I became an ardent fan of Tendulkar only because of his Father. Whom I had met at Patkar College Goregaon Mumbai, in Nov 1997 in a 4L Elocution Competition. I was that time a pompous manager of Aptech who had sponsored the competition. I reached late to the event as a busy manager, then sat on an empty chair next to an Old Humble Gentleman. To all college Students who were aptechites and participating in the competition I was loudly clapping and trying to impress the Old Gentleman by conveying him that I was a young manager from Aptech.
This continued for awhile, the competition got over and the judges were introduced at length and then it was turn of one Marathi Poet, Writer, Professor of Kirti College, Mr Ramesh Tendulkar who was also Father of Sachin Tendulkar and this gentleman next to me got up and went on the stage and he was so humble, I felt so embarrassed on my pompousness. Later, I too was invited for a cup of tea with the judges and I had the priviledge of shaking hands with this Gentleman twice, once while the first intro and later while begging leave.
While we were leaving the staff room I saw Tendulkar Sir being surrounded by the college students good in number. All wanting an autograph. And I just asked myself what have I done for my dad so far? Some days later I woke up and cried in the middle of the night with the same regret of not having given a single chance to my dad to feel proud of me. And I promised myself to give my best in my work. Meanwhile I came across the Radio Announcer Hunt at the All India Radio and I put in my best just because of the Tendulkars Aura that was felt live at Patkars. I got selected as an Announcer with All India Radio. And I said Thanks to the Tendulkar Father and Son, witnessing whom I learnt to achieve without pompousness and by putting best.
Coming on to today’s Point
The desperate Feminists have now hijacked the mind of Humble ICONS. Tendulkar has spoken something with regards to the responsibility of a male and Domestic Violence Awareness and who would not speak? but may be he is not aware of the facts. Such organizations fool such humble people with false surveys and stats supported by hand in glove media. And get statements out of ICONS, market them to get funds and then misuse for manufacture of more false statistics by filing false cases and feed the corrupt pockets and fill the innocent minds with help of media Captivity. And its my moral duty to inform this Proud Mumbai Indian about the truth.
The condition of an Indian Husband (Perceived V/s Real).
Indian Husbands do not have a provision to record a cognizable offence and Indian Wives have the power to record a false FIR that will attract jail to the entire family of Indian husbands. Proven Misuse of 98% as per NCRB and Acknowledged by Supreme court as Legal Terrorism. to get rid of this misuse of law Domestic Violence has been framed where one can lie and get the demands fulfilled from the court without being caught. Even Girija Vyas has been caught agreeing on this point.
Married Men Continue to commit suicides and their data is hidden. People Speak of 30K married women committing suicides year on year but no one want to talk, publish, telecast, research the fact from NCRB data that every year almost double married men commit suicide, 58000 in yr 2007 alone. Indian Husbands are like Tendulkar’s Batting without bat.
Buckonered Dismissals by System and Society.
The husband is a helpless Sachin with the burden of the team (Work, Home, Family) and the System including Police, judges are all Bucknors who arguably has given most wrong and harsh decisions against Sachin in this case Indian Husbands. Be it Alimony, 498a, 406, child custody etc, you name it and its all against the Hubby.
Society and Similarity between Sachin and Indian Husbands:
If You play well then you are labeled as bound to play and if you are in a lean patch, all would criticize. In case of Hubbies too yes friends, Society, Courts etc will never listen to the plea of the hubby as he is strictly duty bound where as the Wife is strictly Right Bound with no duties attached to her.
Learning from Sachin:
To name a few sledgers Mark Taylor, Mervin Hughes, Wasim Akram to Abdul Qadir all have got in to massive confessions of sledging on Tendulkar, bowling bodylines, Targetting him and keeping a watch. But he has kept calm. Similarly Indian Husbands have the Taylors
to Symonds of the World in their Wives’ Nagging but they have to keep calm. But the Advantage that Sachin has is he can talk with his bat by hammering the opposition, Indian Husbands on the other end are not allowed to react else they are charged of verbal Domestic Violence and its other fragments. Hence Indian Husbands are Losers unlike Sachin on Field who has his basic strength execution with him. Husbands on the other hand are victims of the violation of Basic Constituional right of Article 14 of not being discrminated on basis of Creed, Sex.
Sachin said that "I never played with a runner in my entire life, even in schools, because only I know where the ball is going and how hard, when I hit the ball, something my runner will never know about"
. Similarly do not depend totally on the lawyer who acts as a runner and may run you out. plan your own strategy and have a team like SIF and call the shots by being in control of the situation.
Appeal to Sachin:
One does not have to be a cancer patient to support the Cancer Cause, Similarly being happily married does not stop one from supporting the Slient Innocent Indian Husbands and his innocent parents and siblings. Dear Sachin, do Mention your reservation on Misuse of the Law on Innocent Sr citizen Parents and Mothers and Sisters of Husband, Do oppose the misuse of law by the Unscruplous Wives. And Do support the truth. The Let the world know that you are not against innocents and with the hidden criminals. Data is out, thanks to RTI. Now there is no secrecy and fooling of Humble Icons.
I have always prayed for you as you are my IDOL of life, I danced better than my Nephew today when you got your Double Ton in One day today. As a younger brother, I request you to Please pray for the Innocents and do not fall prey to supporting of a Group that is destructive under the carpet and project a false cause. I am sure you will not disappoint the Innocent Indian Husbands. Your Statement Matters a Lot. We take you very seriously. I hope you recognise our plight.
Once again, Congratulations on the Double TON. This feat according to me is the best in making you Immortal on the Pages of History.
For the Family Welfare of Indian Husbands,
Yours Mumbai Indian,