Choose 1: Better Jail for Hubbies or Funding a Terrorist?
Money is anyway going from our pockets, so let us Use it for Constructing a better and Separate Jail for Husbands rather than Funding a Financial Terrorist.
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I would quote Sant Kabir on begging.....
“Mangan Maran Saman Hai,
Mat Koi Mange Bheekh,
Mangan Se Marna Bhala,
Yeh Satguru Ki Seekh”
Translation: "Begging is like perishing, none should go imploring, It is better to die than beg, this is pure Guru's teaching". This applies to both husband and wife and their sides (Dowry Species).
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When the girl leaves the house just because she has an ego of earning on her own and being an able 21st century women, why is it that in the room of courts she changes her lingo to a lie of dependency. Just because she gets the facility of real monster alimony?
This article is written keeping in mind those couples capable of working, who have had a dowryless marriage and have been associated for a very short while and have got into endless loops of negotiations for alimony, where husbands have to shell money with no logic in binding.
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Dada Bhagwan said in Gujarati: “Pota na Hak nu Khai te Manushya thai, Anhak nu khai tey janavar thai, hakknu bijane aapi de to devgati thai, ane annhakknu maari ne le toh narkgati ma jai.Translation: (If you eat what belong to you then you get a life of a Human, If you eat from what is not yours then you become animal, if you donate what belongs to you then you get heaven, and if you snatch someone else’s rightful belonging then you get hell.)
Jainism also talks about good and ill effects of Supatradan and Kupatradan (donation to Deserving and underserving characters.)
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The whole idea here is not to Lavish Care on an adult because it belong to a gender called female, it should be observed that she is able bodied and needs to be enabled with capabilities. To avoid the misuse of civil disobedience I would quote Gandhi “non cooperation of evil is equally important as is co-operation with evil”
During interviews on various national channels in india post the implementation of the Shameful DV Act, most women were happy to have a loosly drafted law that would terrorise the husbands. And they confessed that such a terror to the husband and his family is good rather than an equal law, thus justifying the misuse as their safety.
To such a harsh attitude, I would suggest the husbands to take a stand of disobedience to the ritual called alimony (SOWRY) and populate the jail. Well, it invokes a criminal procedure code amounting to Jail term to husband in case of contempt "But then its better to go to jail rather than funding a Terrorist who would settle scores with false cases in order to get their desired unjustified alimony". Lets become a majority in Jails and then have a separate cell for Husbands. If NCM is made we can allocate the funds for "special jail of husbands of educated wives" for violating the alimony law.
Let it start in the educated middle class sector where it is required, as Gandhi also committed this crime and made british to change their stand of pretending sleep.
Why be afraid of jails? The possible reasons are…
1. Badnaami (loss of reputation): Yaar Abhi kaunsi izzat bachchi hai. Aur itni badnaami ke baad paise kyu dene, time bhi to khoti hua. The damage to the image is already done and why pay a fine for our defamation and trauma? so jail is better option. We work hard and pay a share to govt and another to the legal trouble maker? No way.
1. Badnaami (loss of reputation): Yaar Abhi kaunsi izzat bachchi hai. Aur itni badnaami ke baad paise kyu dene, time bhi to khoti hua. The damage to the image is already done and why pay a fine for our defamation and trauma? so jail is better option. We work hard and pay a share to govt and another to the legal trouble maker? No way.
2. Well the people around us would be criminals and terrorists in the lock up: Yaar shaadi se bada terror attack aur kaunsa ho sakta hai and terrorists ko jhelna shaadi ne sikha hi dia hai. (Some people do not fear terrorist, for they were married for some years in their life) All are as fearless as Major Unnikrishnan.
3. As explaied... Jail Bharo regularly: Never give them your obedience. Automatically the population of decent harassed victimized husbands would increase and this will create a special scope for a Jail or Cell exclusively for husbands.
--> These Professionals or Techie husbands in turn can serve the police by maintaining their websites, teach the lower cadre police with good speaking/ communication skills in English. Can help the police department in the IT Division on a great scale by automating their procedures. Do good backend jobs for the police under station arrests. And front end guys can attend phone calls and do coordination. For basically they are not criminals but are fighting the bugs in the system. And also empowering the system with their strengths.
--> These Professionals or Techie husbands in turn can serve the police by maintaining their websites, teach the lower cadre police with good speaking/ communication skills in English. Can help the police department in the IT Division on a great scale by automating their procedures. Do good backend jobs for the police under station arrests. And front end guys can attend phone calls and do coordination. For basically they are not criminals but are fighting the bugs in the system. And also empowering the system with their strengths.
Let us mean independence. Making her legally dependant and calling it independence, freedom and empowerment is a noteworthy contradiction. Lets Break that.
Let us allocate our funds for a special jail only for husbands rather than funding a Legal Terrorist. After contributing to 80% of the taxes, "Apni aazadi ko hum Hargiz Mita sakte Nahi, Sar Kata Sakte hai lekin Sar jhuka sakte nahi..."
The fight is not just with the otherhalf but with the system,
Jinesh Zaveri.
Labels: Alimony, jail, ministry for men, ncm
posted by IndianHusbands | 10:53 PM
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