Bow Wow: Indian Police on Indian men
I witnessed two cases where the attitude of police was clearly not in favor of the male. One of them being matrimonial which will be discussed when the right time will come, but as of now I would discuss a case that is not a matrimonial but a dispute between 2 genders. This time it’s the neighbors.
34 year old Shyam would not have taken a drastic step to lodge a complain to the society against his neighbor who must be 40 something if he was not aware how vulnerable he is to the chalak Indian women are when they make a ruckus for attention seeking and pressurizing. It was a matter of clearing the dump that belonged to Shyams Neighbors and was piled up at the doorstep of Shyams flat.
Shyams request was turned down very arrogantly and an embarrassing scene was created as his lady neighbor came rushing on him while arguing, thus increasing the chances of a physical contact, to which Shyam resisted and avoided any physical contact while arguing. But later she called it a physical assault on her by Shyam. And gave a statement to the police that she was slapped by Shyam and as usual there was no witness required for this.
Shyam was called on Sunday by the police. Being Sunday we all decided to have our meeting at the Nalasopara Police Station on Shyam’s request. On meeting Shyam the police took off with a high pitch voice. And this is what I witnessed with 9 other SIF Members.
I felt that police was nothing less than a lawyer for the lady, and later it was worst we all felt that he was like a dog with Neck Belt chained to the lady, so loyal and unconditional to her. It went like this.
Police: You are Shyam?
Police: Bow Wow Bow Wow Tumhare khilaf FIR Hoga woof arf.
Shyam: ?????…….Karo!!!! (Police ka popat, as he expected Shyam to pee in his pants, unaware that he is a trained SIFian and more over a master of procedures due to past experience and ignorance at womens cell)
Police: Bow Wow Tumne ek lady ko Thappad Mara Grrrr woof .
Shyam: Wo to uska statement hai, aap ko mera bhi statement lena padega jo mein dene aaya hu
Police: Statement nahi lunga, BOW WOW FIR Hoga BOW WOW BOW WOW; (Pointing to us) yeh log kaun society wale hai? BOW WOW BOW WOW (Trying pressure tactics on us)
And we all stood with our chest wide and SIF TShirts.
Shyam: Sirji, hum log ka yeh hi kaam hai weekends ko
Shyam: Harassed husbands ko counseling karna including their family members, that is siblings and parents. Hum ko procedures ka idea hai. Main apna statement laaya hu, aap pls is par received ka stamp lagakar ek copy mujhe return kijiye.
I spoke: Sirji yeh hi to problem hai, aap bhi kuch nahi kar sakte ho siva apne haathon false statistics ko manufacture hota dekh, wo bhi helplessly. Because a complainant is a lady. But RTI ke figures chaukadene wale hai, supreme court ne accept kiya ke 98% cases law misuse ka shikar hai.
Police: (no more bow wow, now a cow) ok ok haan phir humko to 498a lagana hi padta hai….(pui pui pui…..) and makes a face.
I Spoke: Sir aaj bhi waisa hi case hai na, aurat apne aurat hone ka najaiz faida nahi uthae to behtar hai.
Police: (Jumping to this case) Nahi nahi Hum log to khali bithake baat karenge aamne saamne. Sort our karange. (pui pui pui) (F.I.R PHUSSSSS)
Then shyam gave a briefing of SIF. (The Police more than understood and went and sat at the corner because he knew he was wrong).
Later the complainant lady reached and she tried to cry and what not and was surprised to see that police was quite sobered down than her expectations as police knew that they was dealing with someone who was already harassed and cannot be taken on ride. Really sad she could not witness the BOW WOW of police on Shyam.
The police tried to make it a warning case and asked Shyam to sign it but being aware that police are under some pressure (Maybe bribe or upar se call) he realized the trap coz signing would have given the lady a chance to lodge a 2nd false complaint once again against him post so called accepted warning and then coz more trouble. They bullied that they were registering a 504 but Shyam said even he is entitled to be heard. The police tried to bully him that the matter will be referred to the court if Shyam is not agreeing to sign and Shyam agreed to fight it out in court rather than signing on paper. And insisted that his statement has to be accepted. Police accepted the statement with a lot of embarrassment of having being exposed, the lady watching with a surprise. Police started explaining the surprised lady the procedures as it must have been different version to her now rather than the standard sidha-kar-denge attitude.
The false complainant couple was clueless as they thought vardi’s pressure and lady’s tears would do the trick once again. But sad enough for them, panga SIF ke saath tha. Finally no FIR was lodged and the lady has removed all the garbage outside Shyam’s house.
I tell you all, Shyam (now one of the strongest counselors with SIF) if was not SIF Member he would have been a victim of a false statistics once again. In meetings we introduce each other with our favorite statements to the new victims, that initially when Shyam was harassed by police he had come to me (SIF) for counseling with loose motions but now is capable of giving anyone loose motions who would bully him on false grounds. SIF Zindabad.
Coming back to the point is, this reflects a lot on how police manipulate and make money from innocent victims esp males and how vulnerable are Indian Males. And moreover police’s attitude of being bought by a devil woman for whom they would be no less than a lawyer or a Barking Pet Dog. The same happens in a false 498a, 406 too. The husband faces nuisance of wife, Police and then State who fights in favor of the non compoundable false case against the tax paying husband with no holds barred under the carpet.
Anyways they manufacture statistics and the strong byproduct is a self made SIF Counselor. A grave that they are digging with a misuse of the shield.