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IPC Section 498-A: Misuse

Dedicated to the Victimised Indian Families, Who are falsely threatened & Blackmailed by the Indian Daughters-In-Law & her family members, and those Victimised families who are already falsely charged under the Section 498A. Its all about False charges of Dowry Law, Domestic Violence, Alimony, Marriage and Divorce. NOTE: All articles are my personal copyright. They may be republished if the source is acknowledged and a link provided to this site. This is not an Anti-Women Blog. Read Disclaimer.

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Women go to the police with a complaint (may be false), but the system provides to record that as a criminal complaint and that data adds in to the National Statistics of Crime Against Women. When male goes with a genuine complaint the police at max can record a Non Cognizable offence against the women. That will never reflect in the statistics. Then how will one guage crime against men? Every 100 Suicides in India have 63 Males and 37 Females. Every 100 male suicides have 45 married males, and every 100 women suicides have 25 married Women. Married women suicides have default arrests of the inlaws under presumed dowry death. Married men suicides entitle wife for a 50% share in property. What kind of equality is this? I thank you for visiting my blog, Please visit again. And I welcome you to participate on my Blog. [indianhusbands (at-the-rate) yahoo (dot) com]. Click here for Main Page

Monday, January 25, 2010

He is a Man, He is a Human too - A Tribute to MEN

He was born for a Purpose,
Inherited with no choice,
on revolt he is often accused,
of having a loud voice.

He Dies for the Nation,
he is a protector of generations,
This unsung Hero,
sadly is valued a Zero.

Religious but sinner,
An obvious bread winner,
He always needs to strive,
for his family to survive,

Gets the blame in the game,
pays through nose as per laws,
He does his every bit,
But never gets any credit.

He grows with a burden,
of money that he should earn,
sweat out his whole life,
Churn and Burn.

He is reminded who he is,
whenever he wants to cry,
responsible he is,
he just cannot shy.

When he talks of his rights,
People often make Fun,
Lets face it, Dear world....
We've missed out on this one...

He is a FATHER,
he is a BROTHER,
he is a HUSBAND,
he is a SON....

He is a man
He is a man
He is a man
He is a Human.

He is a Human.

* * * * * * * * * * *

I was discussing with Grant Medical College Group of students (Mumbai) who have shown a very constructive interest and sensibility towards the issue of a Battered Husband and the syndrome that a male suffers from as a trauma which is a result of tension related to modern marital life. And this Poem was born, as I penned down these lines. I wish them all the success in their Battered Husband Syndrome Project.

This above poem is a tribute to Man.
Phrase 1: He was born for a purpose and has inherited the prime responsibility of growing up and earning for the family, as everyone wishes they should have a son coz he can inherit the responsbilities as a son and take care of the family financially and physically. He is often attached to responsibilities of respecting everyone at the cost of his dignity everytime that he talks about self.

Phrase 2: He makes laws for the world but the world has forgotten to include him.

Phrase 3: He is religious, god fearing but like valmiki commited crimes by looting for his family he too has to commit crimes for feeding the family, but in return he gets nothing.

Phrase 4: The law treats him like an ATM and above all he is ridiculed.

Phrase 5: He is forced in to child labour and always taught to earn, save and spend on others in family first.

Phrase 6: He cannot even express himself emotionally as he is burdened as a male and later labelled as emotionless.

Phrase 7: He is always being mocked at everytime he talks of his rights. Lets face we have neglected him by burdening him as a favourite only in books.

Phrase 8: He can be one of them to you dear reader, a father, brother, husband or son.

Phrase 9: He is a man, He is a Human too.

- Jinesh Zaveri.

Saturday, January 02, 2010

Atrocities on Husbands Ignored, Bias Continues...

When a women suffers there is a correct concern but when a male suffers nobody is bothered. May be the facts are not allowed to be presented correctly.

On Zee 24 Tas on Men's Day, One Lady Lawyer argued that amendments cannot be made just because few men are suffering. (I will soon upload the movie) the fact remains that not just men but his entire family suffers which is been treated with a deaf ear (98% of the recorded complaints are false, Source NCRB, Supreme Court called it a Legal Terrorism).

Meanwhile One Ruchika's SUICIDE case has been able to give ammendments to the law, just because she was a girl and people are interested in pressurising the Government. I call ammendments as a welcome step, but my concerns on misuse check do not subside. I will soon discuss about them, once the Brouhaha is over and the matter is more stable.

But as of now what is concerning is the bias by the Media towards women and against men as NO ONE is concerned about the misuse. And nobody is talking about plugging the same. (I have a lot to talk).

If we look at suicides Year on Year they are Dominated By Males, but all are concerned about women. Even Todays TOI spoke about 15% Rise in Complaints against Husbands for Matrimonial Disputes quoting NCRB with biased headlines Crimes against women rise fastest.

But, in a clear bias, what was conveniently forgotten / eliminated / hidden / Overshadowed was the suicides by Indian Husbands YoY that are 'almost DOUBLE' than Wives. Here is the Data from the same NCRB. Check this out. And sadly nothing is being done despite our Call. Infact Males and Husbands are ridiculed as handful of victims who suffer.

Suicides 2007 India

Never Married






Grand Total

Every 100 Suicides

Married Suicide per 100

Avg Suicides Per Day in 2007 (Rounded Off)

Avg Suicides Per Day in 2007 of Married Men and Women (Rounded Off)

Avg Suicides per Hour

Avg Suicides per Hour in 2007 of Married Men and Women (Rounded Off)

Criminal and crimes do not have Gender. Hence the law too should not be gender biased. There has to be a Ministry for Men and National Commission for Men too. They deserve it as they are 82% of Tax Payers.

Some of the Many Bugs that remain to be fixed in 2010:
1. Suo Motu Punishment for Misuse of any Law attracting the same amount of Punishment as the Misused IPC Section, applicable for the entire mass who has committed misuse, irrespective of gender.
2. Introduction for a Machinery for recording of Complaints by Males against females as Cognizable offenses.
3. Domestic Violence Act be made Spouse Centric.
4. Fair Investigation before Arrests.
5. Mother and Sisters of Husbands Treated as Women and be protected from Wives under IPC to the likes of 498a.
6. Senior Citizens be also protected from Atrocities from Daughters and Daughters In Law.
7. Making Alimony law more Constructive.
8. Dowry Prohibition Law 3 & 4 made equally effective (Giving and Taking Dowry both should be treated as crime out of the books as well)
9. Execution of  Crpc 41 (a) in case of 498a instead of direct belated arrests on friday of innocent families of husband.
10. Suicide by Husband should be treated as a SOWRY death and the State should fight and investigate the matter fully with Wife and her relatives too.

 Its better to amend (DEBUG) rather than just talking like some LOUSY Politicians that "the laws are bound to be misused, they must stop being Baised and Stop pretending sleep."

Let there be 360 Degree Amendments on BUGS.

Jai Hind.

Jinesh Zaveri.