

498-B and NCM

Dear(?) NCW and Dear All,

While we males once have worked so hard to make Women Empowerment a success, we are sure our efforts have not been futile. Take own cases, where our helping hand given resulted in backfiring on us, we have been a saga of Victim acting as valid evidence to prove that women are empowered today.

Now it is time for you to ‘B’e Just and ‘B’e Practical, and have a ‘B’ack up plan for those who misuse Section 498A. We are being forced to agree to your plight in not diluting the IPC Section 498A.

As we may be also forced to accept that males have no other work but to only bash and that to only to their wives, which is strongly refuted by all of us. In that case may be next time the women can look out for better options other than males, as you all deserve the best. (Options other than males, well you know better). And that is why, according to your perception on males will make section 498A, remain in its original form, that is Non Bailable, Non-Compoundable and Cognizable offence.

Now we are not telling you to handle this issue coz you are already burdened.
Let me talk straight, have a backup plan in terms of 498B and also having NCM, that is W inverted to M, National Council of Men.
We would take care of all this after all we are also concerned to help you in releasing you from extra work. After all nobody can have Cake and eat it too.

If all males are bad, bashers and abusers and non ambitious to have a happy family, then where would one find a good creature that belongs to the male gender? I feel NCM will have that solution, there might be a few atleast who may join NCM and be able candidates too. They will be as neutral and concerned as NCW.

But like we encouraged you once upon a time and wished success to NCW, Now, we need you to 'B'e a sport, ‘B’e encouraging and ‘B’e positive towards gender harmony. In race to Save Indian Families.
In introducing 498-B and NCM.


Jinesh Zaveri.