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Women go to the police with a complaint (may be false), but the system provides to record that as a criminal complaint and that data adds in to the National Statistics of Crime Against Women. When male goes with a genuine complaint the police at max can record a Non Cognizable offence against the women. That will never reflect in the statistics. Then how will one guage crime against men?
Every 100 Suicides in India have 63 Males and 37 Females. Every 100 male suicides have 45 married males, and every 100 women suicides have 25 married Women. Married women suicides have default arrests of the inlaws under presumed dowry death. Married men suicides entitle wife for a 50% share in property.
What kind of equality is this?
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Emotions of Males have no value.
Most of the times they are not even considered to be existing and if they do,
they are not respected and understood correctly. Hence, also often blamed on
failure for not executing things well as they are never analyzed emotionally. There is generally a feeling of doing a favor on men while doing anything for them.
My elder senior colleague had
witnessed me as a newly married husband, then a husband coping with the
marriage, a struggling husband and a separated husband contemplating peaceful
divorce. She was one of the rare persons who digged deep and made me speak out
and feel light. She had gifted me one wonderful book "Why Men Don't Listen and Woman Can't read Maps".
Somedays back I was reminded of
this BOOK and its Content Again. It was when, I stumbled upon TD
Jakes' Video "Hemotions" while I was surfing for Joyce Meyers on youtube. Both of them have one thing in common and that is Sensitivity for Men as Human.
Pastor TD Jakes explains
wonderfully about MAN and what the tip-of-the-tip-of-this iceberg is all about. He calls
it HEmotions in one way.
Few Noteworthy Points in the
"must see" powerful video, and some of them from the book and other observations of mine.
Point 1: Men Suffer.
Point 2: Men talk straight to the
Point 3: Men don’t discuss when
they are thinking.
Point 4: Men Suffer Silently and they readily don’t respond when
they are asked about their problem.
Point 5: Men withdraw into their
Mental Caves in search of introspection and solution. Men Stare and mentally process
within while they appear to watch TV or play with their Gizmos or superficially
engage in some activity or just stare blankly, this can be a very long process
across days in search of a solution.
Point 6: Men are vulnerable, Men
are Humans, they too have Emotions.
Point 7: V IMP: A) MEN are
programmed to (measure) rate themselves by SCORES even emotionally, because they are
programmed to participate in Playing, maintaining ranks etc. They are wired
like that. This scoring pattern is all about being “at-par if not better” in
scores on planes of Earnings, authority etc with everyone around right from colleagues,
relatives or relations including spouse. So that the spouse genuinely admires them and not compromisingly.
B) With Spouse it also includes even
scores of one’s PAST in personal relations (v imp), men are happy if their
scores are better off or atleast EQUAL but NOT inferior. If they are personally
satisfied with scores then proudly they would flatter their lady publicly. It is
motivating for them to have better scores on personal front in majority of the
cases. While outwardly they would happily admit they are inferior because
inwardly they feel superior and secure. Remember they are competitive in
If they feel inferior then they
begin with fighting the situation and on realizing that damage cannot be
undone, they quit. Coz they are warriors by heart and they like to
WIN. If they hang around they are not settled they literally die of disease
fighting mentally, coping up.
C) They may love their counterparts even while
they are quitting. It is just that they’ve tried their very best to fight out
and they are convinced that they too can’t handle it as humans. They too take
time recuperating. They continue to suffer silently. Some lucky ones turn to
god, others get into a counterproductive loop of addiction.
D) IMP: If they are unsuccessful
in taking a flight trying to be a MAN or take too long to recover even after
flight (quitting), they land up with diseases on the outward front- could be stress,
anxiety, diabetes, blood-pressure etc; and they commit suicide or die early
because of pressure, often labeled as work stressed. However death would be the
ultimate flight and the real reasons on personal front would die with him most
of the times and no one would know that they were emotionally stressed at
personal front too as lesser know as humans and more as MEN.
A "lot to write" but as of now….….WATCH
THIS VIDEO that says ITS HARD TO BE A MAN. I feel it is even HARDER…..
Summary Video (must watch):
Detailed Video (must watch):
Thank You Pastor T D Jakes for this wonderful Sermon. (I cry and cry alot when I hear you, and feel you Understand).
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